How can a Gemini make a Libra commit

Hey Guys,

I know it's easier for a Libra to commit since they appreciate partnership/marriage/togetherness and need it more than Geminis, but it would be interesting to get your ideas/thoughts/experiences and even tricks lol on how a Gemini woman can make a Libra man commit?

Woah! Didn't know it would sound that bad! Sorry guys didn't mean "TRICK" as in really lying to a person just put it there for the fun of it. Anyway, it interests me to know more about Libra men and just put this discussion to know what would Libra men find exciting/interesting enough in a Gemini woman to commit 🙂!

But if this discussion is going to bother anyone - I'll take it off 😄!

Posted by GeminiSoul

4) Play hard to get, like when he calls don't always answer. If he texts don't reply immediatly (that drives them crazy as they wonder what you're busy with lol). If he asks why you didn't answer say oh my mobile wasn't with me or I was out with a friend and didn't hear it ringing.

As gently as possible... this could be part of the issue, Gemini. See... this is playing games, strategy.. it's dishonest, it's not genuine. It's common, but it gives off a vibe that screams phony, fake, desperate, lying. You have to be HONEST and OPEN to really connect with a man emotionally. Anything less is lying.. not answering calls intentionally and LYING about it is going to come across as inauthentic to a man. Now, he might not know exactly what's happening.. he'll just know that something FEELS off.. something about you seems shady and/or offputting. He might hang in long enough to investigate it, but men aren't as dumb as women think... they'll play along with these games for awhile... game-players attract men... but they rarely keep them... because the dishonesty keeps them from connecting with the man on HIS emotional level.

Now, the advice is good EXCEPT the lying part.. you SHOULD be busy.. way too busy to always jump the second he calls/texts. WAY too busy to jump eagerly at last-minute plans with him. THAT'S genuine, and effective. A woman SHOULD have a full and busy life, beyond the guy(s) she's dating/interested in. He SHOULD pursue her for more of her time and attention, and she should NOT be chasing him, but welcoming him. A woman should reciprocate and appreciate and be warm, inviting, and open when he calls or sees her. (Not like the cool, distant, flippant game-players.) Too many games... too many times he FELT like she was intentionally not answering his calls or lying about where she was or what she was doing, he's going to eventually walk away. (Esp a Libra guy with their "mirroring".. you hold yourself back and play games.. guess what gets mirrored back at you?) You be honest, open, warm, inviting.. appreciate and reciprocate.. he's going to want to be around you more and more, because you're SO fascinating.. and he probably won't even know it's because you're connecting to him on an emotional level. Guys rarely analyze it that much - all they know is that they DO or they DO NOT want to be around you.

No, my relationship with my Libra isn't PERFECT... but I know without a doubt.. he's in love with the REAL ME.. because I don't play games and I learned to not hold myself back out of self-preservation. I don't HIDE my emotions or feminine feelings, I don't stuff them down to be "cool" and "awesome".. he always knows where he stands with me, and how I feel about things - in a calm, non-drama way. My walls had to come down so that we could truly connect emotionally, and yes it was scary.... but worth it. After all this time he KNOWS that I'm honest, that if I miss his call and say I was in the shower, it's the truth.

We've had our ups and downs.. we've survived the infamous Libra Indecision Phases.. we've survived him pulling away, even breaking up.. to see if it was "the right thing" to do... and he always came back. Not because I tricked him or played manipulative games. I stayed centered and busy in MY life, regardless of what he needed to work out on his own. I was warm, open, inviting... but not "waiting" for him in a needy, desperate, please-come-back way.

Now he's talking marriage to me, feeling me out. He'll say, "Honey - this is a good song to play at our wedding.." or call me his Wife to others, etc. The turning-38, no kids, never married Libra guy. The man who said he'd NEVER get married, esp after his ex left him practically at the altar. I just smile - I'm a twice-married widow and in no rush to do it again... but I'm open to marriage IF the man is worth it, and he knows that.

How do you get a Libra to commit? By being open and honest... by allowing him to fall in love with the real you, including all of your imperfections... because YOU love YOU always, he finally feels safe enough to feel unfamiliar emotions around you, and knows you will accept him and love him just as he is.. because you love and accept YOU just as you are. A man never truly falls in love with a woman's looks, her body, her sex, her money, her possessions, any of that. That's just the window-dressing. A man falls in love with a woman for how he FEELS when he's around her until he can't imagine life without her. That's how it works for any man, not just Libras.

its pretty easy you being yourself, i am a little stumped,the only thing i think of is i love to laugh and i personaly love love the quick witted comebacks you guys make when bagging on each other i always have a great time with gem's,so it would take a little chasing at first,only beacause we want security,we want to know we are safe and you wont leave us , break our hearts,then if you got that,the next question you will be posting is 'how to get a libra to leave me the heck alone'!! haha

Posted by GeminiSoul
Woah! Didn't know it would sound that bad! Sorry guys didn't mean "TRICK" as in really lying to a person just put it there for the fun of it. Anyway, it interests me to know more about Libra men and just put this discussion to know what would Libra men find exciting/interesting enough in a Gemini woman to commit 🙂!

But if this discussion is going to bother anyone - I'll take it off 😄!

gemini soul,i understand why your asking ..it is one thing to ask and another thing to do..i also think of all kinds of things i can do just for the heck of it,it helps us learn,and grow.But im pretty sure i dont even have to tell you but i will,if you do lie and toy with someones heart....the only person you will hurt in the end is guess who??carma is a cookie monster,saying that i dont think you should take this down..i enjoy reading your posts,its an interesting topic just random stuff is the best stuff.

Posted by Nefer
No, my relationship with my Libra isn't PERFECT... but I know without a doubt.. he's in love with the REAL ME.. because I don't play games and I learned to not hold myself back out of self-preservation. I don't HIDE my emotions or feminine feelings, I don't stuff them down to be "cool" and "awesome".. he always knows where he stands with me, and how I feel about things - in a calm, non-drama way. My walls had to come down so that we could truly connect emotionally, and yes it was scary.... but worth it. After all this time he KNOWS that I'm honest, that if I miss his call and say I was in the shower, it's the truth.

We've had our ups and downs.. we've survived the infamous Libra Indecision Phases.. we've survived him pulling away, even breaking up.. to see if it was "the right thing" to do... and he always came back. Not because I tricked him or played manipulative games. I stayed centered and busy in MY life, regardless of what he needed to work out on his own. I was warm, open, inviting... but not "waiting" for him in a needy, desperate, please-come-back way.

Now he's talking marriage to me, feeling me out. He'll say, "Honey - this is a good song to play at our wedding.." or call me his Wife to others, etc. The turning-38, no kids, never married Libra guy. The man who said he'd NEVER get married, esp after his ex left him practically at the altar. I just smile - I'm a twice-married widow and in no rush to do it again... but I'm open to marriage IF the man is worth it, and he knows that.

How do you get a Libra to commit? By being open and honest... by allowing him to fall in love with the real you, including all of your imperfections... because YOU love YOU always, he finally feels safe enough to feel unfamiliar emotions around you, and knows you will accept him and love him just as he is.. because you love and accept YOU just as you are. A man never truly falls in love with a woman's looks, her body, her sex, her money, her possessions, any of that. That's just the window-dressing. A man falls in love with a woman for how he FEELS when he's around her until he can't imagine life without her. That's how it works for any man, not just Libras.

well said nefer well said.

Thanks all and Nefer - very well said thank you 🙂

Thanks 😄

Oh gosh, to EVERYONE who went hard on the person that posted this topic, LIGHTEN UP and just give the girl some strategy on the darn libra man already. This is a message board people, similar to a blog, not a church. Quit preaching to her...geesh! She just looking on tips to HOOK a man by his sign. And quite a few of you have been on this board asking about a person you like, as well as yourself according to the sign. Sign's can tell a great deal about a person, and ya know it. It may not tell everything, as everyone is different. But you can at least prepare yourself for whats to come by reading about a person sign. Its like reading a general advertising itinerary about the person.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Sorry, but you can't make a libra do anything... and to be honest, why would you want to force or trick someone into a relationship!?

Spoken like a true Libra. Yet, I agree.

All a Gemini woman has to do to keep a Libra committed to her is to be a Gemini. That's all. Libra peeps are air signs, so they speak the same 'elemental' language. Stop making shit difficult.

~GM

LOL - It's amazing how this discussion developed two kinds of responses:
One: angry people think I'm some mean person trying to trick this poor libra guy into my net lol.
Second: other nice sweet people trying to help - thank you 🙂

Once again, I just wrote it that way for the fun of it and didn't really mean tricking, playing, or any other mean thing you might have thought of 🙂