Posted by Goodtimes
"He is hot then cold" = I am not interested in anything serious with you.

"but he just isn't committed enough for me" = I am not interested in anything serious with you

"he said that he be working and forgets to call right back" = I am not interested in anything serious with you

"but he started the not responding thing again" = I am not interested in anything serious with you.

"He never answered nor texted back" = I am not interested in anything serious with you.

"I just told him I was over it and I didn't trust him nor did I believe him. And for him to not call me anymore. This was Friday I haven't spoke with him since" = I am not interested in anything serious with you.

Where do I stand in his life ? ROFLMAO, ROFLMAO, ROFLMAO, ROFLMAO,ROFLMAO, ROFLMAO!!



😂😂😂😂😂 so if we both are doing the samthings im not that interested in him either. We talk a lot and it's not like he just doesnt answer for me I'm use to guys kissing my ass and he isn't. It's not like if I call him today he won't call me back it's just not in the time frame I would like it to be

Y'all are so harsh 😂😂😂😂

But I talk to him today 🤔🤔🤔

Posted by LibraGirlLost
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LibraGirlLost,

Bulls are 'fixed' signs, consistent beings who have the strength and determination to get through any crisis.
We expect the same from our partners.
The 'ideal' partner may not have to exude the exact strength of a Bull, but at least have the 'staying' power to fight for us.

It appears as if the movements and statements of a potential partner dictates your movements, I sense this from your fickle behavior.If this is the case, you will never HAVE what you really want.

Four years is too long to be playing these reindeer games. You want him or don't you? Stop balancing the scales, stop weighing out the 'pros' and 'cons', & stop making yourself and the readers 'dizzy' from your indecisiveness.

Here is the dilemma with you and this other female.
Bulls are "Earth"....."Venusian."
We crave love and security.
This other woman represents 'security' because she has been a permanent, consistent presence in his life.
You, on the other hand, clearly have his hearrt. Why else would he do this song and dance with you for 4 years?

If he has you at bay, it's because you put yourself at bay.
If you want to come out of it, show some consistency, and stop letting his movements dictate yours.
The other woman's position isn't soldified, and this isn't stopping her.


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I guess your right thank you so much 😬🤗

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LibraGirlLost,

Bulls are 'fixed' signs, consistent beings who have the strength and determination to get through any crisis.
We expect the same from our partners.
The 'ideal' partner may not have to exude the exact strength of a Bull, but at least have the 'staying' power to fight for us.

It appears as if the movements and statements of a potential partner dictates your movements, I sense this from your fickle behavior.If this is the case, you will never HAVE what you really want.

Four years is too long to be playing these reindeer games. You want him or don't you? Stop balancing the scales, stop weighing out the 'pros' and 'cons', & stop making yourself and the readers 'dizzy' from your indecisiveness.

Here is the dilemma with you and this other female.
Bulls are "Earth"....."Venusian."
We crave love and security.
This other woman represents 'security' because she has been a permanent, consistent presence in his life.
You, on the other hand, clearly have his hearrt. Why else would he do this song and dance with you for 4 years?

If he has you at bay, it's because you put yourself at bay.
If you want to come out of it, show some consistency, and stop letting his movements dictate yours.
The other woman's position isn't soldified, and this isn't stopping her.


Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Libragirlost,

From what I gather (after reading your posts several times to try to figure out what you were asking), you tend to demand more than what you're willing to put in. He made a reference to his close female friend in regards to her loyalty and longevity. He reciprocated it, which of course is very "Taurus." Give us 100% and we will give you 150% .

This should have been your first clue as to what he looks for in a female, and how he will reciprocate once its given. Very redeeming qualities. Instead you jumped to conclusions, threw a hissy fit, and cut him off.

There were several other 'iffy' behaviors from you, not being interested, already in a relationship, being late/no show to his birthday party.

I still don't know what you're asking.
But if you want to be with this Taurus man, show some consistency, loyalty, longevity and GET ON YOUR GAME!

You made a reference about needing to have all you eggs in one basket before you proceed.
Patience is a two way street sweetie!
You haven't been steady or consistent in his life to make in order for him to make that determination about you.

If you didn't know about it, ask this female loyal best friend that he feels indebted to.

Take notes.


Ok. Maybe your right. On something's . I did run because I felt like if I stayed I would have been a side chick. Because he was trying to make it work with her. I wasn't in a relationship we were broken up. I just choose to get back with my ex because I wasn't sure what the Taurus wanted from me. Now that we are talking he isn't consistent so it makes me not be consistent with him. Example he said he like for girls to blow him up and show him they want him . I did that once and he didn't pick up. So to me I felt like what was the purpose. My whole thing is I show him what I want by inviting him over wanting to spend time . I don't talk much but my actions speak louder than words .

Then I was late to the party bus but I showed up and made sure he had a great time. Not only did I show him that I'm not a jealous women I made sure he knew how much he meant to me.

His friends knew how I was but I had no clue who they were. Until this nite.

I guess I should have told him I wanted more then a friendship but I swear this random girl made me feel some type of way.

So I told him I was done . I never looked at it from your point of view until now maybe he feel like when things gets ruff I'm going to bail out on him

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
That's why I can't stand libra sometimes...

How can he "disrespect" you when he as you put "is a free man"???

Stop wasting our damn time...

Ask yourself what exactly do you want him??


I THINK YOU MIGHT BE A LITTLE CRAZY, libras are great people . We just don't put all are eggs in one basket until we know that basket is ares. And right now I feel like he needs to express his self . Or leave me alone
How am I condoning what he is doing when I confront him on his doing. On top of we are just friends we aren't in a relationship never were. So yes I'm confused on how I'm suppose to control a free man .? He's not my man, but I will not have him disrespecting me. And he hasn't don't that yet. If he doesn't text me right back I'm supposed to curse him out is what your saying?
Posted by jeane
Posted by LibraGirlLost
This is crazy because we have the best relationship up until now. I be needing my space so I don't call or text as much . And he said that I don't be calling him enough then I started. He has always chased me and spoke his mind up until I left him alone . Now he's now mute . And he expresses himself little by little. I never said he treats me horrible or any of that. I just asked if I should over look this issue that was brought soon this weekend because he told me she wasn't his girl and that was it. Me as a women I need more information and I'm not getting that. So I'm lost on why y'all going hard 😂


"He is hot then cold he and I does the same thing if he don't answer my calls or text I won't answer his calls or texts."
"he just isn't committed enough for me I told him about it and he said that he be working and forgets to call right back. But I felt other wise."
"When I'm free he's not or when he's free I'm not. I was like okay and left it at that."
"but he started the not responding thing again so this time I told him I was done playing with him"
"he called me still not explaining who she was or what the situation was"
"I called him a few hours later he never answered nor texted back . I just told him I was over it and I didn't trust him nor did I believe him. And for him to not call me anymore."

you're right. it does sound like one the best relationships.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by jeane
it shouldn't be this hard.


FACT
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Oh but it is because what if she just upset he moved on and I stopped talking to him again for no reason then what? I'm saying should I talking to him about it more or just leave it with me leaving him alone. I'm confused because I have real feelings for him
Posted by jeane
it shouldn't be this hard.


But it is because I don't be liking people for real
We weren't serious because I had somebody but we were on bad terms so when I went out I met the Taurus we became the greatest friends. We hung out and loved each other's company we were just friends (2013) then one day we were at the bar and that's when he left out and came back upset and told me about his situation. Me being a libra I just stop talking to him. (2016) we became back cool he said that I just left him without a word and I have a kid now. And that he didn't like that I just left him like that. We started back hanging and talking more. One day he expressed his feeling he said that are timing is off and when he's free I'm not and when I'm free he's not. We both call and text but we don't answer all the time. We agreed to start doing that. But I had been telling him to move on because I feel like he's hiding something from me . And wouldn't let it go. And he said he's not hiding anything. I wasn't going to go out for him on his birthday but he insisted I go plus waited for me to come out. The whole nite he was in my face. Not really entertaining the other that was on the bus. The nite ended with a ex going crazy ( who wasn't invited ) blocking the bus with her car screaming for him to get off the bus. Me being the girl he's dating it didn't sit with me well. I just wanted to know how should I take it. Because he didn't go into details about it. He just said that she wasn't his girl and he was sorry it happened. He wanted to finish enjoying his birthday with me. But I choose to tell him to move on . We have spoken since sat morning.
This is crazy because we have the best relationship up until now. I be needing my space so I don't call or text as much . And he said that I don't be calling him enough then I started. He has always chased me and spoke his mind up until I left him alone . Now he's now mute . And he expresses himself little by little. I never said he treats me horrible or any of that. I just asked if I should over look this issue that was brought soon this weekend because he told me she wasn't his girl and that was it. Me as a women I need more information and I'm not getting that. So I'm lost on why y'all going hard 😂
Posted by ChoXtsy
It's clearly already not working. Stop trying to make something happen. You say he's not changing but you're the one continuously coming back. Move on


I never said he wasn't changing . I said he was. And I never said it wasn't working out . And I'm running back .
Ok so I've been friends with this Taurus guy birthday 4/30 for about 4 years when I first met him we hung out a lot and he always want to hang out. Then one day we were at a bar and he got a call he left out the bar and his whole mood changed he told me that it was a girl in his life that had be there for him when he lost everything and he was trying to do the same for her, but he liked me. I stop talking to him right then and there. We wasn't having sex so I was okay with leaving him alone. A year past and I was done with my situation and I called him up just to see how he was doing . And we've been talking a lot I asked him does he have a girl or anything serious he told me no. He is hot then cold he and I does the same thing if he don't answer my calls or text I won't answer his calls or texts. We get along great no arguments we like the same things we have a great time .but he just isn't committed enough for me I told him about it and he said that he be working and forgets to call right back. But I felt other wise. We had a talk and I told him how I felt about us and he said to me that it's not that he's not interested or doesn't want what I want it's just timing. When I'm free he's not or when he's free I'm not. I was like okay and left it at that. So we started working on timing and I have been trying to be patient with him. Things were getting better, but he started the not responding thing again so this time I told him I was done playing with him . And he invited me out for his birthday to stop me from being mad. They were suppose to leave at 10pm but I was running late and told him to go ahead but he said he was waiting on me. So I get there and at first he sat at the front of the bus and didn't sit by me or his other friend he had on the bus. The. He came and sat by me. And he did that the whole time we were on the bus . He never really gave the other girl to much attention . She didn't like that so she started trying to get his attention and trying to be all in his face . He wasn't feeling that and steady was backing up. Long story short he was giving me all his attention. So the nite was ending and then this car pulls up and started blocking us and wouldn't let us off the bus . A girl gets out and was screaming the Taurus name telling him to get off the bus, not only was he not getting off the bus he had this look on his face like he was caught. The whole time I never thought the girl on the bus meant anything to him nor did I think she was even close to being his girl. I felt it was someone else . And there she goes acting crazy while we were trying to get off the bus. After everything I said who was she and he said again she wasn't his girl. And he wanted me to come back and see him. I didn't the next day he called me still not explaining who she was or what the situation was but yet he wanted to hang out with me again he said he missed me and he was sorry that it happened. At first I was like okay I'll go paint ball shooting with you . Just let me know a time . But that whole situation wasn't sitting right with so I called him a few hours later he never answered nor texted back . I just told him I was over it and I didn't trust him nor did I believe him. And for him to not call me anymore. This was Friday I haven't spoke with him since. Did I do the right thing or should I ask him to talk to me about it. Where do I stand in his life ? We just had sex 2 times and I've known him for 4 years. I'm lost for words because I really like him. Should I give up on this or make it work
Run girl run virgos are not relationship type they are good treetrunks nothing more or friends move on he's going to continue to be that way , in his mind your better in the dark he kept his distant just in case he saw someone he might wanna get to know on a more personal level . Trust me I know virgos to well Run
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Based on my experience, they are able to pick up your energy/feelings (e.g. if you still have feelings for an ex, are you thinking positively or negatively about a situation, etc.), but the predictions are usually off (e.g. he will contact you in 3 months). I have tried a few. Some of them were good at describing my current situations.


That's crazy because I just wanna know what's real and what's not. And I keep getting these readings that's not correct . Can you refer me to the ones you went too
Plus why when you ask for them to give more details on the future they can't !!! Like why you can only see this guy I'm not even thinking about. What about this new guy? Or work or anything else. Or what about spell workers who lie because that stuff doesn't work it's a waste of money !!
That's true I do believe that because one reader was dead on with my past and things going on with my daughter health But when it came to my ex relationship she was on and off with a lot of things and some things didn't make sense she also told me his mom was paying someone to do work on me because she doesn't like me . She kept saying my ex was a vampire she kept saying she see a guy with the first letter M that he and I were going to be married with kids and that guy and I don't even talk , so A lot of things didn't make sense so I was confused . She did tarot and read my hand. But she kept pressuring me to get a spiritual cleaning . And kept wanting more money. I stop talking to her because she was doing to much

Then the other lady she had told me something's that came true but I don't like that she calls someone for her readings she made me right down questions and then told me what the person told her , her readings were some what true and then it was parts I was waiting to happen but didn't. She told me that he loved me but he just isn't any good . She said that he'll never be in our daughters life and when he does it's not going to be consistent she also said he mother paid someone to do voodoo to break us up

The I went to this other lady and she did tarot cards she spoke of my ex as well and she said if I wait then he will change but as of right now he wants it to be over she explained what kind of guy he was and how are relationship was she was to expensive and not long enough to go into detail

The last lady said told me a lot of things like how I'm getting over my ex How he loved me and he's hurt about our relationship and how it ended she told me that we don't see eye to eye and he doesn't want the responsibility of something right now ( I knew she was talking about our daughter ) she asked if we had kids I said yes she said as of right now we are out of sight out of mind to him she said it was a lot of pain in this relationship and one of us was really hurt . Then that was it . I called her again months later and she said that it's a guy that coming into my life and he's going to not be what I think he is meaning he's not truthful about how he feels she said she sees a new love interest it isn't anybody I know or talk too she said I'm going to really like him and we are going to be happy together but don't let this guy that isn't being truthful fool you I didn't think anything of it so I asked to get spell work done she said okay but when I told her my ex name And she started the work she told me that it was my ex that going to come back because of a current relationship that's going to fail he's coming back soon and don't trust him he hasn't changed. The relationship is going to be the same

They all told me that my ex was no good only one told me he will change but it won't be anytime soon.

My thing is how do they keep seeing him or bringing him up . How do they know it's really him we don't talk at all which person is telling the truth
Don't give it your all until you know they are there to stay.