nats
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Posted by natsI think she is playing with you and serving her own ego with your attention. Don't get invested.
To be honest I just want to be her friend for now... I dont want to jump into anything at all. I havent done anything other than just be there and she's opened up to me about her personal life and family issues and issues with her ex..we met online. She spoke to me and has initiated the contact between us on a daily basis via calls and texts.
I didnt speak to her for a few hours this morning and when I finally reached out she was upset at me because she thought I had been ignoring her. I told her I was just giving her space and she said that she didnt want space and was upset because we had spoken every single day since we started so I shouldnt have assumed she wanted space
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The day comes and she said she was really nervous but was all in. Just before she's about to leave to pick me up she tells me she's having a major issue with her best friend who is also her house mate (I am aware they had been having issues previously). Turns out he apparently took her car keys off her so she couldnt leave but said she'd call soon to sort something out because she wanted to see me even if it was for 5mins.
She never called and I've sent her multiple texts and made calls and she hasnt responded at all and has gone MIA. Its been about 2 hours now since I last heard from her. I sent her a lengthy text just now telling her while I should be mad im not because I genuinely think she's a good person and I apologised if me harrasing her caused her more stress tonight. I told her not to cut me off or shy away and that id be here when she was ready to talk and if she needed anything.
Question is - what happened?! I know that when she becomes upset at anything she hides away. What should I do? I'll obviously give her time and space until I hear back but what happened? Is this usual libra behaviour? Did she get cold feet??