Do libras need a firm partner or someone who just goes with the flow?

I've noticed that libras, more so makes can get distracted rather quickly from important issues or matters at hand. So I was just curious as to if they need a partner that will tell them when their messing up or one that just goes with the flow?

If someone needs to tell them they're messing up, it's obvious they're immature and need to be mothered.

Find a mature Libra and you won't have to ask this question.

I need someone who is real. Be your true self so we can decide if this will work or not long term.

I don’t need someone who is just going to agree with me all the time. Nor someone who is going to be overly stubborn and stuck in their ways to where I feel like I can’t be myself or do things I like.



But communication is very important to me, so tell me what you like and don’t like.

i don't need anyone to tell me what to do. if i ask for an opinion, i'll listen to it and take it on board but i don't need someone to parent me.

Posted by Timon
I'm not really sure if I understood your question correctly but if I'm doing something that is bothering my partner of course I would like him to say something.

However I do like people that are more easygoing and not easily offended by every little thing. It also depends on how the message is delivered. I don't like personal attacks and rudeness like when they start criticising my personality instead of the action that I did that bothered them. Because if they don't like me as a person they shouldn't be with me in the first place.

In that way my last ex was wonderful. Never once did he criticise the person I was it was always the things I did that he would tell me he didn't like...never my character. I always respected him for that.

We could disagree on a lot of things but he was always respectful. Some of the things I did that he would call me out on I did end up apologizing for because I could see he was right and I was wrong. He was very logical and the things he said were always reasonable. I get very sad when I think about him now because he was great in so many ways and he deserves to be with someone that treats him like he is the love of their life.

May I ask what is his sign?

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Posted by Brickhouse27
I've noticed that libras, more so makes can get distracted rather quickly from important issues or matters at hand. So I was just curious as to if they need a partner that will tell them when their messing up or one that just goes with the flow?

firm they gravitate towards that too

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Why do they play like it's too much

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Posted by Timon
I'm not really sure if I understood your question correctly but if I'm doing something that is bothering my partner of course I would like him to say something.

However I do like people that are more easygoing and not easily offended by every little thing. It also depends on how the message is delivered. I don't like personal attacks and rudeness like when they start criticising my personality instead of the action that I did that bothered them. Because if they don't like me as a person they shouldn't be with me in the first place.

In that way my last ex was wonderful. Never once did he criticise the person I was it was always the things I did that he would tell me he didn't like...never my character. I always respected him for that.

We could disagree on a lot of things but he was always respectful. Some of the things I did that he would call me out on I did end up apologizing for because I could see he was right and I was wrong. He was very logical and the things he said were always reasonable. I get very sad when I think about him now because he was great in so many ways and he deserves to be with someone that treats him like he is the love of their life.

May I ask what is his sign?

I sent you a DM.

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