Honest opinion from a libra man.

can you reopen? would like to read and give my opinion... im a taurus dating a libra as well.

Thank you TaurusInShania. Please share your experience; I am trying to understand what just happened??

Hard one to figure out.

Loving and caring plus you met the fam. He was all in. (I would be). Im not that way unless i have feelings for you because if i dont youll only get to say hi and bye.

If you tell me you love me and feelings are mutual itll just me love you back or more.

He isnt sure and was on the fence. If we dont fully feel for you that we back off. Maybe he was feeling this before you told him you loved him and he didnt want to just hurt you. Now hes getting out before its too late.

If he did have feelings for you hell be back! We come back to the ones we like.

hmmmm... libras finds it hard to commit but i must tell you once you've met the family with these men then this is serious. other signs may do that to play you further but libras are not like that. you were good to give him space when he distanced himself because they love their freedom. one thing about the libra i am dating now is this....

anytime we get close i dont hear from him for awhile, matter of fact i reach out when i want to see him (after waiting a few days) and he always drops whatever to come see me. so i feel with your libra he got hot feet as they always want to weigh everything once their feelings starts to get deeper.

i would've said you should've asked the reason why he broke it off to give yourself more to go on. how long has it been since you haven't heard from him? also you cannot show him that you are sad or pining for him though you want to. they need to know you have a life of your own. i cannot say to move on like everyone is saying here... meeting the family was a big deal. how long has he been gone? it may be a case he needs to find his medium back to being a man and feared being tied down (we may not give off that vibe but by not waiting for them to come to us sometimes they may feel that way).. libras are also jealous did you do anything that may have caused that too?

Posted by confusednj
I am a taurus woman who dated a libra man for 3 months.

He told me ever since I told him I loved him; he has been thinking about it and he doesn't feel the same way.

Don't say the L word only 3 months in. That'll freak out anyone, especially an air sign.

definitely all of the above - do not wait - just move on with your life - sorry

Thanks everyone your opinion. It has been almost a week and I have not heard from him..and most likely never will.

I believe it’s better to move on; the fact that that he chose to breakup over the phone really hurt me. It speaks volumes about his character. I understand Libras want to avoid confrontation; but at least have the decency and maturity to show your face. This is a human being; not just an old piece of furniture that you just want to get rid of asap.

As far as saying I love too soon; I don’t regret it. I rather have my love known than kept quiet out of fear. I wasn't looking for validation nor had any expectations to hear it back. I know love takes time to grow and even longer to recognize.

Thanks for letting me vent.

something happened that scared him. It might not have been you at all. let it be known that you like him once more..then move on.