Do you ever just know...

Do you ever just know when you meet someone that this is the person for you

I always think that this is the way it should be...My parents met and they say they just knew that they were going to be together and they have never separated since meeting...They have had their ups and downs but they always worked it through..I sometimes wonder if I should settle for someone who is a good person..but for some reason there is always something missing and I can't continue to be with them because I am not happy and I also believe that they deserve someone who truly loves them..

But on the other hand I recently met someone who I thought was the one, but I am not his one...

Am I misguided by parents happiness?? Or do I want to much in a relationship??
I often question whether I will be alone because I cannot settle ...

Anybody else ever feel this way??

Yeah! my virgo friend never lets me down. We have so much in common it was just sparkity spark from right the beginning. You just know because they're so many things unspoken but understood at the same time, its really amazing.

You know that song.. 'you can't hurry love, oh you just have to wait.'
You're parents beliefs aren't all that wacky, just because its not happening for you right now doesn't mean it won't happen for you in the future.

'SORRY----'been deceived too many times that way.

Your parents met in a different time period. Now we have a lot of senseless people around us in the society. People are so scared to get into a committed relationship right away. We all waste a major part of our life chasing career.

Have to agree with thelibran for once. Back in the good old days, people got married young and stayed married, and there's a lot to be said for that way of doing things. Younger people are more flexible and idealistic.

I still think you could meet your soul-mate and "know" they were for you. I actually met my ex husband (Cancer) and knew right away he would be a very important person in my life.

I'm sorry that your dreams have been crushed hurt-heart...Unfortunately , I've seen too many unhappy couples , marriages and deaths , even to those I loved most...You do have your parents's marriage to believe in though , much better than many people so don't give up hope...Your life isn't over just because of some guys...Don't ever think the worst of yoursels..Try to look at things more objectively...Anyway, hang in there and enjoy life🙂

I need to be more of a taker, instead of always the one who gives..it?s never reciprocated enough, or at least to me standards. I dont think there?s a "one" for me, and im so bitter its probably for the best,hehehehe.

(( I dont think there?s a "one" for me, ))

May be you need to find two of them. 😛 dance sola dance.

I also tend to be the one to give more in relationships...do any other libras out there LOVE to give gifts and tokens to the ones you love? I really like this guy I am seeing, but it's kind of an undefined relationship...he's an aqua and definitely wants to take his time...I'm glad because I usually dive right in and don't spend enough time gettting to know someone...but it's his birthday this month, and I bought him, what I think are the most thoughtful gifts. I'm totally excited to give them to him...but I was thinking about my past, and how I always do this! I always give, give, give in a relationship...I already gave this guy I'm interested in a CD, a really cool special edition magazine with amazing hockey photos in it, and gave him another sports book that I had but wasn't interested in! I don't even realize I'm doing it, it's my way of showing I care and affection I guess...just wondered if any other libras suffer from this "giving" tendancy!!?

All of the gifts I've given him were things I didn't go out and buy, except for his upcoming bday gifts...but again, they are so small...one is just a travel guide book, (that I knew he would love because he wants to travel internationally) and the other is just a funny tee-shirt....(an inside joke between us)!

AHHH LOVE!!! What vonderul concept ...if only it were like the movies!!! But really its a lot more complicated than that. Let me tell u what I think about libra and love...
Libras are in a sense perfectionalists..we want love at its best but when things get ugly..which we hate "ugly unbalanced" crap we want to *shagg COUGH*
Am I not right—? =D
I want this super hot bod...brains...mystery...and lets see what else...O YEA =D super duper hot SEX!! YA forgot that one...

Really tho..who are we talking about here—

Love IMO is really dealing with all the imperfections a person has a truly seeing the soul. So hard to get that around to people wanting the "perfect" match.
Its knowing that one day without this person would drive you mad...
But be careful...lust can make u that way too. Love is something that is truly NOT perfect.