Are Libra's clingy?

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It's all wrong numbers fault.

Some girl with same name as mine, gave him wrong nr. So when poor lad called, and adressed me with my name I thought we know us. We needed some 30ish min of pretty cool chat to discover that we don't know us at all. After good laugh we said good bye. The day afer, surprise in my mssgs, him again ... he started to send texts every day, so we ping-ponged, also he started to call daily. After some 2 weeks of great chats/talks we arranged date. Yaaaay!

That went pretty well, all giggles and shit. Although not exactly my type, some chemistry was there. We arranged second date. Texts and calls are on daily basis, 90% from his side,

He is Libra lad, has B-day in few days. Gentle, affectionate, carring, stated more than once that he really likes me. It was really sweet to see on our first date how his hands were slightly shaking.

Don't get me wrong, I like him back ... a lot. But I am classical Sag ( Sun, Moon,Mars, Venus, Mercur, Asc, Asc.Node Neptune and XII house in Sag. Yeah, yeah... just keep on laughing 😛 ) , so you are guessing that I need lots of space and freedom. And I told him few times (on nice and not so nice way) that I need lots of space, he assured me he understand. But I kinda doubt that. I know that many girls would kill to be on my place and have lad who's so after them. Every day, morning, during the day and evenings ... it all starts to be a tiny bit too much.

What can I do to make it really clear to him that I need more space? Do I have to smack him over his head ( this is obviously exaggerated description, but you get the point) , try to talk with him in more clear way ( dunno how much clearer can I be after words " I am introvert and need daily some of silent time") ... or just plain run as fast as I can?
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Posted by brianafay
We'll see how clingy he is after he starts going mute randomly for weeks in end and then popping back up as if nothing happened.


Weeks? Really— Only thing that I wait is a train or a plain. There should always be nice evenness. Briana, if he starts to going mute for more than few days without explanation, he can kiss my lovely round ass ? I am running after no living man, but also I am waiting for no man. If he decide to play hide and seek he may end stuck in his man cave.
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Posted by brianafay
We'll see how clingy he is after he starts going mute randomly for weeks in end and then popping back up as if nothing happened.


Weeks? Really— Only thing that I wait is a train or a plain. There should always be nice evenness. Briana, if he starts to going mute for more than few days without explanation, he can kiss my lovely round ass ? I am running after no living man, but also I am waiting for no man. If he decide to play hide and seek he may end stuck in his man cave.
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Lol ego

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My Aqua sis always thought I was a clingy type (because I was with a Taurus who needed me to be with him all the time.) lol

Then I got with a Sag, and after months of being together (and realizing he needs lots of space too) I gave it to him. I respond according to whom I'm with as well as a part of my need to show I care and compromise. So if you need space. Tell him. Be direct. Funny thing is though after I gave him space, he now begs me to be around him all the time. And text daily. Lol

I've never minded when any partner has told me they need to do some things alone or when they don't text me all day (in fact I love it, because I will definitely find things to do!) My response would be really? "So if I don't text you all day or don't want you here next to me, it won't make you feel unwanted or neglected??" And if they say yes, "Alright, no problem." ?

Like I said be clear though.. Because if you push me away, I stay away doing other things.
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Posted by tiziani
I'm a Sag so I need this...

I'm an introvert so I need this...



Come on with the cliches.
It's just dxpnet style no?

Seriously though my Sag guy was being so damn clingy with me yesterday when I was trying to do work.

This Gemini guy I dated before him would text me ALL day... If I didn't answer/text back there would be 20 more after that. (Not even exaggerating.) And he would say things like "I guess you don't like me that much?" Lol What? Because I don't text you 1,000 times a day??

And the Taurus I was married to used to get upset when I didn't call him in between classes and work when I was getting my bachelor's..

If Libra's are clingy..then what the heck am I?? Maybe I'm not a Libra.....? ? Lol