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This topic was created in the Libra forum by Librahelpme on Tuesday, June 20, 2017 and has 24 replies.

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@Librahelpme
9 Years

Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

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@Librahelpme
9 Years

I'm the guy and I was nervous!

She is the unsatisfied libran

Just wondering how many chances libras give?

I keep hearing they move on quick

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@Queenofthepheasantfairies
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

I think I would be a little bummed if the sex was not so great but just remember one thing. The more feelings you develop for one another and as you begin to become comfortable with one another, it could become more passionate and exciting.

Personally sex is like very important for me, but that's not just down to my sun. Give it a few more goes and let the chemistry build. If there really is no way to ignite the passion then I would move on.

Did she say the sex was average for her, or do you think the sex was average?

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@Librahelpme
9 Years

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

I think I would be a little bummed if the sex was not so great but just remember one thing. The more feelings you develop for one another and as you begin to become comfortable with one another, it could become more passionate and exciting.

Personally sex is like very important for me, but that's not just down to my sun. Give it a few more goes and let the chemistry build. If there really is no way to ignite the passion then I would move on.

Did she say the sex was average for her, or do you think the sex was average?

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She mentioned it. It wasn't great though. We've tried a couple of times

I really like her though! So I've been pretty nervous

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@Queenofthepheasantfairies
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Librahelpme
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

I think I would be a little bummed if the sex was not so great but just remember one thing. The more feelings you develop for one another and as you begin to become comfortable with one another, it could become more passionate and exciting.

Personally sex is like very important for me, but that's not just down to my sun. Give it a few more goes and let the chemistry build. If there really is no way to ignite the passion then I would move on.

Did she say the sex was average for her, or do you think the sex was average?

She mentioned it. It wasn't great though. We've tried a couple of times

I really like her though! So I've been pretty nervous

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What are your placements?

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@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

there isn't much you can do if she's not going to give your relationship a chance - of course the S gets better when you really get to know someone - no worries on your part other than the sting of unrequited feels ... get out there and find someone you can truly connect with and who wants to get to know the real you

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@Librahelpme
9 Years

Posted by 2Moon
Posted by Librasetting
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

Well if you only had sex once he could have been nervous and scared or to busy thinking lol

THIS! Yoo!

We can be one of the most passionate lovers in the world or average af. (Scales)

It depends on the guy, how old he is, maturity, comfort...

Maybe he didn't like you and that's why he was cold... lol!

What's your sign op?

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Leo 🙂

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@jane84
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Talk to each other. Listen to her wants in the bedroom. Have her listen to yours. Don't be shy about it. The more chemistry that is built, the better it could get. Communication is key for relationships in general.

It's not a "never satisfied" thing, it's more about the experience being enjoyable for both.

What's her Venus? She could want more passion from you...

I had a weird experience like this with my current Fiancé... he was soooo nervous lol. I was too maybe, it had been a while. But it was awful, not going to lie.

We talked about it and he heard every word I said...lol All is amazing now.

It happens.... just talk.. only she knows what she wants.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by jane84
Talk to each other. Listen to her wants in the bedroom. Have her listen to yours. Don't be shy about it. The more chemistry that is built, the better it could get. Communication is key for relationships in general.

It's not a "never satisfied" thing, it's more about the experience being enjoyable for both.

What's her Venus? She could want more passion from you...

I had a weird experience like this with my current Fiancé... he was soooo nervous lol. I was too maybe, it had been a while. But it was awful, not going to lie.

We talked about it and he heard every word I said...lol All is amazing now.

It happens.... just talk.. only she knows what she wants.

hey, congrats on getting engaged!

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@jane84
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by jeane
Posted by jane84
Talk to each other. Listen to her wants in the bedroom. Have her listen to yours. Don't be shy about it. The more chemistry that is built, the better it could get. Communication is key for relationships in general.

It's not a "never satisfied" thing, it's more about the experience being enjoyable for both.

What's her Venus? She could want more passion from you...

I had a weird experience like this with my current Fiancé... he was soooo nervous lol. I was too maybe, it had been a while. But it was awful, not going to lie.

We talked about it and he heard every word I said...lol All is amazing now.

It happens.... just talk.. only she knows what she wants.

hey, congrats on getting engaged!

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Thank you jeane!

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@Flutterby88
9 Years

Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

Keep trying. Most times Libra females are super indecisive. Eventually, you'll wear us down. Lol. But in the meantime, step back and approach her like a "friend" and try discussing where improvements can be made.

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@Librahelpme
9 Years

Posted by LibraLovesHim
I'd never ditch a guy based on this. If chemistry existed otherwise though, the rest can be taught 😉 may be quite fun doing so also.

Chemistry definitely exists. Just have to get the first little fire started

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@Goodtimes
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

His ego would be crushed if he knew you said that.

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@lili_libra
9 Years

how are things going with your libra lady? 🙂 the thing is, and I can only say about myself, yes, good sex is really important, and it can make me move on if it isn't 'ideal'. but I think the trick lies here: I need to know the person well. and dating just never did it for me. every time I had great sex with someone I like and they liked me, I knew them from school/uni or workplace/community, so there were millions of chances to get to know them and for them to get to know me before we even started dating, or, to put it better, spend time one on one. and every time it was love at first sight, but then attraction and bonding happened over a longer period of time, indirectly. does this make sense to you?

funny sidenote, I am head over heels with a leo guy at work. omg it's so intense it's crazy. another word of advice, just sweep her off her feet. you are a lion, be brave and catch the prey. : )

Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

they become addicted to certain people. Once addicted they don't wanna go anywhere.. they are always looking for something better but once you blow his mind and he realizes there's nothing out there better, be prepared for clingy and crazy!

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How do you blow their minds!?!?

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

they become addicted to certain people. Once addicted they don't wanna go anywhere.. they are always looking for something better but once you blow his mind and he realizes there's nothing out there better, be prepared for clingy and crazy!

How do you blow their minds!?!?

By defeating him, either in a debate, looks, sex, intelligence, diplomacy, knowledge, etc. anything.. defeat him and he is yours forever..

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Haha!! I feel ive already done that.... But instead he just seems uninterested now..

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

they become addicted to certain people. Once addicted they don't wanna go anywhere.. they are always looking for something better but once you blow his mind and he realizes there's nothing out there better, be prepared for clingy and crazy!

How do you blow their minds!?!?

By defeating him, either in a debate, looks, sex, intelligence, diplomacy, knowledge, etc. anything.. defeat him and he is yours forever..

Haha!! I feel ive already done that.... But instead he just seems uninterested now..

Unless you win fair and square Libra won't consider himseld to be defeated.. .. Or may be he just found somebody else.

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Most likely.. They are the sluts of the zodiac... Luckily so did i!

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

they become addicted to certain people. Once addicted they don't wanna go anywhere.. they are always looking for something better but once you blow his mind and he realizes there's nothing out there better, be prepared for clingy and crazy!

How do you blow their minds!?!?

By defeating him, either in a debate, looks, sex, intelligence, diplomacy, knowledge, etc. anything.. defeat him and he is yours forever..

Haha!! I feel ive already done that.... But instead he just seems uninterested now..

Unless you win fair and square Libra won't consider himseld to be defeated.. .. Or may be he just found somebody else.

Most likely.. They are the sluts of the zodiac... Luckily so did i!

In my case my partner was not fair/just at anything, used to live in her own fantasy land, with materialistic wants and all.... I moved on.

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Libra too?? That sounds like pisces!

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by over_thinker
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Librahelpme
Ok libras I need your help!

Picture the following,

You meet a nice guy that you like

Go on some fancy dates

Laugh and be happy

Share lots of cuddles and kisses

And then more cuddles

But then....

Super average sex

Be unhappy

Guy wants another chance...

What do I do?

I've heard libras are hard to please or never satisfied anyway—

Are they always looking for something better?

they become addicted to certain people. Once addicted they don't wanna go anywhere.. they are always looking for something better but once you blow his mind and he realizes there's nothing out there better, be prepared for clingy and crazy!

How do you blow their minds!?!?

By defeating him, either in a debate, looks, sex, intelligence, diplomacy, knowledge, etc. anything.. defeat him and he is yours forever..

Haha!! I feel ive already done that.... But instead he just seems uninterested now..

Unless you win fair and square Libra won't consider himseld to be defeated.. .. Or may be he just found somebody else.

Most likely.. They are the sluts of the zodiac... Luckily so did i!

In my case my partner was not fair/just at anything, used to live in her own fantasy land, with materialistic wants and all.... I moved on.

Libra too?? That sounds like pisces!

No she was a Sagittarius..

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Damn.. I hate sags!

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@Gixxie
8 Years

Hello, I need some help here. I was dating a libra man and I am an Aquarius woman. I broke up with him because he would get drunk and lose his temper and forget everything he said the next day. it happened about 4 times and the last time I had said enough and broke it off with him. At the time I agreed to a break but after a month he pressured me for a timeline so I said we were done. He went ballistic and that was that. 2 months later I reached out to say hello right when he did. We reconnected and he saw how much his words had affected me and he was in tears. I saw him twice over a weekend and each time he walked away in tears. The last time he ended up holding me and then kissing me and if he could have, he would have had sex with me. He said he had thought about me everyday even when he is with his new girlfriend. So 2 weeks later, which is tonight, I told him we needed to end all communication because I was still in love with him and didn't realize it and that I needed to do it to move on. He agreed and then said, he had to see his current relationship through and focus on it however the minute it doesn't work, I would be the first to know. WTF?! I didn't ask him back, I told him not to contact me and that we couldn't be friends or go for a motorcycle ride on his new bike because of how I felt. There was no need to say what he did but what I do want to know, does he love her (as of 2 weeks ago he said he hadn't told her that yet) and does he still love me and is there a chance for us?