maria1995
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what he f... with this leo man?
So he's sweet until he gets sex, then he ignores you.
Yes, very perplexing.
Yes, very perplexing.
Posted by WynterYeah but just for one/two days max.... He never ignored me for too long...
So he's sweet until he gets sex, then he ignores you.
Yes, very perplexing.
When I say ignore me i mean he doesnt start the convertation... i know if i send him or call him he will answer (i think).... but last time i asked him to go out so his turn
(i know it's silly this logic, I don't follow it only when I have good relationships..)
But it's an empty relationship. You should go out with other people, in this case.
You can bet he is, don't fool yourself.
You can bet he is, don't fool yourself.
Sounds like he just wants to know he has you mentally, and as long as he feels he does then he's chillin'…
Start looking more available.
Start looking more available.
Posted by WynterI don't mind about the fact it's not THE romantic relationship..... But I can't stand no communication for 1 week.... There isn't anything I can do?
But it's an empty relationship. You should go out with other people, in this case.
You can bet he is, don't fool yourself.
Posted by AriElla7not available you mean? 1 week is too much and i think maybe is his way to beak it up... i dont know...should i wait or should i text first?
Sounds like he just wants to know he has you mentally, and as long as he feels he does then he's chillin'…
Start looking more available.
Lol I am having the exact same thing. So after awhile I guess the best choice is just ignore him, being friends (or maybe a lil bit more than "friends" but that's all). Still kissing, holding hands, being lovey dovey when we meet, but that 's it.
In the end, it's hard to not let feelings get involved, but now to me it's like "relaxing time" after a long week (since I only meet him in the weekend).
You still can send him mess but in my experience, I stopped already. I see no point now, lol. Just like casual dating. If later my feelings evolve more, then I'll quit (maybe in one or two-month time, this will occur).
Also, they're right, go see someone else. Get yourself more chances. Or do sth else (my case, I'm going to take new courses after work). Do things to get urself busy. Then he won't be in ur mind or priority anymore (since, tbh, u're not his either, rite...?)
And hun, I guess he may go out with someone else now (sorry thou. 1 week w/o communication is a red flag).
Good luck hun ~.
In the end, it's hard to not let feelings get involved, but now to me it's like "relaxing time" after a long week (since I only meet him in the weekend).
You still can send him mess but in my experience, I stopped already. I see no point now, lol. Just like casual dating. If later my feelings evolve more, then I'll quit (maybe in one or two-month time, this will occur).
Also, they're right, go see someone else. Get yourself more chances. Or do sth else (my case, I'm going to take new courses after work). Do things to get urself busy. Then he won't be in ur mind or priority anymore (since, tbh, u're not his either, rite...?)
And hun, I guess he may go out with someone else now (sorry thou. 1 week w/o communication is a red flag).
Good luck hun ~.
Posted by maria1995I meant more available to other peoplePosted by AriElla7not available you mean? 1 week is too much and i think maybe is his way to beak it up... i dont know...should i wait or should i text first?
Sounds like he just wants to know he has you mentally, and as long as he feels he does then he's chillin'…
Start looking more available.click to expand
Posted by Wynterhaha right! I haven't been on this site for months and months and we are STILL getting the "hot and cold Leo" type threads!
So he's sweet until he gets sex, then he ignores you.
Yes, very perplexing.
Oh this is soo frustrating as a woman to see you being used for sex and left with nothing but disappointment 😢 that's why I don't partake in any of that FWB or fuck buddy nonsense.
I know if we are getting intimate my expectations will be be for respect and communication I just can't play like that.
I know if we are getting intimate my expectations will be be for respect and communication I just can't play like that.
Posted by maria1995I wouldn't DREAM of texting this man.Posted by WynterI don't mind about the fact it's not THE romantic relationship..... But I can't stand no communication for 1 week.... There isn't anything I can do?
But it's an empty relationship. You should go out with other people, in this case.
You can bet he is, don't fool yourself.click to expand
Ugh... self respect, please-- he's compromising yours.
I know you like him, but it's funny... if he was all up in your business,
and wouldn't leave you alone, you probably wouldn't be so hung up
on him.
What is it that you like about him, exactly... ?
What is it that makes him soo amazing?
Posted by maria1995You have a Fuck buddy situation
Well.... we havesomething between relationship and open relationship.....he was hot n cold all the time. when we are together he is always sweet and when we are apart hesometimes ignores me(not all the time...mainly after the days we sleep together ).
Our kind of relationship is not actually open, cause we said that we won't go out with other ppl, we just have a casual relationship.
The problem is that I haven't heard from him since wednesday. almost 1 week..... I see him online sometimes (yesterday was whole day)...
What you suggest me to do? I don't mind about 1-2 days without communication... but 1 week?it is first time....
Should I send him sth and if yes what kind of msg? or is there the possibility he found another girl or get bored with me out of blue so I sould send nothing and wait?
thanks in advance!
haven't been on this site for months and months and we are STILL getting the "hot and cold Leo" type threads!Lol, I'm having the same issue. I don't know the best response to such type, so I decided to be friends and ignore him for a while. May work, or may not, who knows 😄.
Posted by AriesLoveThey would get like that with a 2 pump chumpPosted by SssupesNo I just think a lot of females equate a sexual relationship with a committed relationship. They think because they gave it up a guy is supposed to behave a certain way, treat them with more respect or act like a boyfriend. Men don't think like that though.
That's why everyone stays in the friend zone until they've proven otherwise.click to expand
Posted by AriesLoveExacto!Posted by SssupesNo I just think a lot of females equate a sexual relationship with a committed relationship. They think because they gave it up a guy is supposed to behave a certain way, treat them with more respect or act like a boyfriend. Men don't think like that though.
That's why everyone stays in the friend zone until they've proven otherwise.click to expand
Well actually it's not a game to me, by any means.
Agreed with the whole point "sexual relationship doesn't need to relate to committed relationship". But I'm gradually falling further for him, which is not good since I GUESS he's not that much into me.
We are more than friends (since we smooched intensely, held hands, and he told me how much he wants me, that i drive him crazy and so on..). He said many things that made me feel like he wants to spend time with me, and be around for a long time. He said he wants to spend more time with me, but it's just words, no action.
Then, I told him if he wants to go out seeing other girls and to get to know them more, just tell me right away, and I'm fine with it. And he replied as "I'm not ready for a relationship, but I'll make an effort with you".
It's been 2 months with him, and I know it's quite soon to be in rlationship now, but I need someone to be open to that possibility and seriously consider abt it. I don't need effort, I don't want to be pushy. So, I took a step back.
Told him we should just stay as friend. And he still wanted to see me once a month for dinner. I replied that no scheduled dinner, just go out when both sides want to. I still show him that I care, but keep it casual and randomly only..
Agreed with the whole point "sexual relationship doesn't need to relate to committed relationship". But I'm gradually falling further for him, which is not good since I GUESS he's not that much into me.
We are more than friends (since we smooched intensely, held hands, and he told me how much he wants me, that i drive him crazy and so on..). He said many things that made me feel like he wants to spend time with me, and be around for a long time. He said he wants to spend more time with me, but it's just words, no action.
Then, I told him if he wants to go out seeing other girls and to get to know them more, just tell me right away, and I'm fine with it. And he replied as "I'm not ready for a relationship, but I'll make an effort with you".
It's been 2 months with him, and I know it's quite soon to be in rlationship now, but I need someone to be open to that possibility and seriously consider abt it. I don't need effort, I don't want to be pushy. So, I took a step back.
Told him we should just stay as friend. And he still wanted to see me once a month for dinner. I replied that no scheduled dinner, just go out when both sides want to. I still show him that I care, but keep it casual and randomly only..
update: he sent me just how are you?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
Posted by maria1995You need to figure out what YOU want. Stop worrying about all this texting crap. Y'all aren't even in a relationship. He needs another round of ass and he's hitting you up.
update: he sent me just how are you?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
Need dick? Reply to him
Don't need dick? Ignore his text
Posted by maria1995Two questions:
update: he sent me just how are you?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
Are you falling for him?
Does he know that you are?
Posted by Ilovemyaqua....maybe but not completely...Posted by maria1995Two questions:
update: he sent me just how are you?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
Are you falling for him?
Does he know that you are?click to expand
no he doesnt.... he just knows that i want him
Posted by maria1995I think you need to be clear in your head...if you not really want him,why all this overthinking and posts? That makes me think you want something more than just a casual relationship.Decide.If you're unsure yourself,why worry if the other is not?And as someone stated here,if you want this to go on,go ahead,reply and plan another night,if not, well,then that's a different scenario,you'll have to proceed cautiously in that case.But if you think you're not sure,well,go with thr flow unless you know what you really want.Posted by Ilovemyaqua....maybe but not completely...Posted by maria1995Two questions:
update: he sent me just how are you?
I wanted to ask you if ignorance can make a hot n cold leo to want you more?
Either i will keep it casual, never send him msges and just answer him or ignore him completely... which one it will work?
Are you falling for him?
Does he know that you are?
no he doesnt.... he just knows that i want himclick to expand
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What you suggest me to do? I don't mind about 1-2 days without communication... but 1 week?it is first time....
Should I send him sth and if yes what kind of msg? or is there the possibility he found another girl or get bored with me out of blue so I sould send nothing and wait?
thanks in advance!