Confused with this Libra girl

Hi librans! Please enlighten me. I broke up with my libra ex 2 mos ago.. I broke up with her. We stopped speaking for a few weeks but are talking again now.. We are friends.. But i told her I cant be friends with her. However, she started inviting me with her friends again (not all the time) and to her family stuff.. Also to her place to hang out.. She treats me or speaks to her fsmily as if we are together. Do you think we still have a chance of getting back together or is she just friend zoning me?

Something about Libras... we have egos... we like to get them scratched and be desired... that is why Libras will hint hint hint until the end of time but expect you to actually do the dirty work. We like to be chased... sounds like she's got you in for a chase at least. Since you broke up with her, I doubt that she's "friend zoning" you--- especially if she did those same things even before you broke up. My question is, why did you break up to begin with? Why are you so quick to wonder about getting back together?

Do you want to get back together? You broke up with her after all.

Posted by jeane
Do you want to get back together? You broke up with her after all.

If you broke up with her, why are you worried about being friend zoned?

Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

Really? I didn't know that about Cancers...

Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

Really? I didn't know that about Cancers...

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Didn't realize this person was a Cancer either.

A Cancer will back off generally as a defense mechanism. Once they want you, they'll cling. If they are unsure though, they'll side step, but still be fully focused on the person. Emotions are hard to turn off for a Cancer.

If I had to guess the Libra was too indecisive/flighty/possibly too flirty which made OP wary. OP decided to back off and "shut off" the connection before their feelings got hurt. That's just a guess though.

Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

I broke up with her, because she hasn't been a good partner. But she seems to be "turning over a new leaf." But I can't really tell if she really is or just wants to get back together and goes back to her bitchy self.

You can't be friends with her, you don't trust her intentions and you think she's a bitch. Am I missing something?

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Posted by Goodtimes

Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

Really? I didn't know that about Cancers...

Didn't realize this person was a Cancer either.

A Cancer will back off generally as a defense mechanism. Once they want you, they'll cling. If they are unsure though, they'll side step, but still be fully focused on the person. Emotions are hard to turn off for a Cancer.

If I had to guess the Libra was too indecisive/flighty/possibly too flirty which made OP wary. OP decided to back off and "shut off" the connection before their feelings got hurt. That's just a guess though.

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Wow.. yes. This is exactly right..

Posted by jeane
You can't be friends with her, you don't trust her intentions and you think she's a bitch. Am I missing something?

Because she was the one who left me the first time.. That's why. I can't be friends with her because I could never see her as just a friend. But yes, I do have my downsides too. I know that. I just don't feel she can commit fully because she said she can't be a good partner to anyone at the moment because of work/personal issues.

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Posted by jeane
You can't be friends with her, you don't trust her intentions and you think she's a bitch. Am I missing something?

Because she was the one who left me the first time.. That's why. I can't be friends with her because I could never see her as just a friend. But yes, I do have my downsides too. I know that. I just don't feel she can commit fully because she said she can't be a good partner to anyone at the moment because of work/personal issues.

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Well if you can't be friends and you don't think she is a good partner then don't be in contact with her.

You're giving mixed signals.

Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

This is what my cancer did to me! Hahaha. It doesn't make any sense. It would mess with my head when he still acted interested after breaking up. Either be done with it or get back together.

Posted by hardtolovelibra
Something about Libras... we have egos... we like to get them scratched and be desired... that is why Libras will hint hint hint until the end of time but expect you to actually do the dirty work. We like to be chased... sounds like she's got you in for a chase at least. Since you broke up with her, I doubt that she's "friend zoning" you--- especially if she did those same things even before you broke up. My question is, why did you break up to begin with? Why are you so quick to wonder about getting back together?

This is exactly it: A Cancer will back off generally as a defense mechanism. Once they want you, they'll cling. If they are unsure though, they'll side step, but still be fully focused on the person. Emotions are hard to turn off for a Cancer.

If I had to guess the Libra was too indecisive/flighty/possibly too flirty which made OP wary. OP decided to back off and "shut off" the connection before their feelings got hurt. That's just a guess though.

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Posted by ChoXtsy
Yeah answer that^

Edit: Ugh! You're a cancer? Leave her alone. You guys never know what you want. You break up with her, then want to know if there's a chance you could get back together but haven't done anything to express that you would like to. Leave those mind games for another sign.

This is what my cancer did to me! Hahaha. It doesn't make any sense. It would mess with my head when he still acted interested after breaking up. Either be done with it or get back together.

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A Cancer will back off generally as a defense mechanism. Once they want you, they'll cling. If they are unsure though, they'll side step, but still be fully focused on the person. Emotions are hard to turn off for a Cancer.

If I had to guess the Libra was too indecisive/flighty/possibly too flirty which made OP wary. OP decided to back off and "shut off" the connection before their feelings got hurt. That's just a guess though.

--This is exactly our reason.. I think we try to mirror how our partner is. Since I sense that he's not into it as much as I am, I let go. But still hoping she will be into it in the future that's why im still here.