Why do Leo become friends with their partner enemies?

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As a Virgo, I’ve had so experiences where I cut people off who have hurt me. That whenever a Leo comes into my life to be there for me. I open up to them and tell them about people who have hurt me, so we could protect each other and avoid them. Then always, ALWAYS Leo’s want to be their friends. Why do they do this?

This doesn’t sit well with Virgo and has caused a lot of break ups cause of this traitor Leo action.
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Now wait one minute there missy.

“So WE could protect each other and avoid them.”

Gurl, who is WE?

People are free to do what they want and be friends who they want.

Was that mutually agreed upon verbally. Or was it your intention to throw salt on someone else because your hurt and don’t want to see that person win or be happy—

This may sound weird but maybe THAT person is a good friend to others whereas it didn’t work out with you. That’s doesn’t mean that person isn’t allowed to form other meaningful relationships.

Let others find their way instead of manipulating the situation.

If someone is trash, people will smell it.

You don’t have to sound the 🚨

Stop telling people all your negative business concerning other people. YOU will start to look like the problem
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Lol I have to agree with dmv here. Dont tell people your problems or dump it all on them thinking they will genuinely care. Your problems are not their problems and there are very little amounts of people who come into your life who will treat them that way.

I had a similar situation with an ex friend and told trusted people about it and they were lie “oh that’s so horrible” but still were the other persons friend. I felt hurt when people were still her friend regardless of the horrible things she did to me...

But she ended up showing her true colors to everyone else. And it is absolutely DELICIOUS, as a Virgo, when I turn out to be right about someone.

So don’t even bother explaining. Let others believe that their experience with that person is ✨different✨ They will find out soon enough as our intuition is almost never wrong.
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You’re a gossip and drama.

Leo wants to see why you slander people that probably aren’t as evil as you claim them to be.

You saying all this bs “to protect them” shows actually your lack of integrity. You want to create drama and alliances because you think you’re always the innocent 😇 one. When you most likely aren’t.

People figure out other peoples character pretty quick when they choose to hate on others.

I’m sure leo finds out quick that you’re the common problem and not these ppl you trash talk.
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Posted by LoveablePlants

As a Virgo, I’ve had so experiences where I cut people off who have hurt me. That whenever a Leo comes into my life to be there for me. I open up to them and tell them about people who have hurt me, so we could protect each other and avoid them. Then always, ALWAYS Leo’s want to be their friends. Why do they do this?

This doesn’t sit well with Virgo and has caused a lot of break ups cause of this traitor Leo action.

Lol yeah been there.. when your gf has a falling out with her "friend" and overnight I'm suppose to treat the other person like trash or ignore them when just last night we were on friendly basis.

Let's not forget the awkwardness when they make up again in the coming days and I'm suppose to pretend I'm cool with her friend again, when I never wasn't to begin with. It's exhausting

No thanks this Leo is through inheriting your drama. Unless the other person has abused or traumatized you in some way then whatever problem u have with them , I probably don't and I won't pretend that I do.
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Also lol @ "enemy". We talking ISIS or 16 year old school antics?

My ex had a falling out with a gf of hers, this person had issues and was drunk at the time.. she bit my gf and physically abused her she had to seek medical help. My gf eventually forgave her and they became friends again but I couldn't and refused to have that person in my home or in my life, which my gf simply had to respect. But I didn't ask her not to be friends with her

So that's the type of thing that won't fly. But all these other "enemy" antics you drama queens get into, keep me out of it..
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There are three reasons I'd become friends with my lovers enemies. One I want to manipulate them and either destroy them in some way, or bring them down at the least. Second I actually hate my lover, and want to friend my lovers enemies to form an actual army against them to destroy them. Third I truly love my lovers enemy, and might not want to hurt anyone, but can't help myself from liking them.

There are no other reasons I'd do this, but that's just me personally.

I'll add a secret forth reason, and would be I simply like the attention, and though I'd never truly like my lovers enemy, I can't hide from the fact I love the attention and ego grooming they might give. Leos tend to be attention wh..ore...s, even if it's truly not malicious in any way.