Interesting Article on the Complexity of Libra

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As the sun enters the sign of Libra it returns to the equator, bringing equal day and night to all places on earth. This balancing of light and dark resonates to the symbolism of restoring equilibrium. In ancient times the period was set aside for evaluating the current status of events, estimating forthcoming needs, addressing outstanding problems and calculating a workable plan for the season of hardship that lay ahead. The ancient Egyptians used the scales as a potent symbol of the judgement cast at the end of life, where the soul of the departed was weighed against the Feather of Truth. In Roman mythology the goddess Astraea ruled over justice and law, holding the balance as her means to establish which situations required karmic intervention to restore fairness and equality.

Those born in this period ingrained with the qualities of analysis, judgement and balance are creatures of a celestial environment that shies away from extremes and excesses. Librans have acquired a fitting reputation for being the 'moderates' of the zodiac, with a natural talent for comparison, differentiation, and impartial philosophical reasoning. They are capable of displaying excellent intercommunication skills based upon a fine interplay between the left and right hemispheres of the brain. Generally, they can be counted upon to demonstrate a fair and unprejudiced judgement that attempts to temper personal bias through recognition of wider social implications.

One way or another, Librans are driven by the need to find a position of balance and fairness. They recognise that the search for legality and justice must begin with inward reflection and are more than happy to scrutinize their own emotional behaviour or have it analysed by others. In the search for fairness, they consider carefully that others may hold a different viewpoint than their own, and make an earnest attempt to see things from alternate perspectives. The difficulty then, is how does a seeker of harmony best handle a profusion of conflicting realities? Can they be synthesised into a rounded whole, or will they simply lead to inconstancy and indecision, with a wavering from one opinion to the next?

The Librans that live up to the nobler qualities of their sun-signs have learned to exercise true judgement and discretion. First they analyse, and then they integrate into a solution and resolve, holding firm to their principles unless new knowledge comes to light that calls for a re-evaluation. But this of course, requires a form of extremism in itself, and so the Libran must turn himself inside out, and in the process of maturing as a person come to understand that the only true state of non-conflict is inertia. Even in the quest for peace and harmony, one must be prepared to take a stand and hold to it regardless of the discomfort this causes to others, and thus, oneself. Not surprisingly then, Libra is a far more complex sign than many sun-sign snapshots can express. Finding harmony in a world full of ebb and flow, tensions and strains, is no easy task, and rather than living a life full of relaxed relationships and easy contentment, most Librans are very painfully aware of difficult day-to-day conflicts and the discomfort that arises whenever their views are at odds with those of another.

Many sun sign descriptions classify Libra as the most desirable of all the zodiac types, a rather distorted reflection upon the sign where the Sun is traditionally said to experience its fall. The reality is that the Sun, as a symbol of creative self-expression and individuality, is debilitated in Libra, precisely because Librans are forever prone to evaluating their own needs against a complicated backdrop where they must take account of their responsibilities to others. In terms of finding one's true path and asserting one's own standpoint openly, directly, clearly - unfettered by what other people think - this is a major hindrance. Librans are simply not comfortable in that position and have to overcome major instinctive barriers in order to maintain a fixed resolve that centres upon pursuing their own personal needs. If they hold fast to the deeper spiritual principles of their sign, they will not feel obliged to offer concessions in order to avoid confrontation, but will be happy to take up a position of polarisation, to stand with equal force against whatever they are opposed to. In this sense they become the true 'equalisers', the children of the scales who, using the weapons of tact, grace and fair reason, are unafraid to meet the challenge of negating oppressive forces. Libra is a cardinal sign, underlain with a strong will that inclines towards initiating changes. Yet of all the cardinal signs Libra is the underrated force; for their non-intimidating personas can often fool us into thinking that they will give up on their goals far easier than they will.

This natural subjugation of clear ego-expression is further compounded by Libra's rulership by Venus, the planet that needs to relate, that needs to be wanted, and needs to be approved of by others. Librans simply cannot get away from the fact that relationships and recognition of responsibilities to others is the major focus that turns their world. It dictates their feelings and propels their actions; so it is often the case that Librans feel beset by relationship problems - or the problem of getting into one. The rulership by Venus adds to their reputation of being a very diplomatic and charming character type. They are renown for presenting themselves to others attractively, with a refined sense of artistic taste and appreciation, and an instinct for adorning themselves with polish and finesse.

In Libra, Venus occupies its diurnal rulership, where it expects to be very apparent and visibly expressed, although it can be argued that - living in a world where they want to express beauty and pleasure, and see it so obviously manifest around them - Librans can be too easily swayed by agreeable surface appearances.

Most of us rarely live up to the higher qualities of our sun sign and many of the negative traits associated with this sign - indecision, gullibility, falseness, unexpressed resentment, overindulgence of pleasurable interests, oscillating between two extremes - are readily observed in your day-to-day Libran, with their irritating overuse of 'it's not fair!' and 'on the other hand'. Many Librans are all too eager to live in superficial harmony and can be exasperating in their avoidance of uncomfortable issues. Like the betrayed wife who has good reason to suspect her husband is having an affair but would rather not think about it, or the philandering lover who assures you of total commitment before disappearing off the scene - so long as it looks good on the surface, Librans can usually convince themselves that all is as it should be. Their natural talent with words and predisposition for assuming that if everything sounds right it probably is, makes it easy for Librans to glibly assure others of their sincerity and fail to recognise the insincerity of doing so. They can also be very adept at ensuring that 'compromise' and 'negotiation' gives them everything they were aiming for, and rather than honestly admit that they are pursuing their own agendas, will attempt to gain support by expecting others to view the situation through their eyes. When called to question, the Libran will attempt due self-analysis and introspection, but reason, and not profound realisation and contemplation of deeper motives, will quickly lead them to a place where they feel justified and see their intentions as fair. Librans can often be more concerned about making an intelligent defence than considering the deeper moral angle; if the words sound right that's good enough; it isn't a lie if the sentence is cleverly constructed.

The net result is that Librans, unless very wise and tactful, often leave people with the impression that they are shallow in their moral stance, weak in their adherence to principles and disingenuous in their tactics. Even when they successfully navigate themselves to a position of victory in conflict, there is often an uneasy feeling of manipulation left behind. Most people, being stabbed in the back, would prefer not to have a smiley sticker placed upon the wound; as Oscar Wilde, himself a Libran, observed:


Each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword!

Yes, Librans do it with a kiss. This zodiac type, so well revered for being considerate, socially acceptable and 'easy to get along with', can often leave a trail of deep frustration in its attempt to sweet-talk its way out of unpleasant difficulties and messy emotional problems. In aiming to be considerate, Libra has a natural aversion to dealing with that painful but necessary stage called 'closure'. Always willing to leave negotiations - and therefore their options - open, the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but.

As an air sign, Libra likes to keep things light, bright and positive. The element of air relates to the sanguine humour indicating a disposition that is moderate, well rounded, and by nature optimistic. Sanguine temperaments aim for the middle ground, disliking extreme reactions or innovative, off the wall approaches. Thus, Librans excel at appearing to offer all things to all men, but are less suited to intense and demanding relationships. Earth types will view them as trivial and uncommitted, water types will view them as unresponsive to their more ponderous emotional needs, and fiery types will generally be unimpressed by a cool and charming veneer if it falls away to reveal an absence of vivacious sparkle and charismatic energy.

As a humane sign, Libra is marked by civility, good manners, a flattering turn of phrase and an absence of coarseness. In professional fields Librans make the born diplomat, the perfect negotiator, the faultless 'meet and greet' face that works well in all areas of public relations. They may also find their niche in artistic fields, where their penchant for moulding light, colour, and shape into a balanced and symmetrical form that offers popular appeal works well for commercial image. Their style is conventional rather than passionate, off-beat or quirky; and they sit comfortably in business settings that demand an attractive and easily appreciated 'front'.

The ideal vocation for a Libran, however, is within the fields of law, government, statesmanship and civil justice. Libra, at its best, is the signature of the true strategist, where reason appropriately overrules emotion and serves the wider aim of redressing inequality and unfairness. Only when the Libran rises to a position that sees them, not as the centre of their own universe, but as an agent of equilibrium within their social environment, can they come close to fully appreciating the cosmic power that they have been given. Balance is easily found in stillness, but serves a greater purpose when it holds us upright through the roughest of storms, with our vision locked to the distant horizon. It is not through sticking to the middle ground, but by remaining centred upon ideals that the Libran can become free from wavering distractions and find a place of balance and harmony within their own inner centre.

I had no idea that librans are so damn complicated... no wonder people find me hard to understand. 😢

Would it be an okay idea to share this with my libran husband or would he take it wrong? Wrong as in, his scorpio wife pointing out his complexity. Do you have a link to a similar article on scorps? All I know is that for a scorp with scorp ascending my list of negative tendencies is a lot longer than possitive tendencies.

Libras might not like going deep but with a resume like mine how do I avoid it? I have a laundry list of things to fix before I can become acceptable to certain people. I know I should just lighten up but that's easy for a Libra to say!!

I enjoy your posts and comments.

If you put it across as a complaint or in a manner of threat, he might get a bit angry... just casually give it...we love to read abt ourselfs... but to be frank i didnt understood half of what mentioned in this... this kinda interpretation is way too complex for me...

to thelibran,

oops sorry, I have a way of talking as if people naturally know what I'm saying. I guess my assumed scorpio resume is filled generally with character traits to overcome. Traits that are generally not positive in the eye of a libran. My understanding is that if my sun sign is scorpio and my ascending is scorpio than my scorpio traits are magnified. Is this a true interpretation?

When I say going deep, I mean when I must be introspective and sometimes distant, sort out my inner world so I can then externalize. The problem being that Libra Husband does not like the introspective phase or the results when I try to share them.

Argh, I'm cursed!!! On the bright side, I am becoming more clear on the reason for the conflict. sigh...........

I once read my libran friends frndster profile. "I am a simple girl and when I am simple, my friends find me complicated and then I complicate myself so that my friends can find me simple"

I think this is really what happens. As far as I know I am simple as well as complicated. I used to be way too complicated to sort myself out of the tension and emotional issues my scorpion xgf used to give me. I did loved her but I wasnt happy with the way she handles certain things but again I was ready to adjust and keep it moving and always suggested something to sort out conflicts. But this issues kept growing and I had to complicate myself to sort out the issues with her and make myself feel comfortable at the same time... She always finds me easy to understand at a point where i have complicated myself and running multiple thoughts at the same time inorder to avoid a possible argument or something...
I guess u get some idea of what I am trying to explain. A libran thinks way too much about everything before taking any decision. Its more like trying to understand the story of a new movie before u purchase a ticket.

I remember i used to get worried that she(my xgf) was hiding something from me.. bcoz i am a kind-of person who want to listen to every single detail whenever i ask her a question. and a scorpion love to tell a little bit now, then a little bit after 2 days and so so... But I hate that. I need full story with every minute details to get the clear picture and i am stuck if i dont get a full picture of the situation.

For eg: she want a job. and i ask her to prepare her resume and then she starts giving me excuses and stuffs and dont make any resume. Thats enough for me to get upset bcoz i hv a problem - she needs a job. and i am unable to reach a solution since she is hesitant to take a step. automatically i know there is a reson why she is not doing it. Then i ask her questions why she dont want to do it. she hides... everything starts then...

I cannot tell much abt ur husbands thoughts bcoz i hvnt been in a similar situation and am way too younger. Am sure he is attached since its been 20 yrs and there is no reason for him to do something diff at this point in time. Librans hv some soft corner towards their Xgf and its natural. But we do try our best not to cheat outside a committed relationship.

Well if I were to take the time to read every word of this form I would surely find that it all comes down to the simple fact that life is truely over complicated by people like us. I find myself doing this very thing on a daily basis. .
But the reality is that life is truely simple...if your heart and soul is in the right place. Trust your instincts they are usually right. If you are ill it is usually because your spirit is trying to tell you something and we need to listen. These gifts were given to us to help us survive this life.
Live, love, laugh, and listen.
We are born with the answers and our family and friend are here to help us find them within ourselves. Truely they are there. We just have to stop and dig deep with in ourselves and remember to trust that inner voice. That is real......