Brief Encounters. . .

Hello,
This is Dreamy-Eyez from the Pisces board. I'm on the Libra board because no one can tell me about a Libra than Libra-natives themselves, right? Well, anyway before I get into the situation, I'm just going to make it clear that I'm gay, okay? Alright, here goes. I work at a BP gas station and there's this customer whose a regular there. Everytime he comes thru, he always jumps into my line and if my line is too long, he'll go into the next line when it's clear. While he's in the other line, he watches me with no fear at all. Its like he doesn't care if I notice, he just stares. So I ignore him. It was like this within the earlier months I've begun working there. As months went by, when he comes in he'd be consistent in coming specifically to my register line, and then hold a conversation with me and telling me things about himself like: How he works two jobs as a construction worker and a cook, or how he looks good in everything that he wears, etc. etc. etc. I then thought to myself, "But I never asked you?" I mean, he's talking to me like. . . Well, I don't know. What's catches my attention even more was when he told me that he sees me around, I've actually saw him in the act of spotting me in public places. He would take multiple glances at me if he spots my car or see me in the parking lot at my 2nd job. Recently, he gotten a haircut and when he came into the gas station that I worked at, he came to my register flipping his hair. That was when he started saying, "Yeah, I look good in everything that I wear." My co-worker at the 2nd register had a look on her face as if she was being ignored. When he was talking to me, it felt like no one else was in the room. I felt bad for that. He's a Libra with a Scorpio Moon. I recognized this from my best friend in Colorado, because he was a Gemini with Scorpio Moon. He's been paying attention to me and speaking to me for a while, so then I finally responded with a short note of appreciation. Now, I'm feeling very oblivious of what kind of reaction I just might get. Libras are flirts. (I get that.) But flirting doesn't go on for that long. It's been 7 months since I've been working there. In my first few months, he'd flash me with a huge smile when I look up. What do you think? I shouldn't have wrote him that note, didn't I?

Also, I'm starting to think that he has some sort of intention because once he even asked me what time that I got off from work.

Dreamy-Eyez

When I like someone I'll drop hints but will not reveal anything directly out loud. That would be too risky. I'll say things that are fairly ambiguous to interpret, to protect myself.

So, there is a good chance that he's making himself available to you, trying to catch your attention, in the hope that you pick up on it and respond to it.

Because he wants you to read between the lines I'm fairly sure he expects you to be reading between the lines as well - which is his behaviour for you to pick up...

Hope this helps

Dreamy-Eyez

My last paragraph should be that because he himself reads between the lines and looks for clues in your behaviour, he would expect you to be reading between the lines as well, and so he behaves such that you can pick up on it...

Sorry for potential confusion...

guy sounds like a stalker

It's Dreamy-Eyez again. A stalker, you say? Whoa. Usually, as a closing he always says to me, "I'll see you again." He sounds really confident about it. About the note I gave him, well it goes like this.

"Let me begin by saying that I'm relieved that you are okay from your car accident. Besides, who else where there be to brighten up my day. Truth be told, is that to me, when you come thru you're a breathe of fresh air because you've told me that you've worked in a convience store, so you know firsthand of the crap I have to deal with. I truly admire you and in a rare spiritual sense, I feel like as if I've met you before, when in reality I haven't. I consider the folks in your life as fortunate to know you personally while it sucks that I don't. Also, that day when you asked me about your haircut, I felt that there was no need for my opinion when you're like one of People Magazine's Most Intriguingly Beautiful people. (He looks like a model, folks. Thats why it's puzzling to me.) Well, I'm going to bring this to a close but before I do, I just want to say that if I'm not an employee here by the time October comes around, I want you to always remember that I'll keep you in my thoughts for nothing but the best. so take care of yourself "Mr. Un-discovered Superstar". Somebody here is rootin' for you and has alittle bit of love for you."

That's how my note went. I haven't seen him in 2 days. I thought it was nice and maybe what he wanted to here since he appears to be be vain after he was flipping his hair in front of me, but I don't know. I'm new to these things. Tell me, was that too much?

Way too touchy feely mon cheri!

If you want to capture a libra ... you have to use libra bait. Suggestion.

Don't spell it out. Suggest it. So the libra gets to suggest back.

We spend a lot of time on our sueductions. We wink at you for no reason. We imply thing without saying anything. We brush up against you. We touch your arm a little too long. We keep you guessing. We get YOU to think about us. That is what we like. The trick is to play the game back. Get the Libra to think about YOU.

GAY LIBRAN— I cant imagine. You might hv sensed a slight bit of venus ruled feminine side of that libran dude and got everything misinterpreted. The last thing I hope to see in this world is a homosexual libran. They are way too much attracted to the opposite sex right from birth. I am homophobic and really gets frustrated when I find that someone is a gay.

Why do you care if someone is gay? How is it a reflection on you?

It really says way more about you than the gay person.

Well, thelibran, there was a survey, and the results showed that the highest population of homosexual people, were infact Libran.

*** So the next time you see him, try being playful, funny, entertaining--nothing heavy!!

When dealing with libra, much better tactic.

lol... I was mentioning about the basic phychology of a libran turning out to be a gay. The way I have seen it so far, its quite impossible since they are way too much attracted to women. I have done a personal survey and figured out that there are gays amoung leo, pisces and aries. well tat was my survey anyway. any lesb librans—

Anyone, in any sign, can be gay. It is biological.

The real question is why do you see someone elses sexuality as a reflection and commentary on your own?

Hello Everyone,
I saw all of your posts, and from the things that you've mentioned. . . Well, I kind of figured that my note was mushy. Trust me, that won't happen again. I haven't seen him in four days after that note and I was beginning to think that I've chased him off, but after I made that thought final in my mind, he came back. He didn't seemed phased at all with dis-comfort with my note. What I have noticed is that his interaction with me is now a bit more lively and ardent. Plus, he's more observant of me because there were a few times he'd be parked out in the parking lot looking in. We talk alot and he'll even ask a question or two of myself. I feel like he's taking notes because just the other day when I came out from the break room while my Scorpio co-worker had a line at her register, he was next in-line. He saw me, but then pretended that he didn't see me, so he was doing the whole bashful stance and looking away as I took the next regeister. I had to say "Next". Then he was like, "Oh, I'm sorry I didn't see you." My co-worker had this "Yeah right" look on her face and I was in tuned to it. I said to her, "You know, I just hate having to use my voice." Then he said, "Oh please, the only time you ever open your mouth is when you're a comedian." Then I said, "True. I'm always making fun of somebody." He just started smiling uncontrollably and was hiding his face bashfully. That comment about me being a comedian shows me that he's observant of me because when I'm working with my Scorpio co-worker, I'm always a riot with my spontaneous side. I do have to say that I am surprised that he still comes around and into my line to talk to me after that mush soaked note. Man, I cannot do that ever again. I gotta be "mush-free." Thanks you guys. Feel free to add on anymore.

*** "Oh please, the only time you ever open your mouth is when you're a comedian."

yep he is flirting.

😉

Think hes flirting especially if the scorp planets are there also but yeah,play it cool and do what your already doing instead of the mushy stuff.Think laid back fun to continue getting to know him.lol,at first on the pisces board wasn't sure if you liked him or not cause you usually somewhat rant about your family here but thats OK.Positive posts is good😉

Its scary. and ls, till date i dont see it as a biological issue. I see it as a psychological issue caused mainly due to situation and surroundings. If it was biological, it would have been visible amound animals on a large scale. Its observed amoung animals due to desparation or absence of a female memeber of the same species. And I havent yet noticed any articles related to lesbian animals. 😉 so logically its not biological. And I dont find it as a reflection on me or librans. Its more related to the basic configuration of a libran brain and emotion vs possibility for homosexuality.

Go do your research. It has already been linked to the part of the brain that governs sex drive. And yes. There are gay animals in nature.

LS is right, researchers believe that sexual orientation is determined before birth. There is a certain period in development (I think somewhere in the second trimester) where the fetus is bombarded with hormones related to sexual development, a combination of estrogen and testosterone. If the levels are off even slightly, your son may turn out a little "flamboyant"...

Furthermore, I believe Kinsley argued that homosexuality and heterosexuality were on a sliding scale. You could be anywhere between 1 and 6.

I find this an interesting and probable explanation.

lol @ Liberachi photo ... or however you spell his name.

Liberace was a little over the top, but a great entertainer. This guy (Leslie) is a local celebrity and ran for mayor a few years ago. I saw him on community access TV during one of the debates, he actually cleans up well and speaks very intelligently when he's off the sauce. And whatever pharmaceutical-of-the-day.

I always used to see him out and about and have bought him beers from time-to-time. Cheap entertainment...I like weird people...

ahhh that is how you spell it Liberance. Liberance is not to be confused with Liberoachi.

You should have been here durring Librat's reign. She use to post pictures of Harold. You would have loved him. I am sure if you search her name you can find them. Ahhh those were the days.

In Texas, does the social climate differ between Houston and Austin?

Hello Everyone,
I'm sorry that I was such a bore on the Pisces board ranting about my family, Tiamat. I guess all of that ranting was as annoying as the sound of "two cats f*ckin' on a fiddle". (Laughs.) That's not a pretty sound. Also, you know what? I am going to keep it cool because he knows that I admire him, so it's like the ball is in his court now. He's already asked once before of the time that I get off from work in a subtle way, but from the way he stands in my line all bashful looking, hiding his smile makes me think that he really is shy. I thought that it was suppose to be the other way around, because he's very handsome in a masculine, ladies man sort of way. He's usually cool, calm and collected but the moment he's in my presence. . . he's bashful. At first, I didn't know what to make of it, but judging from how he ignores my co-workers and only talking to me. It made me think that this is no ordinary light passer-by chat. He's an October 14th Libra with a Moon and Mercury in Scorpio. Not only that, but his Mars and Venus is in Virgo. I look at my chart to see that My Moon, Venus, and Mars are in Pisces, while my Mercury is in Aquarius. I guess that pretty much explains it. I'm going to keep it cool, though. I don't want to be like, "Hey, lets get coffee." Then he'll be like, "I can't I got a girlfriend." (You know?) So, I'm gonna keep cool and see what happens. Thanks you guys. I'll definitely keep you posted. Dreamy-Eyez, out.

** "two cats f*ckin' on a fiddle".

OMG! I am so stealing this expression. lol!

** I am going to keep it cool because he knows that I admire him

Good!

Sounds like it could be a good match. Try this site Dreamy.

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

LS, Houston and Austin are night and day. The Austin area is really the only liberal part of Texas, we slipped through the buckle of the bible belt. Every election year these 3 counties are the only blue dots on the map of red.

There's always something strange going on, but we're not quite at the top of the weirdo mountain...yet 😉

Having spent sometime in Houston, I can't see your ideas being the norm.

Now ... speaking of Texas ... wtf is with your crickets!!! At least, that was what people told me they were. They looked more like shrimp. They were really long and had a weird coral colour. Everytime I went out to use the pool or hot-tub one of those nasty things was floating in it.

Oh no! dxpnet edited my expression! But yeah, it was "Two cats fcuking on a fiddle." Feel free to use it. I always come up with somekind of crazy expression. Dreamy-Eyez, out.

LS

I think that's the PC to tell tourists don't mind la cucarachas

LS

I think that's the PC way to tell tourists don't mind la cucarachas

** Feel free to use it

I will Dreamy and I will think of you each time.

I did some research. Apparently, they are mole crickets. Yuck!

My skin is crawling with the thought. ick! ick! ick!

Hello Everyone,
I'm just checkin' in with updates. I didn't see him yet, but I'm a bit unsure of Mr. Libra. I believe that he likes me, because when I started working there I've only thought of him as another face, but then I've realized that it's been 7 months that I've been working at the BP. Eversince my earlier months til now, he's been very consistent with the smiles and if I didn't look his way, he'll speak up to me by asking how I'm doing today or tonite. He doesn't really pay attetion to my co-workers and seems un-phased that his attention towards me draws attention to himself. I just never had anything like this happen to me before. I mean a dark haired, piercing blue eyed Libra guy whose a quarter inch taller than myself seems to have his attention fixed upon me. All I can do is be patient, but I cannot help thinking and daydreaming of possibilities. The other day, he came in just when I thought I finally had a break. He came walking up, then I got a bit startled. He said, " Yeah, I'm going to work, but I see you were about to eat your chips. I didn't mean to interupt your eatin'." I told him that he was fine and that it was okay. He's always telling me things about himself. He told me about how he's trying to keep his record clean because he's done time before and something about his back. I think he injured it or something. He has a buddy that gotten in trouble and then I shared a story of one of my buddies going to jail and how I called his parents to have them wire money to me thru Western Union to bail him out. He listened to me attentively. He seems so easy to talk to and if it was under different circumstances, I'd talk to him a while longer. I kind of like the attention because it makes me feel kind of special. Besides, he always jumps in my line or if my line is too long, he'll go in another line but talk to me from that one. When he comes in, he glances at the counter for me to see if I'm there. I like that, but I hope that things escalate from the BP to something else. Wish me luck.

He told me about how he's trying to keep his record clean because he's done time before

Do you really want to be with a guy who has been in jail? That would be a deal breaker for me. Just something to think about.

Have you considered casually asking him for coffee? Just casually say the next time you talk hey what time are you off tonight. Want to get a coffee when you are done?

trooo!

You would really have to find out why he was in jail. You don't want to be around someone who could go off at any moment. We don't want you hooking up with someguy that can go off at a sneeze no matter how hot he is.

I tend to go for brains over braun. I like my men brainy but decent dressers, decent social skills. Stick a pair of glasses on them and a little banker haircut .... *sigh*

The first whiff of violence or anger and I am gone.

Especially if he has friends who are in and out of trouble.

Hi,
It's Dreamy-Eyez. I read your posts and I'm touched by the concern and support on this situation. You know, I honestly didn't have to actively try to keep my distance. That sort've happened naturally. For the past few days, I was sort of elusive to him. Whenever he came in the store, my line was closed because I was busy with other things. He was like, "Are you open?" but then my Gemini co-worker was like, "Why do you always have to go thru his line?!" She's very outspoken sometimes. He was hesitant to go thru her line but he did. He looked slightly pissed about it. I'm not sure if I was imagining things, but there was a subtle expression in his eyes. You know, I read about Libras and they say that flirtation and other actions really don't mean anything. It's always in the eyes when comes to a Libra. Alot of the books said the same thing about that one fact. That a Libra will look at you differently than they do anyone else. It's a gaze that'll pierce your soul. Let me tell ya, he looks at me for more than 5 seconds like a gaze.

About the jail thing? Yeah, I was a bit shaky about that too because on the exterior he's cool, calm, and collected until he's near me. He told me that he's trying to keep a clean record because his freinds are always getting in trouble. I'm thinking that he has wild friends and is like the "Eye of the Storm", you know? Yet, he gets sucked into trouble with them. I met one of his friend whose a Sagittarius. He came in the store yesterday and was telling me and my co-worker about how this guy threw a beer bottle at his car and that he chased the guy. When the guy stopped, Mr. Sag got out of his car to get him, but then the stranger attempted to run him over with his car. (Isn't that attempted man slaughter?)But, yeah he was telling me and my co-worker this story and then nodded at me and said, "Oh yeah, Timmy was there too." I didn't outwardly react to it, but then I wondered, "How does he know that I know Mr. Libra (Tim)?" From the way he nodded at me, I got the impression that I was talked about, but not in a bad way from how respectful the nod and gesture towards me was when he said "Timmy". Tim's Sagittarius buddy had alot of bruises on him and seemed reckless from the stroy he told me. He then said, "If I find this guy I'm gonna kill 'em." The first thing I thought was "crazy." As for the "Eye of the Storm" thing, they say that about Libras too. I'm still gonna keep my distance from Tim, but I heard that Libras are chasers. I think he'll come to me one day with a grand display. I'm going to take it with caution.