How do Libra men reach out after breakup? What do they do if you don't respond?

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After 4 months of a long distance relationship (he is 50 Im 39)during a discussion on the phone I initiated to see where we stand because he was telling me things are difficult for him he disappeared. I did nothing. 2 weeks later he texted me Happy month, I didn't reply, 2 weeks after that he texted have a nice week so I replied that these casual texts mean nothing and if he wants to see how Iam or explain what has happened and he vanished he should call and talk.He replied that he texted because he cared and that he doesn't understand why I find these texts meaningless. So I called him to clarify things but he never picked up. So that was it and a month later (3 weeks ago that is) he sent me a Snoopy with a heart on fb messenger. I didn't reply to that.Found it so silly for a 50 year old man..Just waited all this time for sth substantial to reply to or an explanation as to why he disappeared and what happened.

Why is he reaching out this way?Is this the way Libras act? What do they do when you don't respond?Do they continue or they stop?
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Posted by GlaringTruth
If people knew the real answers to how EVERYONE operated INDIVIDUALLY these new questions would not surface now would they? Astrology seems to make a fool out of a lot of you. Instead of having gained insightful discernment and wisdom over the years, you all continuously post questions/answers on why someone is doing what they are doing. Seeing what you want to see versus seeing what really is really there is delusion at its best. I can't save you all from your delusion.
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TOTALLY misread the context of the OP. Lack of sleep is lovely.

I still stand by the immature asshole assessment though.

He IS stringing you along and this flitting in and out is ridiculous. If he says it's "too hard," but pops in and out and goes MIA, it's not worth fretting over.

And as I said before, I still stand by "drop it and walk away." If you want to attempt this silly be friends ish post break up, you need more time to pass in order to do that.

I don't care what your situation is, what was said, or any of that other shit. Just the fact that he's doing all this childish stuff says enough. If it's truly seated in fweewings, then some no contact is in order until he can muster up the balls to be an adult and address things like a real human boy.
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Of course nobody knows noone here.We just ask questions or share our opinions based on our experience. We just ask for some insight in case there is a pattern or someone has had the same experience and can share their opinion, either on the star sign or not.That's why I asked. and this is a star sign forum.If there is a pattern or someone has been there and can offer some advice.

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@Blackphase.

It was a long distance but we met every month for the months we were together.he came twice I went.and we talked 24 7.

can't say he has a short temper but definitely his ego is very inflated and important to him.maybe because of his age and his important job.

I had just told him that I don't accept disappearing acts.in the end he was trying to avoid conversations about where we stand.he kept saying things are difficult and it's hard due to distance and finances..that's why I didn't respond to his casual text after 2 weeks..I was waiting for an explanation at least not just happy month!so after the second casual text 2 weeks later told him that these casual texts are meaningless.he had to explain what happened all this time or just ask how I'm and call.he didn't. and then the sticker one month later,that is 3 weeks ago..

I understand breaking the ice..but for a 50 year old man I expected more..sorry i ll explain what happened.sth!I just fear that the sticker might have been my last chance (some people have mentioned that)..maybe I should have responded to see what he was up to and where he stands but I couldn't.found it so childish..Was it my last chance?
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Posted by angiep
@Blackphase.

It was a long distance but we met every month for the months we were together.he came twice I went.and we talked 24 7.

can't say he has a short temper but definitely his ego is very inflated and important to him.maybe because of his age and his important job.

I had just told him that I don't accept disappearing acts.in the end he was trying to avoid conversations about where we stand.he kept saying things are difficult and it's hard due to distance and finances..that's why I didn't respond to his casual text after 2 weeks..I was waiting for an explanation at least not just happy month!so after the second casual text 2 weeks later told him that these casual texts are meaningless.he had to explain what happened all this time or just ask how I'm and call.he didn't. and then the sticker one month later,that is 3 weeks ago..

I understand breaking the ice..but for a 50 year old man I expected more..sorry i ll explain what happened.sth!I just fear that the sticker might have been my last chance (some people have mentioned that)..maybe I should have responded to see what he was up to and where he stands but I couldn't.found it so childish..Was it my last chance?
Important job and lack of finances?

Please tell.
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Posted by GlaringTruth
If people knew the real answers to how EVERYONE operated INDIVIDUALLY these new questions would not surface now would they? Astrology seems to make a fool out of a lot of you. Instead of having gained insightful discernment and wisdom over the years, you all continuously post questions/answers on why someone is doing what they are doing. Seeing what you want to see versus seeing what really is really there is delusion at its best. I can't save you all from your delusion.

So why are you on the astrology forum? You have a Uranus dominant right next to your name. Why don't you practice what you preach! I don't believe in ghosts so I don't go to the paranormal section!!
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you're both being a little childish imo
How am I being childish?I really don't understand.He disappeared twice and I just don't fall for his casual texts and stickers. I told him to call and talk, he didn't I called him he didn't pick up.He disppeared, never explained and sent stickers and he is 50..
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I don't have water in my chart so forgive me if this doesn't come across with compassion. Behavior like this from a Libra indicates a lack of Interest. He is somewhat Into You But Not That Into You! Black phase is really good with her comprehension about Libras. I see the majority of your communication however is with non- Libras. But speaking from a Libra with four planets in Libra, if I'm in love with somebody and I want them to be in my life I'm going to definitely let them know where where we stand.

However the fact that he would physically come and see you does suggest that he did care for you.

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Also if he's allowing two-week time lapses to pass between communication then there is a strong possibility that he may be trying to do something else.

And if you called and he's not answering he's trying to shut this down. I am currently doing the exact same thing that he's done to you with someone who I met 6 months ago.

I pulled away and didn't communicate for a month-and-a-half and when he finally reached out I felt sorry for him so I sent him an email.

That was 3 weeks ago if he contacts me again I'll send him a little :-).

I do care for him very much but I just don't see a future here so this is my way and maybe your libras way of easing out of the situation.

Well I call him in the future? Maybe one day like maybe Christmas or Thanksgiving you know maybe 6 months from now nine months just to say hi.

How does it feel when you are not responsive it hurts and we respect you for it sometimes it can make us cry but it doesn't change our decision.

How do they reach out in the future? Usually they don't. More than likely the contact will become less and less frequent until the next time you post a month-and-a-half may have passed.