Honk Twice If It's Nice. . .

Hey Ya'll,
I'm pretty sure that you all are aware that it's going to take some time for a Libra to come around. My Libra admirer hasn't been to the BP in 2 1/2 weeks after I brought up the idea of getting together. I was beginning to think that I've done something wrong. So, I began placing my mind on my work and successfully distracted myself from him. He'd drive thru the parking lot and not come in, or he'll just drive by the store keeping an observation for me. Last night, there was a gas leakage on pump 6 which was one of the pumps facing the intersection that we're on. I went outside with a bucket if kitty litter to put onto the spillage. I bent over at the waist to pour the kitty litter on the spillage, then the intersection light turned green. The cars were turning into the street our gas station was on. As I was bent over, I heard a series of honking from a car from behind me. I looked back to see my Libra admirer driving by with a buddy on the passenger side. He saw me, but I didn't know he was at the intersection. So, I'm sure he must've had an exciting view, because the way that horn was honking so many times seemed like he got excited. I don't understand becuase later on a friend of his was driving his truck and came in for him to get a pack of Turkish Silvers. I knew it was a friend of his because it was his SUV. The psychological behavior of a Libra is a bit odd. My Scorpio friend, Stephanie brought up that the way he may just like me intensely that he's probably afraid of losing his composure when standing in front of me. So he avoids the store. Besides, no one really approaches their crush when they know that it's mutual. To me, I just might get bored and just blow this guy completely off if I'm kept waiting too long, but he's obviously feeling something, but the question is, when will I find out what's really up.

I read a book that states that, "Libras are notorious observers when it comes to love. They'll observe you from afar and even have friends keep watch of you." Have any of you done that to someone you admired? You know, watch them from afar and have friends keep an eye on them. Why would anyone get friends involved or even back off when interest is shown. Please somebody, feed my curiousity.

Hi Dreamy

I don't think I have ever done that especially involving friends. The only time where I would do anything like that was if I didn't trust the person.

I will know everything about you, if I am interested in you, because I listen, observe, and put it all together. I usually know my partner's better than anyone else simply because I pay attention. But spy? I don't think so.

Little Sparrow,
I am quite concerned of how he'd be waving at me even when he has a friend with him. Something just don't seem quite right. I want to confront him about it, because I feel like he's just messing with me and that I'm probably the butt of a joke that he laughs uproarously with his buddies. I'm starting to think that it's not nice at all. I'm gonna confront him to bring all of these encounters to a stone cold end. The idea of love for me is all good, but I knew it was all too good to be true and that it'll be nothing but an idea and never a reality.

what happened? why do you suddenly feel it is a hoax?

((Dreamy-eyez))

I really hope it isn't and can't imagine how it could be. Let me know what happens.

BTW if it isn't a hoax, you end any possibility of something more with this man. I am sure you know that.

Little Sparrow,
I just don't want to become disappointed. After I brought up the idea of getting together, he was gone for a few weeks. Though, he blew his horn at me when he saw me. Is this flirting? You know, stay away and make yourself scarce so I could have even more affection than before? Anyway, I remembered his address from checking his ID card so many times and I sent him a package to give up the birthday present I had saved for him. It's a shiny money clip that was customized with the first intitial of his name along with a customized key chain. Like I was saying, I gave it up all to him and wrote in the letter that it was my final letter to him. I basically gave it to him straight by telling him that I appreciate his kindness and attention. I also told him that he was a decent guy but there was no way I could be around him and bear the nervousness due to the fact that I'm gay. I came out to him in the letter and I even left my cell phone number if he ever decides to call me, but I hate it when someone stirs up my emotions to where I feel alot, then get disappointed. Now, I'm nervous and I'm going to be a sitting duck at the BP because the post office lady said that he'll get the package today. All I can do is just go on about my regular day and see what happens. I will keep you all updated. Dreamy-Eyez, out.

Good luck with it all Dreamy

Libras tend to have mazed out social calendars. It could be he just got really busy. I wish you hadn't sent the letter ... libras generally like things light and breezy we don't like other people's emotions. They can make us feel ... uncomfortable.

I hope it works out for you. (finger's crossed)

Little Sparrow,
When I said I came out, I didn't express a whole lot of emotion by telling him how I felt about him. (No way.) I basically told him that all of his kindness and gestures were appreciated but he has to realize that I'm gay. I remember someone on this board brought up a point about how Venus is a Libra's ruling planet and that I could be getting that mis-interpreted as something else. I told him that I would be happy to begin a friendship with him, but I'm not sure if me being gay would be acceptable. I'm taking the un-assuming approach and I'm hoping that it doesn't backfire, because I'm really scared.

I don't think there is anything to be afraid of.

Let us know what happens. k?

Who knows? He just might fess up on his true intentions. But, Little Sparrow I just want to thank you because I can feel your support. I told three more of my friends of my sexuality and they were amazingly supportive. I felt so relieved that they didn't look at me nor treat me any differently. I also made a new friend whose a Leo lesbian. When she first saw me, she was like, "YOU ARE SO FREAKIN' BEAUTIFUL!!!" Then she said, " I just got to ask you, but are you gay, because I'm gay." I told her that I couldn't really talk about that right now. So she decided that we exchange numbers and stay in touch. We talk on the phone and keep in touch. She's really cool and I could tell she was lonely. She seemed relieved to know someone else who understands what it is she's feeling. As for my Libra guy? He stares at me like he sees something in me. Maybe with me revealing that could be what it was he saw. He did give me a card that said, "You Are Never Alone." I felt like he was sympathizing with me, but I thought "About What?" Little Sparrow, I haven't completely given up on him because I still really like him. I'm just overwhelmed of how this seems too good to be true. I am hesitant to express any emotion to him, but his Scorpio Moon should help him deal with it better than an ordinary Libra.

" I just got to ask you, but are you gay, because I'm gay."

HAHAHAHA! That is great! That is such a leo thing to say!

I am glad you are finding most people are just accepting of you. I find most evolved people just don't care if you are gay, straight, or whatever. They care that you are a good person. They may be a little shocked at first, but I know tons of straight men who have remained good friends with other men after they came out. I am happy to see that acceptance of others is becoming a trend.

I agree the Scorp moon might make it easier for him to handle your emotions.

As for the You Are Never Alone card ... it kind of sounds like a loving gesture. Hard to say though.

I tend to give little gifts when I am heavy in like.

Little Sparrow,
A loving gesture, you say? Well, he did seem a bit tender as he was explaining how he was trying to turn his life around spiritually and wanted to share that with me. That's why I like him so much. He's cool and refined, but at the same time he's modest, a bit shy and sensitive. He teases me playfully and he's ultra observant of me from afar, but as soon as he's in close proximity, he gets all shy and bashful with his head hanging low, smiling un-controllably all while twisting the toe of his left shoe onto the floor. It's cute. Also, he'll take shy glances up at me. I still have that card and I take it every where with me. As a matter of fact, it's with me right now. When he saw that I'm aware of him watching me and seeing his body language, he started wearing shades to hide his eyes. His eyes are like two full moons when they are fixed upon you. It's crazy of how the way I feel when they are on me. I hope that it's all not a hoax, and I hope for something to develop. I sent him the letter already in a small packae with a small gift. Hopefully, he likes it and reacts to it in a positive way.

ohhh. he likes you. I am sure of it.

🙂

Today is my day off and I'm just going to relax my nerves. At the BP, some of our advertising posters got taken down from the window behind me, so I can pretty much see the traffic at the intersection clearly. I saw my Libra admirer driving faster than usual from work. I began to wonder what was the hurry. I then began to wonder if he was coming from the post office to pick up the package I sent him and is hurrying home to open it. Normally, he's just cruising but yesterday was the fastest I've ever seen him drive. He was flying down the road. I sent the package on Tuesday and he must've gotten a notice on Wedsnesday, and gotten a chance to pick it up on Thursday. I am so anxious about his reaction to it. He might avoid me even more after reading the note about me being gay. Man, all of this mystery and waiting has me a bit antsy. Well, I'll keep you all posted.

Little Sparrow,
Did you read that post entitled, "Bad Libra" ? On the post, that Sola person said that his Venus is in Libra and that he always takes the faults of those he admires to give him a reason not to like them anymore. My Libra admirer has Mars and Venus in Virgo, which are both opposite of my Mars and Venus in Pisces. My goodness, I think my admirer is just better off admiring me from afar if he's just going to take my faults and use them against me. I read on Venus and Mars in Virgo. There is an immense attraction, but I don't know. God, I'm so nervous now. (Thanks Alot, Sola.) Dreamy-Eyez, out.

Dreamy

I grabbed this for you on Venus in Virgo.

When your Venus is in Virgo, you express love by doing things for, and fussing over, your loved one. You notice little things about your partner, make mental notes of their likes and dislikes (this may sound contrived, but it's not?it's simply the way you're wired!), and genuinely try to help your lover in practical ways. You listen to what your lover has to say, and you have something sensible and intelligent to say in response! In fact, you are great at communicating about your relationship.

One dilemma that can easily happen with this position: Your partner doesn't always know how to please you. You might have a simple answer, but he/she may still wonder. You see all of the details of your relationship. You worry about its viability, and tend to the practical details of partnership. These are important contributions to the relationship, but because they lack glamour, your partner may not always appreciate you. You are not the most romantic partner, and your tastes are rather simple (although, as mentioned before, it is hard for others to see that simplicity because you may have a habit of fussing). Can't see the forest for the trees? Your partner might accuse you of this, and it may be true. You will benefit from sitting back and infusing yourself with some faith in the big picture, once in a while. But, you are needed! And there are partners who will see that. You work hard at making yourself indispensable in your partner's life. Generally, you don't throw yourself into love affairs too readily. This does not mean you are chaste, like the Virgo of yore. Some Venus in Virgo natives can even be promiscuous. But when it comes to gooey romance, where lovers bare all, you are rather selective and self-contained. You are a very sensual being who wants to feel safe before giving yourself to another. Venus in Virgo has a reputation for being critical. This does happen, but it generally is a symptom of insecurity. You can't help but see the failings and the holes in any partnership, and you can sometimes be quite reticent about entering a partnership. Generally, though, you will see what's wrong with a person at the outset of a relationship when it doesn't feel safe to you as yet. It's a defense mechanism more than anything! Your own insecurities can propel you to see faults and problems in your partner. Once you feel safe, however, you are not quite the fussbudget Venus in Virgo is made out to be.

Once you feel safe, however, you are not quite the fussbudget Venus in Virgo is made out to be. You value effort put into a relationship (in fact, for many with this position, effort from their partner is at the top of their list).


It is from this site:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/venusvirgocompatibility.html<BR>

Little Sparrow,
So they are slow at beginning new relationships of any type? Maybe that's why I haven't seen him in such a while. He's probably weighing the options like his Libra Sun and taking his time analyzing like his Virgo Venus and Mars. All this time he gave me the impression that he really liked me, and I guess after showing interest in being friends, he may have took the ball of an idea an ran home with it to analyze. I read of the compatibility between Venus Virgo and Venus Pisces. They stated of how a common sensitivity is sensed. That is so true! I felt that with him! It might be a long time or probably never again that I'll see him. My friends are rootin' for me, but I don't think he's really into me. I think that he's was just flirting just to flirt. I don't know, I'm confused about the whole thing. All I can do is go on with my day and deny that I miss him terribly.

This is what I found about male Libra with two earth signs in Mars/Venus. It should manifest like this:

love and sex as a duty or routine, mechanical, strong physical desires, initially detached, needs a long time to open up (very controlling), sensual, loves physical beauty and comfort, loves a full figure, jealous, heart problems, lack of hygiene

Little Sparrow,
How did you find this out? Can you find out more? My Libra admirer has a Moon and Mercury in Scorpio along with his Venus and Mars in Virgo. Yeah, I know I got it bad.
Dreamy-Eyez, out.

This site can be quite brutal in its honesty:

http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/individual-sex-horoscopes.html