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It got too quiet in here again. Wake up! Roaaar!!


So kitties...


What do you find hot in a man? Or girl (for kris)

I know chocolate LUSTS for powerful men 🙂 But what power is it that you are drawn too? A lot of us have Venus in Virgo. I am wondering if there are any similarities. Would it be safe to assume that most Leo women here are attracted to strong men? Looks? Brains? What is the first thing you notice?
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Purrrfect,

Is it possible for my Venus in Cancer to conflict with my rising in Sag? One second, I'm super needy and overthink my relationship. The next second, it's as if I'm completely detached and couldn't care less about it because something (not someone) else has caught my attention. It's rather extreme and I'm thinking that something is conflicting with that stupid Venus placement...or that moon placement.

Anyway, I like really attractive and super smart men but totally not smooth...men that are too honest and too clueless about women to play them. Yup that's my type.
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LeoWithCap,

Yes, I think they can be conflicting. But the fact that you have two very important placements in Cancer I think the Cancer would eventually override your Sag rising. A softy Leo at heart. The rising sign is superficial. What you really NEED are in your Cancer placements. Over thinking your relationship is your Mercury in Virgo. Virgo likes to tear things apart to the tiniest detail. Remember that when you start thinking too much. Focus on something else maybe...


...The next second, it's as if I'm completely detached and couldn't care less about it because something (not someone) else has caught my attention.....

Maybe it's because you have gotten what you needed and are content enough to focus on other things. (leo/sag) Not always super glued to someones hip isn't a bad thing.

Having the moon in Cancer is the best place for it. Cancer belongs here.

I try to understand placements but I am far from professional. Hope it helped anyway
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Hey guys (esp. you miss purrrr...),

I really liked your post, chocolate. I think that i need to be attracted to a guy, physically, b/4 I would consider dating them. I know that sounds superficial, but it's the truth (Venus in Leo). I have ended up dating a couple of people who were my friends first...they were OK looking in the physical sense, but their personality made them that much more attractive. As far as "personality," I like all kinds of different people, however, the key word is "different." I don't want to date anyone like me, and that person needs to be unique and stand out in his own way. As far as the power types, i do seem to attract them...but I end up w/ the needy types (That seems to be the current trend for me). Not needy in the sense of "I want to be attached to your hip," but more so like..."help me focus and get my shit in order." As far as what I need in any relationship: Reliability, Sense of Humor, Intelligence, Passion, Honesty and Open Mindedness...the rest would just fall into place!
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Truthseeker...I'm not sure that has anything to do with your Venus being in Leo. Mine is in Cancer and I can tell you that I am just as superficial in my selection of a guy as you are, if not more, haha. If I'm not attracted to him from the first moment I meet him, I don't care how much he has to offer or what a nice guy he is...it will NEVER happen. I have yet to meet the guy who grows on me.
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...but I end up w/ the needy types...

Me too. Why lol. truthseeker, how are your classes? Are you done with them now?

I am not attracted to men for superficial reasons. In fact, I wasn't even attracted to my Scorp when we first met. Everyone else was and for some reason I always avoid the one that everyone else wants. I think it's my jealous streak. Physically, eyes do it for me. A nice ass wouldn't hurt either ; )

I am very into SMELLS. Please, PLEASE let him shower EVERYDAY, please! I want to be able to put my nose in his neck and just...mmmmm (true to my virgo placements)

But none of these things matter if he has no understanding. I think that's why I am attracted to water signs. There has to be some kind of understanding for each other and the people around him. (my scorp 🙂 )
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Does anybody ever get exactly what it is they want? I used to say that God has not made the man for me, he doesn't exist. I am not saying my bf is not the one for me. I say that in the sense of that's how high my standards are. It's impossible for anyone to meet them. Even a scorp with virgo rising. I can't even meet them lol!

So have you guys ever found everything you ever wanted in someone?

Do you think someone could still be satisfied if they DID find all that. I dunno, I guess if it's everything you want, it could never be boring right?

If you don't get it, you compromise yourself. We all do.

I'm rambling. I know.
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...Yes. Once.

Didn't make it work out though. lol!.....

lol little sparrow. And why was that?

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....some people will say what they want but then they will date or marry the opposite of what they actually wanted ...

Lonely maybe. Some people fall for the first person that notices them and they forget that they have needs too.
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Hey guys...

Done w/ classes, sister and kidz have moved out, and now I don't know what to do w/ myself :-) Although, I'm really enjoying my TV LOL!

I don't think we ever find what it is we're looking for in the opposite sex. One Human flaw is GREED, and if we were to find everything we could ever hope for, we'd always want just a little more. To me, I know that I've met the right person when my attitude starts to change and I begin to learn about myself. I have extremely high expectations, as does purrr, and no one could ever really meet them. If the person I'm with allows me to lower my expectations and be more accepting of the human being he naturally is, I've met the right person. Of course, that doesn't mean that I'm settling, and the person will have to meet my expectations regarding how I want to be treated (of which, my expectations for how I want to be treated are fair...I don't ask for much).
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Yay truthseeker! No more classes 🙂

You know what's funny? Everyone living here with me moved out too. The same day. My mom and brothers. It is officially just me and my son now. And the sex slave, when he comes over lol

...One Human flaw is GREED, and if we were to find everything we could ever hope for, we'd always want just a little more....

Exactly my point. Someone always wants more. Which brings me to one conclusion. Just be clean and don't cheat lol

truthseeker, I have a question for you hun. What do you think about cusps? Considering you are on one too? Do you see yourself as being a mix of both?
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Hey purrr...I just read your post on "cusps" on the Astrology message board. I think that I'm about to contradict myself, so stay with me.

Your question on the other message board is legit, and you are correct...the sun can only be in one sign at a time. In fact, I've read a lot about the fact that their are no cusps...the "mix" that I have mentioned above could be caused by having my mars and mercury in cancer. I once read that not only does the DATE of birth determine your sun sign...but so does the YEAR. e.g. I was born July 23rd, 1981. It just so happens that that year, the sun entered Leo on July 22nd...so if you were born July 22nd, 1981, you are a Leo. That explains why horoscopes are listed for Leo's July 22nd-August? and other are listed as July 23rd-August? Rarely, I see a July 24th-August? So, I hope this answers your question.
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So have you guys ever found everything you ever wanted in someone?

Not exactly what i want... but very very close to it... Now that we have broken up though it feels like sth wasn;t really right in the relationship and I am happy to move on.... but then again that might be because I always want to look on the bright side of everything in my life.... and think that everything happens for a reason and to teach us sth....

THe ideal guy is the one who treats me like a queen and knows what I deserve and is proud to be with me and just me and will be there for me always!! Because i know i will do the same for him!
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truthseeker,

I know what you meant by feeling sensitive. I don't see it as a contradiction. It's the same with LeoWithCap, I don't think she is a "cusp" person but she has the moon and venus in cancer. She is probably more cancerian than a cusp would be...without the cancer placements of course. I have this weird saturn/mercury/sun thingy going on in cancer, but have a hard time using the term "cusp".

I don't think July 24 is ever on the "in between" It's always Leo as far as I've seen. My ex (cancer) is July 22nd and behaves like a leo but that's because he has a mercury/venus conjunction in leo. I am more introverted than he. In fact, he is quite outgoing and can't keep a secret to save his life


Ramble away truthseeker lol PLEASE.



...I know you are enjoying the reinstatement of your QUEEN status!.....

I can walk around the house naked now when my son is away. So yes.




Mars in Leo ahhh! I know you are feeling this. You run, right?

Feeling more aggressive lately than you already are ladies??
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...saying things I prolly should keep to myself...and not giving two ****s about what other people say or do...

lmaaaoo!! ahhahaha!!! OMG So funny!!

I can't seem to shut up either!! And I hate to babble 🙂


...Oh...and yes, I quit smoking the day sis and kidz rolled out...it's been 6 days! I'm in control!!! wahooo!!...

Yay truthseeker I am proud of you. What did you say the longest you've gone without a cigarette is? You know, so I know what record you need to beat 🙂

How is the ram doing?