Libra in Mars Hookup

This topic was created in the Libra forum by librasuncapmoon on Wednesday, May 30, 2018 and has 30 replies.

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

I hooked up with a Libra in Mars, and even though it was just for sex, it was VERY romantic. I realized that the Libra in Mars kept everything sensual and light, and communicated during it with poetic words and classy phrasing (maybe also because of his Aquarius in Mercury).

If you are a Libra in Mars, please share more about your views on sex in relationships,hookups, or in general. I am very intrigued by how this sign fairs in such a masculine planet. Thank you.

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Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by Whorpio
I think you done caught feelings 🧐🧐

HAHAHAH no i havent! Just shocked with the contrast of being with a Scorpio in Mars.

Mars in Scorpio is very raw, and can be vulgar. The sex with them in a relationship is very emotional and has feelings. I love your comment though :]

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by BillieJean
I have Libra in mars. I feel like sex is a more sacred thing for me. I dont know if I feel that way though for my mars or because it trines Neptune. If Im going to do it it's solely for showing love or bonding. Im not very interested in just doing it for the act, or vulgarity. I wont have much interest in sex otherwise. I LOVE poetic words they will swoon me. I have no Taurus placements but sensual more than sexual appeals to me. I dont really take things in romance lightly. That's probably one reason why I have no been in a relationship lol

What are your other placements? Also, do you find that sex is sacred only within relationships or hookups? I know that you mentioned you never been in a relationship, but what about hookups?

I read an article about Mars in Libra and it said something about you guys not relishing in the act of sex, but more in the idea of bonding and sharing with the "other". It might seem you guys put your partner in a pedestal, but it's more that you put the idea of the "other" on the pedestal, and not the person who just happens to be on top of the pedestal. In fact, you guys find talking about the act more relishing than the actual act.

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by _sierra_
my boyfriend is also an aqua merc but with aries placements
he can say.. quite a lot of dirty things while in the act
i don't like fighting and i'm pretty evasive when one occurs
hookups aren't really appealing to me coz they just don't feel right

aqua in mercury are very straight forward!!! and love communication during sex! and oh that's very interesting.

what about hookups aren't appealing? the fact that its not "the one"?

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

that's interesting! it probably is due to ur conjunct with uranus. although variety and the want for not rushing into sex and enjoying the leading up to it parts more are traits of an air sign in mars. yes, a key factor of a libra in mars is the equality give and take.

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Posted by librasuncapmoon
Posted by Whorpio
I think you done caught feelings 🧐🧐

HAHAHAH no i havent! Just shocked with the contrast of being with a Scorpio in Mars.
Mars in Scorpio is very raw, and can be vulgar. The sex with them in a relationship is very emotional and has feelings. I love your comment though :]
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The fact that you’re looking at his Astro placements TELLS me you are tryna make it out to be more than casual. Or you’re just trolling us here...

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by Whorpio
Posted by librasuncapmoon
Posted by Whorpio
I think you done caught feelings 🧐🧐

HAHAHAH no i havent! Just shocked with the contrast of being with a Scorpio in Mars.
Mars in Scorpio is very raw, and can be vulgar. The sex with them in a relationship is very emotional and has feelings. I love your comment though :]

The fact that you’re looking at his Astro placements TELLS me you are tryna make it out to be more than casual. Or you’re just trolling us here... click to expand
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Just interested in what to expect in bed and how to please a partner 🙂 that's all, he's not the type id be interested in for a relationship nor am i looking for one, trust my detached nature

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Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Posted by jeane
Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart?

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Posted by CopperDove
Posted by jeane
Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart? click to expand

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conjunct with my venus.

yes, i definitely agree with you about wanting equal give and take but it should be fun and passionate. romance is so cheesy.

i quite like the idea of purely lustful sex but my head (rather than my loins) gets the better of me in the end. i don't know about this sex is better as an idea theory though. certainly not in my experience.

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8 Years

Posted by Senorita_LLP2
Sex is not just sex for me. I'm freaking picky and I hate too much vulgarities. I can live without sex for all that matters. It will annoys me if a person demands too much but because of love, I normally will give in because I need the peace. LoooL!

I think Scorpio mars will agitate me when it comes to making love since you guys are way too extreme. 😝

I am actually a Mars in Capricorn! I was just comparing my previous experience with a Mars in Scorpio (which is why I brought it up). I love the rawness, the emotion, and the deepness of being with a Mars in Scorpio, but I love the romanticism, the equality in giving and receiving, and taking time aspect of a Mars in Libra (it fits my Libra Sun).

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Posted by jeane
Posted by CopperDove
Posted by jeane
Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart? click to expand

conjunct with my venus.
yes, i definitely agree with you about wanting equal give and take but it should be fun and passionate. romance is so cheesy.

i quite like the idea of purely lustful sex but my head (rather than my loins) gets the better of me in the end. i don't know about this sex is better as an idea theory though. certainly not in my experience. click to expand

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The liking the idea more than the reality is often mentioned in Libra Mars and air Mars descriptions I've read, and sometimes it's said about air moons too, I've noticed. I have an air moon (Gem), but no for me -- that doesn't fit my experience either.

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Posted by CopperDove
Posted by jeane
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Posted by jeane
Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart? click to expand

conjunct with my venus.
yes, i definitely agree with you about wanting equal give and take but it should be fun and passionate. romance is so cheesy.

i quite like the idea of purely lustful sex but my head (rather than my loins) gets the better of me in the end. i don't know about this sex is better as an idea theory though. certainly not in my experience. click to expand

The liking the idea more than the reality is often mentioned in Libra Mars and air Mars descriptions I've read, and sometimes it's said about air moons too, I've noticed. I have an air moon (Gem), but no for me -- that doesn't fit my experience either. click to expand

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maybe that train of thought is ruined by scorp placements?

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8 Years

Posted by Senorita_LLP2
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Sex is not just sex for me. I'm freaking picky and I hate too much vulgarities. I can live without sex for all that matters. It will annoys me if a person demands too much but because of love, I normally will give in because I need the peace. LoooL!

I think Scorpio mars will agitate me when it comes to making love since you guys are way too extreme. 😝

I am actually a Mars in Capricorn! I was just comparing my previous experience with a Mars in Scorpio (which is why I brought it up). I love the rawness, the emotion, and the deepness of being with a Mars in Scorpio, but I love the romanticism, the equality in giving and receiving, and taking time aspect of a Mars in Libra (it fits my Libra Sun). click to expand

Ooooo...loool! Mars in Cap...hmmmm

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Mars in Capricorn are very driven, like I feel like my instinct is endurance and to persevere. It makes more goal-oriented people. Sex for me is a deep feeling, but it is masked with my need for control. I control my urges and myself in bed and I only release the fluidity I feel, when I feel like it is safe to do so.

I have friends that are in a relationship that are both Mars in Scorpio and they are very intense and extreme! so I know what you mean. I always feel that a matching Mars sign and a matching Mercury sign is best because you are on the same page regarding sex and communication. But that's just me speculating.

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I have Mars in Libra, moon in Libra, mercury in Libra and Venus in Scorpio. I'm dying to have sex with a Mars in Scorpio man. I love dirty talk during sex and like extreme intensity. I love sex and need it often.

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Posted by DonnaLibra
I have Mars in Libra, moon in Libra, mercury in Libra and Venus in Scorpio. I'm dying to have sex with a Mars in Scorpio man. I love dirty talk during sex and like extreme intensity. I love sex and need it often.

The dirty talk with a Mars in Scorpio during sex isnt fluid and light, its very raw and animalistic. and Yes, the intensity is extreme. I also noticed that they really like to feel like they "own" their partner, because Mars in Scorpio does not like to share.

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Posted by jeane
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Posted by CopperDove
Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart? click to expand

conjunct with my venus.
yes, i definitely agree with you about wanting equal give and take but it should be fun and passionate. romance is so cheesy.

i quite like the idea of purely lustful sex but my head (rather than my loins) gets the better of me in the end. i don't know about this sex is better as an idea theory though. certainly not in my experience. click to expand

The liking the idea more than the reality is often mentioned in Libra Mars and air Mars descriptions I've read, and sometimes it's said about air moons too, I've noticed. I have an air moon (Gem), but no for me -- that doesn't fit my experience either. click to expand

maybe that train of thought is ruined by scorp placements? click to expand

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lol, yes, that wouldn't surprise me. :-)

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Posted by librasuncapmoon

Posted by DonnaLibra

I have Mars in Libra, moon in Libra, mercury in Libra and Venus in Scorpio. I'm dying to have sex with a Mars in Scorpio man. I love dirty talk during sex and like extreme intensity. I love sex and need it often.

The dirty talk with a Mars in Scorpio during sex isnt fluid and light, its very raw and animalistic. and Yes, the intensity is extreme. I also noticed that they really like to feel like they "own" their partner, because Mars in Scorpio does not like to share.

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Stop It!!!! I want one NOW!!!!!

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Posted by CopperDove

Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

I agree with your take on that, but I'd add I love foreplay - preferably cuddling for two hours while watching a movie 🙂

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Posted by CopperDove

Usually when I read about Mars in Libra and how it functions sexually, I don't relate much. My Mars is conjunct Uranus so that probably modifies it. I wouldn't call myself romantic with sex, for example. I can be, but it would bore me to be limited to that. I just want to have fun when I'm having sex -- variety of things tried, booking off lots of time to allow for that, etc. lol. I feel more like a Sag, Scorpio, Gem mix (all present in my chart), in that order, than Libra, but I do have the Libran thing about wanting an equal give and take during the experience.

same here (- minus the gem placements.)

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It is said that Mars in Libra doesn't feel it but will bring out strong desire and passion in their partner.

Good to know someone else with Libra Mars who relates! Does your Mars aspect anything in your chart? click to expand

conjunct with my venus.

yes, i definitely agree with you about wanting equal give and take but it should be fun and passionate. romance is so cheesy.

i quite like the idea of purely lustful sex but my head (rather than my loins) gets the better of me in the end. i don't know about this sex is better as an idea theory though. certainly not in my experience. click to expand

The liking the idea more than the reality is often mentioned in Libra Mars and air Mars descriptions I've read, and sometimes it's said about air moons too, I've noticed. I have an air moon (Gem), but no for me -- that doesn't fit my experience either. click to expand

maybe that train of thought is ruined by scorp placements? click to expand

lol, yes, that wouldn't surprise me. :-)

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Posted by librasuncapmoon Just interested in what to expect in bed and how to please a partner 🙂 that's all, he's not the type id be interested in for a relationship nor am i looking for one, trust my detached nature

Yeah no offense but the vibe I get when a broad says she wants to know how to please a certain partner is that she wants to know how to please him so he’ll get attached after sex and want something more. Bischez don’t understand the two DO NOT go hand in hand for men.

My advice is just focus on your own pleasure while searching for this dudes replacement.

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@DonnaLibra

It looks like quoting didn't work, unfortunately. I can't find your comment, I can only recognize what I wrote and what other people wrote in reply to me, with no user names mentioned.

Perhaps post again without quoting?

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Posted by Whorpio

Posted by librasuncapmoon Just interested in what to expect in bed and how to please a partner 🙂 that's all, he's not the type id be interested in for a relationship nor am i looking for one, trust my detached nature

Yeah no offense but the vibe I get when a broad says she wants to know how to please a certain partner is that she wants to know how to please him so he’ll get attached after sex and want something more. Bischez don’t understand the two DO NOT go hand in hand for men.

My advice is just focus on your own pleasure while searching for this dudes replacement.

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Have a nice day Whorpio hope its going well for you

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Posted by Whorpio

Posted by librasuncapmoon Have a nice day Whorpio hope its going well for you

I got sunburnt on my face because I was too excited to get in the water at this beach yesterday. Now I’m just tryna figure out if I should use makeup to cover it up or nah.
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If you use makeup itll burn even more though, give your face a break and a chance to heal, just use sunscreen

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Posted by starlord

Posted by librasuncapmoon

I hooked up with a Libra in Mars, and even though it was just for sex, it was VERY romantic. I realized that the Libra in Mars kept everything sensual and light, and communicated during it with poetic words and classy phrasing (maybe also because of his Aquarius in Mercury).

If you are a Libra in Mars, please share more about your views on sex in relationships,hookups, or in general. I am very intrigued by how this sign fairs in such a masculine planet. Thank you.

What? Masculine? Oh the planet. So what does tha mean? The sex is masculine?😄😄

I get very good reviews, but I think do not connect emotionally through sex. I connect with my ego. Will probably connect when I meet a guy, that wants to connect back, but the intimacy does scare me.

Also I am a pleaser. Too much.

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Hahaha I meant Libra being somewhat feminine in Mars a masculine planet (mars is related to instinct or who you are in your rawest form).

That makes sense, I understand that. Thank you for sharing