The unexpected happened!

Hello everyone, I posted on here about 2 weeks ago seeking advice after my Libra girlfriend dumped me. I stopped contacting her completely since then. Yesterday, she called me out of nowhere in tears telling me how much she missed me and loved me, she says she took me for granted and she sees now how much I love her. Only problem is since then I met a new woman and I like her a lot, she is a Virgo(like myself) and we get along great it's almost scary how much we act alike lol.

But I still love my ex obviously, some of my feelings have faded due to her pushing me away and treating me like crap for two months straight.

We've been together 2 1/2 years. I'm not sure if I should just pursue this new girl who likes me a lot and gives me attention or if I should run back to my ex who realizes she made a mistake letting me go.

Any Libra women think she deserves another chance??

Yikes hm idk should go with the one with actions are louder than words.

And seems to me you have options maybe just date and see many other people.

Posted by tiziani
It's rarely ever a good sign when someone calls you up crying to make big decisions. Either they are being disingenous, or they are being genuine and simply reaching to you out of weakness.

You want to know someone is reaching to you at a strong moment.

Take your time. You're not forced to make any decisions. #LibraLife

Listen to this, screw your ex she treated you like crap and now realizes the grass is not always greener.

Hmm I don't think you should go back to her. But that's your decision.

Although something tells me you have a far better connection with your new girl... I've seen so many Virgo-Virgo relationships, they are just like each other and they last. They have a way of dealing with each other over time and have the same interests, but it's not boring to them, it's comforting. Of course that's not the case for everyone...just the ones I've seen.

Anyway, we can't say what your heart desires. Do you want to go back to your ex or do you want to pursue this new relationship?

And yeah she will be pissed and hurt that you already found someone else, but she'll find someone else eventually too. You just have to let her go completely.

Two weeks is a pretty short time to be mostly over someone, especially after 2 1/2 years of dating! It's taken almost a year to get over my libra ex I dated for almost a year.....not that I'm a quick recovery kind of person when I really love someone.

I think having a conversation in person about both the logical and emotional reasons to get back together or not may be in order...I mean, you guys dated for almost three years...couldn't have been that bad of a relationship.

If that's the time line for you guys then he had that person already. Move on.

I would not go back it will not end well.

3 types of fwb zones.

There's jumpers which barely meets up and hits it, side chicks they get perks more than jumpers, and then there's the mistress. Which one are you?

My Libra friend would always go nuts if guys cut off contact with her! It served as the main trigger for her to reach out and get back with them. Anyway 2 weeks is a very short time to get over someone.. remember why you broke up in the first place and don't make any rash decisions.

She's just feeling lonely. I've been guilty of this. Unhappy so I break it off then panic sets in when I realize fuck I'm all alone now haha. Dated a couple of Virgos and I felt the same...lack of passion. Move on.

Don't go back to your ex. You really like this new girl. It sounds like if you were to go back to your ex it would be out of guilt. That won't end well.

Dont go back to the ex.

You barely know this new girl...it's impossible to say if it'll work out. I'd be honest with your ex and say you've started dating, that you still feel for her but after this long you assumed it was over...and it'd be hard to trust her again. You dont have to make a decision now.

I used to pull away from my virgo ex when he'd get emotionally distant, and we were off and on for 8 years because of me mostly I'll admit

After reading everything you guys said and chasing my ex for 2 months, I realized the way I feel for her is not there anymore. I was head over heels in love with this girl and now I just don't feel it.

I know I just met this new girl within the past 2 weeks but I've been 100% honest with her about the situation and she's still made me feel wanted and important in ways my ex hasn't in a long time.

I love her but I'm not really all that happy around her anymore

Posted by VirgosRcoool92
Hello everyone, I posted on here about 2 weeks ago seeking advice after my Libra girlfriend dumped me. I stopped contacting her completely since then. Yesterday, she called me out of nowhere in tears telling me how much she missed me and loved me, she says she took me for granted and she sees now how much I love her. Only problem is since then I met a new woman and I like her a lot, she is a Virgo(like myself) and we get along great it's almost scary how much we act alike lol.

But I still love my ex obviously, some of my feelings have faded due to her pushing me away and treating me like crap for two months straight.

We've been together 2 1/2 years. I'm not sure if I should just pursue this new girl who likes me a lot and gives me attention or if I should run back to my ex who realizes she made a mistake letting me go.

Any Libra women think she deserves another chance??

"Late Reply"..Hell to the Na'll....Do't give her anymore chances...She blew it, you've moved on and you seem happy, so keep it that way. She'll be alright

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Posted by VirgosRcoool92
Hello everyone, I posted on here about 2 weeks ago seeking advice after my Libra girlfriend dumped me. I stopped contacting her completely since then. Yesterday, she called me out of nowhere in tears telling me how much she missed me and loved me, she says she took me for granted and she sees now how much I love her. Only problem is since then I met a new woman and I like her a lot, she is a Virgo(like myself) and we get along great it's almost scary how much we act alike lol.

But I still love my ex obviously, some of my feelings have faded due to her pushing me away and treating me like crap for two months straight.

We've been together 2 1/2 years. I'm not sure if I should just pursue this new girl who likes me a lot and gives me attention or if I should run back to my ex who realizes she made a mistake letting me go.

Any Libra women think she deserves another chance??

"Late Reply"..Hell to the Na'll....Do't give her anymore chances...She blew it, you've moved on and you seem happy, so keep it that way. She'll be alright

L4L. Long time no hear. How's things? You looking very well! 😄

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Hi Busy!!

Thanks and I'm loving that hair of yours...especially the color..been thinking about adding some color for a few years, but I haven't quite found the exact shade, but working on it. All is been well....heavy work and class load, but I try to chime in from time to time. I know you checked out for awhile, but I see you're back as well.

dont do it.