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How does a libra know when they met "The One"?
How Libra Recognizes When They Meet The One
Libra individuals often feel an immediate sense of connection when they meet The One. They are guided by harmony and balance, sensing a special compatibility early on. However, they may also take time to fully confirm their feelings as they weigh emotional and intellectual compatibility carefully.
Instant! Nobody knows this because I've never told anyone, but on my first date with my Aries, it felt like someone whispered right into my ear "you'll marry this one"! I even turned round because it was so real. But even since the first time I put eyes on him, I knew I wanted to be his and vice versa 🙂
Posted by blackphaze
Judging by all the threads you have been making to try and figure this dude out.. You're not the one. Sorry..From my experience, they jump the gun when they feel in love.. If they are really into you, they'll be telling you that you're the one before they even really know ya.
This wasnt necessarily even about him and he did actually. I was just curious to know that's all. Thank you for sharing.
I'll let you know when I meet him.
Posted by Dolluxxe
I'll let you know when I meet him.
Good answer
There were a few guys I knew were the one... turns out, they weren’t lol
Many of us wear rose colored glasses
To answer the question, I knew immediately
Posted by Biboroon
There were a few guys I knew were the one... turns out, they weren’t lolMany of us wear rose colored glasses
Lol yeah I can see that.
it took me forever and to be completely honest, i'm not even sure i believe in "the one". i love my partner to bits but will we be together until we are old and grey? i hope so but who knows what could happen? so ask me when i am 80 and i'll give you a answer then.
Posted by jeane
it took me forever and to be completely honest, i'm not even sure i believe in "the one". i love my partner to bits but will we be together until we are old and grey? i hope so but who knows what could happen? so ask me when i am 80 and i'll give you a answer then.
Thank you jeane. I most certainly can agree. I definitely understand what your saying.
Marriage scares the hell out of me. 😬
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Marriage scares the hell out of me. 😬
I don't think your the only one either, believe me.
The idea of marriage made me vom...until this guy came along!
Posted by Sola
The idea of marriage made me vom...until this guy came along!
I've heard that before. I guess it just takes time.
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.
Posted by Breeze
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.
Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating?
Posted by tiziani
I pretty much just know. It's something I decide early on.
😉
Every time they meet a new guy.
I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.
I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.
Posted by euphony
I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.
That's interesting usually people who have rough childhood's are apt to jump into relationships very quickly. Even when it's not ideal and trust people off the bat because they know they are very resilient. They tend to be less self entitled.
It's sort of well ..i have been through all that shit ..so this heartbreak thing can't be so bad. They can also have low self esteem which means they will be with anyone who pays attention to them. click to expand
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Sometimes. I understand what you are saying.
It’s all a matter of perspective. Like children who grow up with an alcoholic. One might grow up and end up being an alcoholic themselves and blame it on the alcoholic parent. Because why not? It’s what I saw my whole life. What I learned about life.
Then another from the same family can grow up never wanting to drink. No drugs. Nothing. They also blame it on the alcoholic, because seeing it their whole life taught them what they did not want to be.
Same situation, same blame, different lesson.
I learned not to trust people.
Posted by euphony
I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.
this.
Posted by Breeze
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand
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2 months
Posted by Breeze
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand
2 months click to expand
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Getting married soon?
Posted by Breeze
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand
2 months click to expand
Getting married soon? click to expand
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No time soon, say in 2yrs. Just know shes the one with our vibe and chemistry
bc clearly everyone is "the one" to leebs😂
Posted by Breeze
After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand
2 months click to expand
Getting married soon? click to expand
No time soon, say in 2yrs. Just know shes the one with our vibe and chemistry click to expand
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Got you. I'm happy for you all.
Posted by startwars
bc clearly everyone is "the one" to leebs😂To some yeah I can see that
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