
FemmeScorpion
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Posted by U`C`ME
What was the argument about?


Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`ME
What was the argument about?click to expand
Its long bear with me......
Well we fell out over 3mnths ago. No contact phone,email or face to face. Nothing!!
Bumped into him over a mth ago,he was the 1st to say hello and to ask how i was doing. I was totally not expecting it.
So we started communicating again via email.
Had a new hair cut,he saw me on wednesday...tried to get one of his barstaff to ask me about my hair.The bar guy refused so he had to do it himself.
So he came over to me saying his member of staff is shy but he wanted to know what i have done to my hair. Have I been electricuted,his member of staff was like am staying out of this,dont get me involved.
So i said i curled my fringe,do you like it?. He wouldnt say if he did or didnt. He just kept asking me if have been electric shock.
Whats so fustrating,he spent the rest of the night,making eyes @ me and smiling everytime he passed my table.
Anyone who followed my thread,knows he has a younger brother an Aqua. The Aqu turned up that nigh and the libra caught us looking at each other.
He seemed to switch on me in a matter of seconds,he went from been all smiles and flirty to giving me cold stares.
So i msg him later that night to ask if everything was ok.....No reply!!
So today, i spoke to him face to face ask him what was up. He replied nothing am been paranoid.
I said am not been paranoid,i know you are been cold. He responded am busy,i cant always say hello or respond to you. (Bulls,he was responding to all my emails religiously b4 wednesday)
So I told him I didnt think i owed him a apology for standing him up,but after that our frienship went downhill.
I explained to him that we both have Significant Others,and if i had turned up that night,i would have lost all respect for myself.
Then he went on to say how he cant tell me what to do,if i said i was turning up,its up to me BUT he used to turn up to my work to see me all the time.( i dont see what that had to do with anything)
All i wanted to know was why had he gone back cold after been warm. But he would not give me an answer.
We were standing at the entrance of his restaurant talking and 3 nice looking guy walked pass,saw me a turn around,stood at the door staring in.
So I smiled @ them,the libra spun around opened the door and said to the g

Posted by FemmeScorpion
sory got cut off.
The lia rsponded,no we dont do steak bu she is on the menu. One of the guy responded,ill have her with a plte of chip please. The libra then said sternly,we dont do steak,its a thai restaurant and wine bar,if you want steak head in another direction. So the guys left.
I turned to the libra and said what do you mean by I am on the menu. He said well they obviously liked you and you were all smiles. Full Stop,thats were our convo ended...........arghhhh


Posted by U`C`MEPosted by FemmeScorpion
sory got cut off.
The lia rsponded,no we dont do steak bu she is on the menu. One of the guy responded,ill have her with a plte of chip please. The libra then said sternly,we dont do steak,its a thai restaurant and wine bar,if you want steak head in another direction. So the guys left.
I turned to the libra and said what do you mean by I am on the menu. He said well they obviously liked you and you were all smiles. Full Stop,thats were our convo ended...........arghhhh
Yes I'm familiar with the story!!
First let me that he is hurt and honestly you shouldn't have done that. Standing a person is mean, would you want that type of treatment? Would you tolerate that type of treatment? Probably NOT. I would bet 100 bucks that you'd walk, like yesterday!!
Now the Libra has came back to you, so in his heart he's working on forgiving you, it takes time. He's has opened up and allowed you to see how he feel in inside. Fast forward..... As soon as he feel half way cool with you, the issue arise of his brother!! You can believe with out a shadow of doubt that he know and feel the chemistry between his brother and you and yes his feelings are hurt and he's jealous. You have to understand that this guy came back and opened up to you and now it's more bullshit. At this point he's probably feeling like why bother?!!
So who is the winner of the argument? Neither of you!!
The problem is coming to table with a happy medium, understanding each other feelings and emotions. And that seem to be the problem with you guys. So who's gonna make that happen? Or continue playing dumb jealousy and emotional games.
By the way my moon is aqua like his..click to expand

Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`MEPosted by FemmeScorpion
sory got cut off.
The lia rsponded,no we dont do steak bu she is on the menu. One of the guy responded,ill have her with a plte of chip please. The libra then said sternly,we dont do steak,its a thai restaurant and wine bar,if you want steak head in another direction. So the guys left.
I turned to the libra and said what do you mean by I am on the menu. He said well they obviously liked you and you were all smiles. Full Stop,thats were our convo ended...........arghhhh
Yes I'm familiar with the story!!
First let me that he is hurt and honestly you shouldn't have done that. Standing a person is mean, would you want that type of treatment? Would you tolerate that type of treatment? Probably NOT. I would bet 100 bucks that you'd walk, like yesterday!!
Now the Libra has came back to you, so in his heart he's working on forgiving you, it takes time. He's has opened up and allowed you to see how he feel in inside. Fast forward..... As soon as he feel half way cool with you, the issue arise of his brother!! You can believe with out a shadow of doubt that he know and feel the chemistry between his brother and you and yes his feelings are hurt and he's jealous. You have to understand that this guy came back and opened up to you and now it's more bullshit. At this point he's probably feeling like why bother?!!
So who is the winner of the argument? Neither of you!!
The problem is coming to table with a happy medium, understanding each other feelings and emotions. And that seem to be the problem with you guys. So who's gonna make that happen? Or continue playing dumb jealousy and emotional games.
By the way my moon is aqua like his..
Thank you so much for posting,this make so much sense. I so want to tell him how i feel but my pride always get in the way.
I felt he ended te convo earlier because he was there trying to reason with me and there i go again lapping up the attention from other guys.click to expand



Posted by cancersunleomoon123Posted by FemmeScorpion
Its so fustrating....i just had a one to one with mr libra and its left me drained but i still dont feel as though nothing been resolved.😢
i hate arguing. it is exhausting and there's better things to do imo. or,what about when libra get mad at you for being mad at them. they're a bit narcissitic like their negihbor sign the virgo.click to expand

Posted by U`C`ME
cut off...
What do you have to lose besides pride, pride is a killer!

Posted by sweethearts
I'm not familiar with your story...however, you both have significant others—
So why are you playing games with this guy again?
Besides all that... I think he will mirror you and unless you stop with the games this isnt going anywhere!

Posted by wsigaf
ok..
was it a logical or an emotional one.. ?

Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`ME
cut off...
What do you have to lose besides pride, pride is a killer!
I know the legendary scorpio pride.....well i text him.
Saying you know what the saddest thing is,i could get attentin from 1000 guys BUT I will always seek your approval.
Only if our situation was different. Maybe in another life.click to expand

Posted by U`C`MEPosted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`ME
cut off...
What do you have to lose besides pride, pride is a killer!
I know the legendary scorpio pride.....well i text him.
Saying you know what the saddest thing is,i could get attentin from 1000 guys BUT I will always seek your approval.
Only if our situation was different. Maybe in another life.
At least you were honest and he has to respect that. Now perhaps y'all can build a real friendship!
You seem too really like him, but your situation won't allow you to take it to the next step. And that's fine, it's a good thing just be honest with him.click to expand

Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`MEPosted by FemmeScorpionPosted by U`C`ME
cut off...
What do you have to lose besides pride, pride is a killer!
I know the legendary scorpio pride.....well i text him.
Saying you know what the saddest thing is,i could get attentin from 1000 guys BUT I will always seek your approval.
Only if our situation was different. Maybe in another life.
At least you were honest and he has to respect that. Now perhaps y'all can build a real friendship!
You seem too really like him, but your situation won't allow you to take it to the next step. And that's fine, it's a good thing just be honest with him.
Yeah i do,am going to work hard on building a good friendship back with him. Just hope we both can be grown up and diminish the sexual tension we feel with common sense.
I dont think he will respond to that msg but,has long as he reads it and get what am trying to say i'll be happy.
All the games need to stop. And am following your good advise and be the one to make the 1st move in the right direction.
Again thanks for taking the time out,to respond.🙂click to expand




Posted by FemmeScorpion
U C ME....I'll keep you inform on any progress. Am just going to try and keep it neutral,you are spot on thou,in the past i refused to opened up and I wanted him to do all the running and confessing.
But i am at the stage now where,i cant go around the ferris wheel another time.
Something as to give.🙂

Posted by LibraSid
I thought I was wrong once, turns out I wasn't.... waitwat?

Posted by Liberal777Libra
you cant argue with a libra..
after all...
If "This sentence is false" is true, then it is false, which would in turn mean that it is actually true, but this would mean that it is false.
Similarly, if "This sentence is false" is false, then it is true, which would in turn mean that it is actually false, but this would mean that it is true.
see..? we win

Posted by FemmeScorpion
Yes isnt that a form of madness-thats what libras do to you!!



Posted by LibraSid
You expect better than what? I actually agreed with you here... you won't beat a Libra in an argument. Yes, when you said it's Libra madness I laughed and posted SPARTA!! but lighten up.
Oh, and I'm not saying this to be rude but no matter how I word it, it still sounds like I am... I don't care if anyone likes or respects me. Also, I don't hate anyone; it takes far too much energy to hate.

Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Yo seriously. Its the same shit with my Libra man! We just had a long argument Yesterday I swear to god I FUCKIN HATE THAT KID SOMETIMEZ!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Sorry guys. I just really really really need to vent. He talks to me like im SHIT when he gets mad yo and it pisses me the fuck off. He turns everyfuckin little thing I said into such a big fuckin deal. He twisted my shit around, even adds his own words and then tries to tell ME WTF >I😢(((! UGH! He completely disregards his own wrong doings and short comings. HE even went as far as telling ME last night thats "everyfuckin thing is my fault. Im aslways fuckin up wit the way I come at him. Im always wrong and He's always right. !!! WTF!—?

Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Yo seriously. Its the same shit with my Libra man! We just had a long argument Yesterday I swear to god I FUCKIN HATE THAT KID SOMETIMEZ!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Sorry guys. I just really really really need to vent. He talks to me like im SHIT when he gets mad yo and it pisses me the fuck off. He turns everyfuckin little thing I said into such a big fuckin deal. He twisted my shit around, even adds his own words and then tries to tell ME WTF >I😢(((! UGH! He completely disregards his own wrong doings and short comings. HE even went as far as telling ME last night thats "everyfuckin thing is my fault. Im aslways fuckin up wit the way I come at him. Im always wrong and He's always right. !!! WTF!—?
Lol i think all libras probably had a fight yesterday. No one should talk to you that way. Explain to him how it makes you feel,then ask him to change or work at it. Although you probably will have another fight doing that male libras dont take criticism kindly.😢
I totally get the twisting things around,mr libra does that to me.
Me: whats up with you
Him: nothing is the matter
Me: ok you didnt say hello,you alwys say hello
Him: i said hello you didnt hear me
Me: if you said hello,i would have remembered.
Him: yes i did,Jake heard me.
Me: (thinking why his he trying so hard to convince me,he's in the right,i know for a fact he didnt say hello,because i had witness and his alibi was not even standing there) So in the end i am like forget it.
Hun i think the key his let him think,you think he his correct and your wrong.
All libras should be lawyers but not sit on the jury.....because they would take forever to reach a verdict.🙂click to expand


Posted by FemmeScorpion
U "C"ME I guess you guys could be the defendant....that charm and smile could allow you to get away with 1st degree murder.
Even with a Scorp.🙂


Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Yo seriously. Its the same shit with my Libra man! We just had a long argument Yesterday I swear to god I FUCKIN HATE THAT KID SOMETIMEZ!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Sorry guys. I just really really really need to vent. He talks to me like im SHIT when he gets mad yo and it pisses me the fuck off. He turns everyfuckin little thing I said into such a big fuckin deal. He twisted my shit around, even adds his own words and then tries to tell ME WTF >I😢(((! UGH! He completely disregards his own wrong doings and short comings. HE even went as far as telling ME last night thats "everyfuckin thing is my fault. Im aslways fuckin up wit the way I come at him. Im always wrong and He's always right. !!! WTF!—?
Lol i think all libras probably had a fight yesterday.click to expand

Posted by FemmeScorpion
One will never win a argument with a libra,because the libra will never admit that he/she is in the wrong!!
Fustrating but anyone who ever won an argument with a libra,probably murdered the libra and claimed the price!!
Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Yo seriously. Its the same shit with my Libra man! We just had a long argument Yesterday I swear to god I FUCKIN HATE THAT KID SOMETIMEZ!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Sorry guys. I just really really really need to vent. He talks to me like im SHIT when he gets mad yo and it pisses me the fuck off. He turns everyfuckin little thing I said into such a big fuckin deal. He twisted my shit around, even adds his own words and then tries to tell ME WTF >I😢(((! UGH! He completely disregards his own wrong doings and short comings. HE even went as far as telling ME last night thats "everyfuckin thing is my fault. Im aslways fuckin up wit the way I come at him. Im always wrong and He's always right. !!! WTF!—?click to expand

Posted by Inertia1128Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
Yo seriously. Its the same shit with my Libra man! We just had a long argument Yesterday I swear to god I FUCKIN HATE THAT KID SOMETIMEZ!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Sorry guys. I just really really really need to vent. He talks to me like im SHIT when he gets mad yo and it pisses me the fuck off. He turns everyfuckin little thing I said into such a big fuckin deal. He twisted my shit around, even adds his own words and then tries to tell ME WTF >I😢(((! UGH! He completely disregards his own wrong doings and short comings. HE even went as far as telling ME last night thats "everyfuckin thing is my fault. Im aslways fuckin up wit the way I come at him. Im always wrong and He's always right. !!! WTF!—?
Lol i think all libras probably had a fight yesterday.
Haha! Sheez! I thought I was just having my PMS. I guess libra guys have all of the planets ganging up on them on that day. Had a heavy one with my guy as well on that same day. With regards to winning an argument I would beg to disagree with libras out here, you will never win an argument with a fire sign specially with a Sag. Astrologically speaking, I see it this way... Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter, and the fact that scientifically speaking air is being consumed by fire, the more you blow into it the bigger the fire so we always win the battle. Haha! Ooppss! This is just from my point of view guys, you can always argue with me on this.
Gr8 paragraphs....poor libra guys....please they know what their doing!!🙂
But speaking from experience, relationship-wise, I always win in arguments with any sign including Aries and Leo. The only sign that I lose battle with is to my counterpart the Sag guy himself. But not to discount the Librans, my libra guy does win with me in battle...that is if he kept his silence and ignores me. After all when there's no air (specifically oxygen) there's no fire. So my take is fire signs lose with air signs in an argument when they stop arguing period.click to expand


Posted by TGPosted by FemmeScorpion
One will never win a argument with a libra,because the libra will never admit that he/she is in the wrong!!
Fustrating but anyone who ever won an argument with a libra,probably murdered the libra and claimed the price!!
First of all - I think I love you. Second - yes, libras are always right. or so they think. Well, usually they do manage to twist and turn things and win arguments in that way, but guess what, it doesn't matter anyway - cuz capricorns are rich and libras are just cute and poor. 😄click to expand

Posted by amethyst2002Posted by FemmeScorpion
I was wondering when the vultures would have come out of hiding. Care to point out any other spelling mistakes.
Yep.
I already apologised for the errors as when I made this thread,my head was explodind with rage and I felt fustrated and confused.
That's not just a spelling mistake. It's ignorance, since you KEEP doing it and obviously don't know how to pronounce such a simple word. I don't care how anal it sounds, but along with all the other psychotic ranting and raving of yours about a guy that isn't your boyfriend, it just adds insult to injury about the impression of yourself that you're giving off. At LEAST try to sound like you have SOME intelligence in that crazy assed, fixed sign brain of yours.
Which STILL begs the question of whether your Aries, "boyfriend," still exists. Does he? Is he made up to try to make you look better? You've made a zillion posts about this Libra, and when people call you out on it, you try to make yourself better by stating you have a, "boyfriend," that you're oh so better than all this drama you generate, and NO you don't get off on the attention you're trying to crave.
Either you don't have a boyfriend and are trying to get attention from ANYTHING that walks and talks, or you do, and the poor guy has to settle with being the second man in your life. How sad.
I'm sorry that this guy is causing so much trouble and bs with you, but why don't you just concentrate on the boyfriend you supposedly have?click to expand

Posted by wsigafPosted by FemmeScorpionPosted by amethyst2002Posted by FemmeScorpion
I was wondering when the vultures would have come out of hiding. Care to point out any other spelling mistakes.
Yep.
I already apologised for the errors as when I made this thread,my head was explodind with rage and I felt fustrated and confused.
That's not just a spelling mistake. It's ignorance, since you KEEP doing it and obviously don't know how to pronounce such a simple word. I don't care how anal it sounds, but along with all the other psychotic ranting and raving of yours about a guy that isn't your boyfriend, it just adds insult to injury about the impression of yourself that you're giving off. At LEAST try to sound like you have SOME intelligence in that crazy assed, fixed sign brain of yours.
Which STILL begs the question of whether your Aries, "boyfriend," still exists. Does he? Is he made up to try to make you look better? You've made a zillion posts about this Libra, and when people call you out on it, you try to make yourself better by stating you have a, "boyfriend," that you're oh so better than all this drama you generate, and NO you don't get off on the attention you're trying to crave.
Just for you,i will hAndsome!!
Plus I promise to a good girl and a better person. So am not going to mirror back her negativity.
Either you don't have a boyfriend and are trying to get attention from ANYTHING that walks and talks, or you do, and the poor guy has to settle with being the second man in your life. How sad.
I'm sorry that this guy is causing so much trouble and bs with you, but why don't you just concentrate on the boyfriend you supposedly have?
Am going to post a pic of my diamond ring. look at the rock the aries got me and eat your heart out you envious,fat cow!
*le sigh*
let's remain civilized, shall we ?click to expand

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Fustrating but anyone who ever won an argument with a libra,probably murdered the libra and claimed the price!!