Anti-Libra?

I was wondering if anyone meet a libra that didnt act like one? I figured I could be one. Its seems that Ive been unbalance for a long time and lost who I am or Haven't develop who I should be? (if that makes any sense?) I feel Like all the thing a libra should be or act i am not 100% maybe 30% . Its like an anti-hero in a series. He/She is a hero but in the conventional sense. Any thoughts about this? thanks

Well yeah. It's because of outer influences stronger than who you are (or whom you THOUGHT or were made to believe were stronger than you).
I was brought up in a martian household; I totally know what you mean. I had to suppress my Libra traits just because someone thought it was not right.

I have since outgrew that, though.

My advice: Find your inner self worth, accept who you are; never listen to anyone who thinks things are right for you when you know best yourself.

I think the "anti-libra" sentiments in Libra is based largely on following societal dictates, following others' expectations, all these unbalance Libra's natural energies and constitutions. When a Libra starts acting like an Aries, they are in an environment extremely toxic for them; the inner anger is based on compromising their values and not allowing for a genuine expression.

Find places of peace and serenity. Peace is harmonious to Libra's mental health. War, violence, anger, dominance and control is very toxic.

Thanks spica I do believe that statement you said. oddly enough I always have an aries telling me what to do telling me thats how I am "suppose" to act towards people. Granted i did to gain a little backbone for myself but they are a little too controllin for me they just want to dictate my life to their view. i have 4 aries that have or had a strong hold in my life : a woman that I like; Best friend 2 Family members. they got some to say about me...oh well

I have to say this: Libras are GOOD for Aries, but Aries are not good for Libras. I love my Aries relatives but being around them make me ill. They always push me to meet their agenas that I extremely resent.

Simple reasoning: Libra is the sign of the scales. We need balance. Aries is ANYTHING but balance. In fact, having an Aries around topples your scales. But you will never realise it because you gel so well with them you think you're compatible.

I have nothing against Aries, but I resent their self-appointed liberty to interfere in my life.

Aries need balance - they need Libras to show them. Libras benefit from Aries' independence and assertiveness also. But they can do fine on their own. Aries does more damage to Libra than vice versa. They are SO FUN, so bubbly, so good to go out with, but extremely bad for personal lives.

But Libras never have it easy - especially Libra boys; childhood is never easy. You're usually put in warring situations that undermine your groundedness and sense of self. . . a loving and supportive childhood environment is pretty much an ideal world, not reality. It is a test of balanceand following your true sense of values/self. A test of self acceptance.

Libras are constantly on a quest to find who we are, and we started that qeust by searching for ourselves thru other ppl(well i did)which leads to no answer at all except to be yourself. ITs just we dont really know who we are w/o reassurance but as a libra grows they find this hard to accept and embark of that long lonely journey of finding who we are


it, like any other sign or person, takes growth thru understanding and removing of a blindfold that doesnt neccassarily mean that we lay down and be peaceful no matter what, it means never sacrficing one self for others fulfillment, and thats when we truly understand that what we do and others do wont make us feel the way they feel

Actually, you sound pretty libra to me. Libra is balancing NOT balanced. Also we tend to lose ourselves very easily, mainly because, although we tend to be self-probing and self-aware, it is only through the reflection in others we can find ourselves. We aren't the chameleon of the zodiac for nothing.

Libra isn't as fluffy as we appear on the surface. I don't identify with the fluffy descriptions of libra but the ones that are more indepth.

"ITs just we dont really know who we are w/o reassurance"

The reassurance is hard to come by usually; too much reassurance and there is a dependency. . .

"only through the reflection in others we can find ourselves."

I somewhat disagree with this. I find myself in solitude. Other people get in the way alot of the time. . .

Thanks alot everyone I'll try to take your words to heart and mind. I also found out that i have a lot of water and fire in my chart, does that also play a role in my conflict?

sleepyrebel, it all depends.. everyone has conflict in their chart. Without knowing what water and fire I cannot offer input.

I just wanna say that "anti-Libra" is how others make you feel. Libras are pretty much fine on their own, alot of them dont see that.