Decidophobia & Libra Ladies

Hey libra Ladies!

Decidophobia.

Maybe you have never heard of the word… but you can feel its meaning, right?

This fear of making decisions… I’m not even talking about big decisions here: just small, “meaningless” decisions. The decisions most people would make without even having to think twice. But for us, it‘s unbearable pressure and immediate raise in stress levels.

Us Libras, are infamous for being indecisive. “They” just don’t understand, right? “They” put pressure on us but “we” … We are Libras. We seek balance and justice. And we love seeing right and wrong. It’s easy for us to judge. It’s easy for us to be mediators. It’s easy for us to give advice.

The problem starts when the decision starts and ends with us… When there’s no right or wrong answer…

I am a Libra and I’m living my very best life, day after day.

Though it wasn’t always that way.

You see… I lived with regret for every choice I made until I was 30:

- I regretted my career choices

- I regretted my choice of lovers

- I regretted having wished for material comfort instead of well-being...

I felt like a victim of my choices.

Then, one day, I woke up with decidophobia.

I began to have difficulty making decisions for myself.

Although I made decisions at work all the time, the thought of making even the most insignificant decision for myself would paralyze and torture me.

From buying a dress to choosing my dinner...

To give you an example, while reading the menu at a restaurant, my inner conversation could go like this:

- chicken or salmon?

- what do I like the most?

- What if the chef doesn't know how to cook the salmon the way I like it?

- What if the chicken is dry?

- What if it's too light and I'm still hungry?

- What if my neighbour takes something I'd like more?

What if ... what if ... what if…

I always ordered like the others because the menu choices made me dizzy.

I would think over and over again about my choices, for hours, days, weeks, months, and even years. I needed validation of every decision to make from those around me.

I was stuck in Decidophobia for about a third of my life.

In the end, I stopped functioning. I was on autopilot, I was seeking validation from everyone around me all the time, and I wasn’t making any decisions for myself. I was living on obligations like waking up in the morning and going to work, and the only decisions I was making for myself were destructive and sabotaging ones like eating compulsively.

I had no objective for my life and was living a life I thought I was the victim of.

And one day, I woke up with an idea: The idea to overcome this condition, the idea to feel good, the idea to repower myself.

By setting my strong intention, I set the law of attraction in action and started discovering all the pieces of the puzzle that are now the pillars of the decision-making system I have created.

I’m proud to say I’m now the decision-maker I always wanted to be. I don’t even ask myself if the decision I’m making is the right one anymore.

Because I know it always is.

I’m confident in making from the most insignificant decision to life-changing decisions with no doubt, no overthinking, and no regret.

With the overwhelming success of the Make a Decision Bootcamp for Libras, I recently decided to create a short free training video to teach women the first steps to listening to themselves so they make the right decisions in their private lives, the ones that resonate the most with their inner guide without overthinking, doubting or regretting their choice.

I’m adding the finishing touches to the training but I want to ensure I don’t leave anything out.

I need some of you libra ladies to help me out by answering 5 quick questions.

Would you be so kind as to spend a few seconds on it?

It’s completely anonymous, and in exchange for your help, I will give you access to the training for free (and the cherry on the cake, send you lots of blessings and great thoughts 😂😁).

Please send me a private message if you’re interested to help and I’ll send you the link.

Take Care, 💐🌺🌸

Nayo

Posted by Findingbalance

I dunno...I can't decide yet if I want to or not...

😹🤣

So what are the questions you need help with? 🤔

I don't regret my choices. I mean sure there might be some choices that I wish I had acted differently but mistakes teach us something to. I wouldn't be wiser without them.

The only time I had a hard time making decisions was when I'm out shopping which doesn't really happen much these days. Or choosing food.

Family and close friends know I'm the type of person who knows what she wants. I'm driven and if I do end up making the "wrong" decision I'll accept it and try to move on. When you learn to let go it'll be easier to overcome this "decidophobia" you're talking about.

The things you regret are what most normies regret. Sun sign isn't really a factor here, just the human condition coupled with a society that expects you to figure out your lifelong career and partner at an age when your brain isn't fully developed.

But who am I to rain on your sales parade. Target the libras and collect your coins.

Stop judging yourself and learn from the choices about you. What you want like etc.

Get to know you.

Posted by LadyNeptune

The things you regret are what most normies regret. Sun sign isn't really a factor here, just the human condition coupled with a society that expects you to figure out your lifelong career and partner at an age when your brain isn't fully developed.

But who am I to rain on your sales parade. Target the libras and collect your coins.

Hey LadyNeptune,

Thanks for your reply. I have been super honest on my post about the reason why I needed your input. I didn't post this to deceive anyone. On the contrary. Should you wish to help with the survey, you're welcome to send me a direct message. The survey is completely anonymous. No sale there.

Take care,

Nayo

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I have libra rising and stellium and could relate with the original post. I did start to doubt my ability to make the right choice in situations because I would sometimes have regret if I made impulsive choices (Scorpio sun/Mercury). Then in the future I would almost freeze because I didn’t want to make hasty decisions. In relationships I can also sit in emotional limbo a lot of times because I’m always considering both sides of the coin.

Hey ImperfectStorm

Thanks for your reply. This is quite helpful. Should you wish to help with the survey, you're welcome to send me a direct message. The survey is completely anonymous.

Take care, Have a beautiful day

Nayo

Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO

oh its not a real thread is a publicity

Hi!

Well, definitely not a ad.

The survey I’d love for ladies to fill out is really to help me out. It’s completely anonymous and ad free.

I’m sorry you saw it that way.

I’m not here to deceive anyone.

I wish you the best.

Nayo

I am a Libra Ascendant and I can never decide and even when I do I continue thinking about the other options. It's not that I am indecisive, more like I can find arguments for all options and wage on them to infinity. Because of this it takes me a long time to form my opinion for example.