A question to all Librans

What is that one big decision that you??ve made in your life that you later on regret?

i don't regret any big decisions. at a minimum i learned and grew stronger from my mistakes.
perhaps regret is just a another form of self-loathing...

Posted by pigeonpie
Smoking 🙂

agreed.

Posted by Liberal777Libra
i don't regret any big decisions. at a minimum i learned and grew stronger from my mistakes.
perhaps regret is just a another form of self-loathing...

That's my Libra too. We've discussed this before.. he said, "Why would I regret anything? At the time, it was either exactly what I wanted... or exactly what I needed." he turns everything into a learning experience.

Not to say he hasn't made some DOOZIES of mistakes before... bad decisions even... but like they say, "Good judgment comes from experience.. and experience usually comes from bad judgment."

Libra is in love with the idea of love. I have this crazy idea, what if a libran ends up marrying someone and eventually realized later on he/she is not in-love with his/her partner. And when the right one came along he/she regret being in a committed relationship. And knowing a libran he/she won't hurt anyone so they'd rather stay in the relationship. This might not happen to you but could this be possible?

Telling a Sagittarius how I felt.

Posted by Inertia1128
Libra is in love with the idea of love. I have this crazy idea, what if a libran ends up marrying someone and eventually realized later on he/she is not in-love with his/her partner. And when the right one came along he/she regret being in a committed relationship. And knowing a libran he/she won't hurt anyone so they'd rather stay in the relationship. This might not happen to you but could this be possible?

It is an interesting question and I am trying to think what if I was in the situation but I just can't see myself getting there. There are a few spots where I get stuck. Libras are infamous for delaying, we come on hard and fast and then we slow down while we evaluate what has gone on and what the future possibility is. If we don't see a future, we leave. I can't see marrying someone I didn't love.

I know your question was more talking about falling out of love later... but that's not me. When in love, I don't expect perfection... we all have faults. You love the good and the bad. I mean, it's marriage. You made a promise of forever. Work on the problems that will come up. Talk to each other. Keep romance, communication, and adventure alive. I don't fall out of love during a relationship... it takes a break up and time before I lose the love.

I do know that Libras are more likely to stay in a bad relationship than to end it, so I suppose the situation is possible. Still for me, if there is a problem in he marriage you look inside the marriage for the solution.

That saying, "I only have eyes for you" would apply here.

Oh, and as for the "I don't regret my choices, I learn from them and adapt"... I agree. I have told that to many people before. When a choice comes up you make the best decision you can with the information available to you, there is nothing to regret. I do however wish I had never started smoking, obviously, not enough to quit though so it isn't that big of a regret.

@LS and PP, you two are good examples of how a mature libra guy should be. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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Posted by Inertia1128
Libra is in love with the idea of love. I have this crazy idea, what if a libran ends up marrying someone and eventually realized later on he/she is not in-love with his/her partner. And when the right one came along he/she regret being in a committed relationship. And knowing a libran he/she won't hurt anyone so they'd rather stay in the relationship. This might not happen to you but could this be possible?

Personally, that wouldn't happen with me, I'm not that unrealistic and 'in love with the idea of love'.
Outside of my late teens/early 20s, I've never stuck around in an unhappy relationship, I've stuck around and tried to work things out but imo with some I felt I'd put more effort in so didn't feel bad about going separate ways (not saying even someone else came along).

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I have done this both ways. Not the marriage though. The first time I was in a relationship I really didnt want to hurt the person by breaking up with them so i decided to cheat on them (do not condone!), but in my head this seemed to make sense. The next relationship I tried to do everything to make it work but we just wernt right for eachother. I learnt from the previous hurt I had caused and just told the guy I loved someone else (which coincidently was the same guy I had cheated on my ex with, must of REALLY loved that guy).

I suppose my biggest regret looking back at that little story would be never telling the guy I kept cheating with how I really felt lol oh well, everything happens for a reason 🙂

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Posted by pigeonpie
Smoking 🙂

agreed.

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And I actually really enjoy smoking, only smoke about 10 a week but I enjoy every single one.

Posted by Inertia1128
What is that one big decision that you??ve made in your life that you later on regret?

You ask very revealing Qs 😉

*1. Getting involved too soon in relationships
2. Trusting the wrong people
3. Trusting someone else more than myself

That one big decision is the one with a star

not learning to drive and the way I handled a particular relationship years ago.