Leo - Scorp

Both of you are very proud, stubborn, strong-willed individuals and you are attracted to the strength of character that you sense in each other. There is a feeling of conquest between you that may serve to intensify the excitement of your attraction to each other. However, your strong wills may also prove to be a problem in a long-term relationship. You face the possibility that your combined inflexibility will make it difficult for the two of you to reach mutually satisfying decisions and both of you tend to stubbornly resist compromising when your preferences are different. A battle of wills is likely to ensue!

Another potential problem is jealousy or lop-sided bonding. Scorpio bonds very intensely in romantic relationships and is inclined towards monogamy. Leo is also very loyal, but not nearly as intense, emotional, or obsessive as Scorpio is.

Temperamentally, the two of you are like night and day. Leo is basically sunny, open, warm and fun-loving, and not given to a great deal of introspection or serious self-analysis, while Scorpio is very private, emotionally deep and complex, and rather hard to get to know. Scorpio is a much more suspicious or cautious soul than Leo is. Behind Scorpio's reserve lies much sensitivity and intense emotion. Scorpio distrusts superficial appearances and is always seeking the hidden meanings or deeper motivations in people, dredging up the buried past, or looking for the fly in the ointment. Leo accepts things as they are (or appear to be) much more readily, and may feel that Scorpio makes unnecessary trouble by probing so deeply all of the time. The truth is that Leo is very proud and wants always to be thought of well ? and would therefore rather not discover anything within that is less than praiseworthy. Also, Scorpio has a jealous, distrustful side that Leo, who is basically straightforward and open, doesn't really understand. Leo may get exasperated with Scorpio's lingering suspicions.

Scorpio is drawn inward to the depth, to darkness and mystery, while Leo is more outward and seeks the light, bright side of life. Leo, for instance, needs and enjoys people, is much more social, and loves to entertain. Scorpio would prefer an evening alone or spent in an intimate atmosphere with a few close friends, where the interaction is likely to be deeper and more revealing.

There really need not be a conflict over these differences in your emotional natures, as long as the two of you understand and accept them. You are both very strong-willed and somewhat inflexible, and you insist on being yourselves despite the differences between you.

Both of you have good organisational skills, the ability to focus and concentrate your will in a single direction, and the tenacity to persist and keep at a task until it is completed. You are both steady plodders, very reliable workers, and may bet burdened with all of the work no one else wants to do. Order and thoroughness come naturally to you both. You appreciate the "plan your work and work your plan" approach. You both want insurance or guarantees before you dive headlong into anything.

You spark each other's ambitions and hopes. You find yourselves scheming together, developing business plans, and strategies for achieving success. You encourage each other to set your goals and it is likely that you will undertake several joint ventures together. Over-optimism and unrealistic hopes are your liabilities; enthusiastic hard work is your asset.

"Let's have a good time!" will be one of the ongoing themes in your relationship. You encourage each other to play, to laugh and to see the lighter side of life, to expand your horizons, and simply enjoy life.

As a couple you are inclined to overdo the "good life" however, and can put too much into luxuries, vacations, delicious but transitory pleasures. You'll want to life it up together, to just go out and have fun ? and FUN is definitely one of the purposes of your relationship? but eventually you'll have to pay for this if you two don't keep it within reasonable bounds.

Unexpected good fortune and "miracles" will happen to the two of you as a couple. There is an undeniable "lucky" streak in this relationship.

You spark enthusiasm in each other. You enjoy being a little "crazy" with each other and are inclined to joke and tease each other. Sexual attraction is strong and you are very compatible sexually ? you are likely to feel that your partner is a great lover. If you enjoy dancing, music, or some sport that requires agility and gracefulness, then you will love engaging your partner in this activity.

Your sexual attraction for one another comes in sudden, unexpected waves. At times, it is irresistible and you are likely to find yourselves unexpectedly becoming involved in a sexual relationship even before you have gotten to know each other very well. This sudden arousal of sexual interest, however, subsides as suddenly and mysteriously as it is awakened, and the inconstancy of the attraction and fascination for each other can put this relationship on a roller coaster ride.

Things are unlikely to become dull or predictable between you, as there is a strong current of intense change and constant renewal in your relationship. Your deepest desires for freedom and for new life and growth can be fulfilled in this relationship but will probably come about as a result of some radical decision and break from the past, a complete disruption of the status quo, especially for Leo. You may never quite feel like you are on stable ground together, and this can be very exciting or very uncomfortable, depending upon your individual temperaments.

Haha! This analysis is hilarious and right on. It's funny going over to the Scorp board because it's SO active and everyone has these deep conversations that, on average, are 75 posts long!

Perhaps that's why the Leo board is so slow. We're not that deep and we don't analyze too much? Isn't that what we take from our Aquarian counterpart?

Your sexual attraction for one another comes in sudden, unexpected waves. At times, it is irresistible and you are likely to find yourselves unexpectedly becoming involved in a sexual relationship even before you have gotten to know each other very well. This sudden arousal of sexual interest, however, subsides as suddenly and mysteriously as it is awakened, and the inconstancy of the attraction and fascination for each other can put this relationship on a roller coaster ride.


Right on!! lol

And a relationship that starts as a sexual relationship stays that way usually, is that true?
Are there any chances of it becoming anything more than that? and if yes ..HOW?

...Things are unlikely to become dull or predictable between you, as there is a strong current of intense change and constant renewal in your relationship....

There is nothing truer than this statement right here. We are never bored with each other, even after all this time. And there really are times when we both go through this discarding/renewal period in our relationship. It is never the same as it was several years ago, we are constantly learning from each other. I friggen love him so much today.


Your deepest desires for freedom and for new life and growth can be fulfilled in this relationship but will probably come about as a result of some radical decision and break from the past, a complete disruption of the status quo, especially for Leo. You may never quite feel like you are on stable ground together, and this can be very exciting or very uncomfortable, depending upon your individual temperaments.


lol...this is probably why we are never bored

And a relationship that starts as a sexual relationship stays that way usually, is that true?
Are there any chances of it becoming anything more than that? and if yes ..HOW?


undergrad, this was not true in my case. It took a very long time for he and I to be together. We were very close friends first. The HOW depends on you I guess, with anyone. Things should happen naturally. Are you male or female?

hi purrrfect..thanks for answering this one. i am female (leo). I kinda pushed things in the beginning... did not really wait to know the person first because i thought it would work later... so it started as a sexual relationship... don;t really know how to fix this.. cause i don;t see him making an effort..

is it harder for scorp males (than leo females) to think more seriously of sb if the relationship started as a sexual relationship? Will they think low of him in a way and be afraid to be serious about it even if they see that the other person is really interested? How can one show them that they are really interested without giving away everything? I don;t want to seem to pushy.... How can I find out without talking about it with him?

He and I went through a couple of periods of "just sex". I wanted things back to the way they were sometimes, but change was nowhere in sight. I wish I could offer you more but all I can say is it just takes time and if you really love each other it will change. What changed it for me is that I TRULY became fed up. So fed up that I no longer made attempts to talk to him about it. Even worse, I began telling him NO. Omg, if only I had a camera for the reaction he had to that. Within a small amount of time, I am the one who disappeared from HIS life. I was so angry. The difference between he and I was he would disappear for 3-5 days at a time and when I leave it's for years.

undergrad, maybe the only way to find out is when you don't want it anymore. Sad, I know. Things are way different now. He is nowhere near the person he used to be. But in my mind, I know this could change in one second flat. I hope some of this was helpful.

is it harder for scorp males (than leo females) to think more seriously of sb if the relationship started as a sexual relationship? Will they think low of him in a way and be afraid to be serious about it even if they see that the other person is really interested? How can one show them that they are really interested without giving away everything? I don;t want to seem to pushy.... How can I find out without talking about it with him?.....

I had all these questions once upon a time. And, same thing, it was difficult to ask him directly (I do now though) I stopped asking myself when I realized it was only making me insane. I pretty much demand answers now. I deserve them and he knows this.What is the feeling YOU get when you are together?


grrr, omg I know what you are going through right now.

Ok, I didn't have the exact same questions as above, lol what I meant to say was

I was filled with questions once upon a time like you are now, lol grr

thanks purrrfect.. it was helpful! I guess only time will show what kind of relationship this really is.... He told me I shouldn't think about it so much .... That drove me out of my mind.... wasn't the answer i expected! I really need to know where i stand ... I guess this is impossible with a scorp... who waits and waits and waits... anyway thanks for the advice... 🙂

.... He told me I shouldn't think about it so much ....

ahh! I've been fed this one too once. "Just let it happen" blah blah blah. What I really heard was "I like this the way it is and I don't want it any other way" In other words, just sex. I suppose he will be okay with it when you "naturally" get fed up then, right? And unfortunately it will have to happen naturally. Because you really like him, and how the hell can you turn that off? You can't. So you want to do ANYTHING he wants to one day hopefully sway him. I have noticed for some reason my leo pride goes right out the window with him sometimes. They say Leos love with everything in them, from the heart, right? You will get angry. And when that happens, maybe it will change. Who knows.


And, your welcome btw 🙂

purrrfect do you think he knows i want sth more... scorps are pretty perceptive they say.. so you think he knows i might want sth more just because i asked him what sort of relationship we have? Cause if he knows then i draw the conclusion that he wants nothing more... if he doesn't then i might be able to think that he may be scared to show what he really wants.... In your case did he get that you wanted sth more?

i should probably also tell you that since he reacted that way... my ego kicked in.... i told him: "I am not asking because i am sure i want a serious relationship... i just want to know where i stand...."

This all sounds so familiar ::sigh::



............just because I asked him what sort of relationship we have? .....

................ I told him: "I am not asking because I am sure I want a serious relationship... I just want to know where I stand...."


I'm sure he knows. Only someone who wants more asks these questions....

But, and I may be wrong, but eventually these last two statements may be used against you. You may end up getting "I never knew you felt that way, you said.......etc" ::prediction::


Eventually I couldn't take it anymore and I would get straight to the point..."I am in love with you, I want more..." Like now. Once upon a time I was afraid to bring my feelings to his attention because I was afraid I would lose him. If I tell him, he will feel differently and I will only be giving him a door to escape. I won't do that to myself anymore, I know now I can live without him.


You say your ego kicks in? It's FEAR. Are you afraid he will reject you if you tell him exactly what you want without beating around the bush? And if he does? Well then, you get your answer don't you? Then maybe you can move on.

Well then, you get your answer don't you? Then maybe you can move on.


True!

anyway, so now things are working out for you and your scorp? i mean is he also in love with you?

Things are good. We communicate well. He does love me right now and I feel it. He calls everyday, we do things together. He drives over 100 miles to see me almost every week lately. My car is a piece of crap so I can't go to him as often as I'd like. I did this weekend though. He has made it clear he does not want to separate again. So, who knows we'll see huh?

There is also a lot of good that has come out of us knowing each other, soo much I can't even explain. I shared the bad in hopes you'll see you are understood and hopefully provide some good insight. And you do deserve to know where you stand. It looks as if it's going to be up to you to change things.

undergrad,

When is your bday? Do you know your rising and moon? Typical questions every new leo has to answer lol

sun leo
moon aquarius
but i am not sure what the moon in aquarius means..... and i also don;t know how to find out my rising...

i think he has moon in leo and venus in scorpio if it helps!

I'm a leo with aqua moon too. 🙂

That means we were born during a full moon. Aqua moons can be detached emotionally. It helps if you have water placements because the detachments isn't always the case for me, I do feel. Then I also tend to space out lol I noticed aqua moons also seem to have an understanding of people as a whole. Extremely open minded, are you? I'll post some stuff in a bit. I still have someone elses chart to finish.

Find your birth place and time. Then go to www.astrodienst.com and put your info in and it will calculate your rising sign for you and the rest of your placements.

omg Tell me when your birthday is.

:::another prediction:::

hmm Is it July 23 or 24th??

Extremely open minded, are you?

i like to think so... i am trying to be as open minded as possible...

just a sec.. i' ll go to www.astrodienst.com to see about my rising!!

do you know what venus in virgo means and mars in cancer....? these are my venus and mars..

ok is the ascedant the rising?
cause my ascedant is sagittarius!

I have venus in virgo too haha...funny

Where is your mercury?

undergrad, listen hun.... stick around and I will eventually give you meanings for everything. Right now I have no brain cells, it's been a long weekend and I have another chart to finish. Basics about venus virgos hmm, an attraction for people who need help, or attraction to needy people even lol There is also a perfectionist streak that I noticed is usually strongest in venus virgos than the actual sun sign. I think this is a good placement for a Leo to have because it tones down the basic leo nature to rule. Virgo likes to SERVE. But can be bitter in the worst way if unhappy. More later...

asc and rising same thing yes 🙂

mercury in leo

Also, venus in virgo....a strong attraction to intelligent men. Is he a smarty pants?

In fact...Add aqua moon to venus in virgo and it makes it double important you meet someone with more than half a brain or you may never be satisfied.

"an attraction for people who need help",....... true....!!

"Add aqua moon to venus in virgo and it makes it double important you meet someone with more than half a brain or you may never be satisfied."

=> also true... not only smart though.... he must be able to cope well on all kinds of occasions and be a mentally stimulating person......and ..and.. lol!

i just read the meaning of a leo with rising in sagittarius ... that was the most accurate interpetation i read... i guess then the most important is the rising (at least more important than moon venus mars etc). i think it says very much about ones character... at least about the behaviour towards other people or at least how other people may see you... is that so?

yes, your rising is second most important, then moon and so on. Also important, if you happen to have two or more planets in the same sign.