Update: Help with LEO!

This topic was created in the Leo forum by CancerianGoddess on Monday, October 25, 2010 and has 9 replies.

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@CancerianGoddess
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

So i havent heard from him in a month, which is natural. So he finally texts me sunday. I told him i was just too tired. Than i asked him "How many F-Buddies do you have exactly" he replie with "4 why?" i said "Just curious" than he texts me back with "How many do you have?" i said "Only you, guess i am lame huh?" so he never replied and i didnt send a message back. Than Monday 12:30am came and he called me wanting to come over. This time, he brings a back pack and says he is gonna stay the night and asks me "Its cool right?" im like, well yea sure! Than he wants a pictur of u for his phone, and before he leave he tells me my Boost Mobile phone isnt good enough and for me to sell it to his friend of 3 years. I am like, yea than what will i do? He said "I Will put you on my phone plan" And he also invited me to come see him play soccer...Does it sound like he still mean just friends?

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Er, yeah, it's still not clear yet. I would easily offer to put a friend I've known for a long time on my phone plan (assuming that the friend has proven themselves trustworthy to not screw me over).

I'm sure he got quite an ego boosting kick out of you telling him that he was your only fwb. It doesn't mean feelings have necessarily changed but they could be leaning that way. It seems like he might be trying you out for size as a "potential". You know, still weighing out the pros and cons.

Just remember, if he's a typical lion anyway, that you will definitely know what's on his mind. It's hard for a storybook leo to hide feelings, attractions, and desires for too long. We're far too expressive to keep it to ourselves.

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@CancerianGoddess
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Ugh he never showed up, so i texted him "Good night" at 3:00am and he texted me at 8:00am "I fell asleep" i sent him a text that it was okay, and he hasnt texted since. UGH!!!!!!! It drives me crazy he waits like a day to respond, wtf? Grrrrrr

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@CancerianGoddess
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Still no text back. If he ever texts back, thats it, i am not responding. Although i did that before, and after 15 messages i replied "Im not home" and his response was "Yes you are i am on my way" am i that transparent? damn, he showed up in like 20 minutes lol

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@xxxLeogalxxx
16 Years

You need to STOP being a yes miss girl! This Leo needs a woman that will challenge him. Dont just allow him to call the shots like this, especially if you want him for more than FWB. Stop being sooooo available to him! Make him sweat a bit too. :0)

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@sucha_d0ll
17 YearsCancer

Posted by xxxLeogalxxx
You need to STOP being a yes miss girl! This Leo needs a woman that will challenge him. Dont just allow him to call the shots like this, especially if you want him for more than FWB. Stop being sooooo available to him! Make him sweat a bit too. :0)

Agreed.

Sounds like you might need to take your Leo down a few pegs. Next time you're in a position of his choosing - advise him that not only are you not at home - you're on a date with another man.