Told him...

So i didnt contact him all the week but he had sent a couple of messages asking how i was. So we arranged to meet last night, (after 2 weeks) because he was works away etc. Anyway, we were talking and stuff, and i just told him i was happy to see him and i would like to see him everyday..because its not good enough for him only to sweet talk me without physically making any effort. He was like "wow, its too early to see each other that often". Then he went in a mood and left. I feel a bit pissed off but i dont regret saying it..its not like its a new relationship..its a second chance.

What was i supposed to do..let him treat me like a bitch for a few hours?? And today is carnival and i dont want to ruin the mood of the day with heavy conversation. I dont know what he?ll do about it..i?ll wait and see.

you did the right thing----I'd be sky high if you said that to me.

Good for you

Like irishlibra said you should say what you feel..and if they don't feel the same way, we move on..I just went through this as well and it was driving me crazy...

Life is too short, and we should live everyday to a fullness...Not driving ourselves crazy analyzing or wondering if they care for us..

The issue is with them, let them keep it..

Move on or just be friends...That is what I decided to do (be friends) and I feel so much better..Letting Go, a great feeling..

Sola, I ALWAYS appreciate your upfrontness---you are a class act.

i rather regret the things i've said, then all the words i wish i had. yea that sounds kinda emo, but its the truth. in 5 yrs u'll look back and be like wow why didnt i say more, rather than less. i mean unless u tell the person when u just meet them that ur in love... thats a bit OD, but otherwise eh rather be straight upfront then not, it keeps the stress off of u.

yep say it how it is - regrets aren't good to live with

Atom..i DO want to see you everyday so where the hell are you??!

Like i said yesterday was carnival so i just sent a message saying "how are you..i think i scared you away yesterday, sorry but i am always direct. Enjoy tonight". He answered like 5 hours later to say i wasnt to worry and that he wasnt scared, so we?ll see what happens now.

Bling..I dont look like any Hollyoaks chic!!!

Phoenixblaze..i almost love him because i remember how it was last year too. He?s so lovely. Anyway, with a libra its never too soon, lol 🙂

Sola, sweety, now that I know, I'll work on that.

Sola, are you sure you don't have any scorp influences. A girl after my own heart. Lay it on the line girl... Then let it be.

Sola, checking in.....

Yes, i have some scorpio in my chart!! I guess its paid off because i have ignored him since Saturday and he contacted me yesterday about doing something tonight (if he finishes work early), whatever, i wont be getting my hopes up about that 😢

At least its a kind of effort..more please!

Hiya Atom, what?s happening with you??!

scorp/libra combo? oh my! (good!). I'm working and digging out of a foot of snow, learning new piano music (a Chopin etude), drinking Starbuck's french roast, flirting with an Aquarian waitress, checking the answers in YOUR profile---very similar to mine, scanning a few hundred e-mails and brainstorming on what to do next about selling real estate---also took a few days off to mourn for a friend who passed on. we did several commercial real estate deals together. funny guy. how's teaching going?

Teaching is good but oh so tiring..its like im a machine 🙂 Wow, you sound busy too, you flirt, ha!!!

Anyway, so i was so looking forward to seeing him tonight, and then at 7pm he sends a message to say he has a "reunion" of some sort at the time when we were supposed to meet and that when he?s finished he?ll call.....

WTF, am I missing something— How can he think i?ll just be waiting for him to get round when he likes, damn loser. Has he got no shame, i really wonder. WHATEVER..im off to bed.

Speak with you soon my sweet.

time to be aloof. (he didn't know about the "reunion" before making plans with you— gimme a break! it does not bode well.)---a GUY's perspective.

I KNOW!!!

Well, pat me on the back..i was good!! He told me we?ll speak tomorrow, but i just told him to forget it. Im not even going to start with the shit..im so proud of myself (if a little gutted) 😢

And last night i deleted all of his messages and phone number, just in case i get slippery fingers and contact him..i have my pride 🙂

Well done Sola. Well done!! (stands applauding)

bad sola!!! 😛

wow, its too early to see each other that often".

what an azzzz *cough

Go get another Scorpio..plenty of them in the sea =D

PROUD of you, sweety! and librabrahaha she just needs a certain Aries (love that fire, Sola!).

Thanks guys!! So glad i did it, or else i would have done something i would have regretted!!! He hasnt contacted me either, so that speaks VOLUMES.

Yeah, Atom, taht special Aries support is all i need 🙂

librabrahaha she just needs a certain Aries

True..Fire signs are AWWWWW 😆

And I might add there is something about a Scorpio that is completely irrisisble at times..I can't put my finger on it. SO with this being said... ya betta run. Its like I said before..u either fall in love with them or run...

Ummm, no!! Been there done that with 3 scorps, and im just not up for anymore right now!

Any other love interests right now?

Only you!!!

Well, Libra actually called last night because he "really needed" to speak with me..so round he comes full of apologies and says he wants to start a proper relationship me?? I said what makes him think i feel the same after such a shit week, but i?ve decided to give it a try. We?ll just go slowly and see how it goes. Yikes!!!
Im scared because he says if we meet other people we like more than each other then we have to respect each other and be upfront and not make too many demands without compromise, i think he was being genuine. But why talk about breaking up when nothing has even started yet?? It will be hard keeping my distance, but i will just have to try for my own sake. He?s gone again for the working week, so i wont be seeing him for a few days..even St. Valentine?s Day 😢

Ahhhh, confusion reigns.

happy early Valentine's Day. Please be mine! I will keep you confusion-less. You know how it will go with that guy because you're SMART as well as beautiful. (Planning possible breakup in advance— Y ou are waaay too good for him).

I?m all yours 🙂 Feel the warmth...

He hasnt mentioned St Valentine?s Day (surprise, surprise)..so much for all Libra?s being romantic!!! Who knows about a breakup..we havent even really started ....yet!!!

mine isn't going to do anything for V-Day either. He didn't do anything for our 1 year anniversary last week, well unless you count breaking up with me.

*palpitations* thinking of Sola.

—? HP —? He WHAT—? (Frustrated about how people are treating each other . . .)

omg HP..that?s so shit..what the hell happened, and why had he waited until that particular day to break the news??

Atom, hehe..you?re so cute!

dark chocolate to you, my lovely Sola . HP, what—?