How do Libras act to attract?

Hi everybody. Love these message boards. I'm kind of a newbie but I've been reading everything I can about the libra male, because the one I like is a Libra/Scorp cusp; anthough, he seems to project himself as more of a libra (10/21.) Anyways I was wondering if you guys could give me some little hints or clues as to how a libra might act to attract, or I guess how they would persue someone who caught their interest.

amethyst 2002 thanx for your response, but why should I run?

Posted by amethyst2002
Libra/Scorp cusp? RUN! :p

Pretty much.

Thank you everyone for your comments. I think he and I might be compatible to a certain degree. I'm a scorp sun, so I can be mysterious and draw him in, I'm just going to have to find a way to keep his interest. . . .I think I'll try and use my scorp intuition. We'll see.

Ooo00ooh Oct 21. Gooooooooo000oooOOOooood Luck.

You'd need it.

Hello I don't usually post on here just read from occasionally and I noticed the same things with libra males..they can have beautiful gf and still flirt with other women no matter what..in my own experience they shower you with attn and make you feel like you are almost to good for them to the point of exaggeration its ridiculous..and then after couple arguments they change and keep their options open "without telling you" I dated 2 and they were both very similar most recent experience was nice in beginning but after while something told me to look into this guy and I saw flirtatious texts to other "female friends" and single sites on his email and I am like wow this is a guy who got jealous over a couple of male friends I had that knew about him lol...so yeah they are extremely flirtatious with anyone it seems..but they can hide it very well.good luck to all the women out there because the same things they are telling you they say to everyone else lol..

^I used to go to my Aqua older friend for frdshp and love advice, but I found her always siding him anddddddd alllso, I found that Aqua and libra have very incompatible views on love and couplehood. I figured if I took her advice, I'd remain single forever, plus, following her advice, I couldnt really be myself.

Aquas are the social manipulators, usually with extremely good intentions. But not everyone has the same map to follow.

I would like to ask a libra male out there what the need is to keep your options open if you are happy with someone but still continue to flirt

Posted by JiannaSag
I would like to ask a libra male out there what the need is to keep your options open if you are happy with someone but still continue to flirt

They are in doubts if they are dong the right thing by committing. Its called 'the indecisive' phase. They dont want to stick to one and then regret it.

I can come on to strong when I am really interested in someone. Usually there is no doubt I am interested.

"Because alot of times, they love to come to me for comfort and support. "

No, you invite them. Either subconsciously or by saying you are always there if they need a listeing ear. I think that Aquas in this sense NEED people to need them. They like to be problem solvers.

My Aqua friend used to help me plot every move. She was the (good) friend I never had. She anticipated every move, delianated every personality and saw the ending for me. I was amused and intrigued by her latent psychic skillz. But I realised I had to take a breather because it seemed like I was in that little plot she constructed in her mind, obviously no evil there at all, she was really someone with the best of intentions.

BUT its no fun being in a preconstructed plot, and you second guess and live out a script instead of living a physical life. Thats it - the main thing with Aquas - they live in their head. Plus they don't pinpoint charcaters accurately. They have overly optimistic ways of looking at people and things and sometimes they miss the point entirely.

If I bring up a psychopath to her, she can say that no, that person is really insecure, just jealous, and it's nothing, just be their friend and pay more attention to them, and she will help me play their game.. hahahha fun times. I did love her, but I didnt want her to help me with my life anymore.

Posted by pigeonpie

Posted by spica
My Aqua friend used to help me plot every move. She was the (good) friend I never had. She anticipated every move, delianated every personality and saw the ending for me. I was amused and intrigued by her latent psychic skillz. But I realised I had to take a breather because it seemed like I was in that little plot she constructed in her mind, obviously no evil there at all, she was really someone with the best of intentions.

BUT its no fun being in a preconstructed plot, and you second guess and live out a script instead of living a physical life. Thats it - the main thing with Aquas - they live in their head. Plus they don't pinpoint charcaters accurately. They have overly optimistic ways of looking at people and things and sometimes they miss the point entirely.

If I bring up a psychopath to her, she can say that no, that person is really insecure, just jealous, and it's nothing, just be their friend and pay more attention to them, and she will help me play their game.. hahahha fun times. I did love her, but I didnt want her to help me with my life anymore.

Wouldn't you have been playing her game at the same time though ?
You're right with the last sentence, regardless of sign.

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No, it wasn't a game to her... I dont think.. she was sincere in whatever she said.

^ I usually went to my Aqua friend for crazy friendship advice because she is the only one who could make true light of things.. she had supersensory abilities and an unusual empathy.

^ You so remind me of a younger version of my Aqua sag moon friend.

Posted by amethyst2002
Ooh, just thought of a good example

You know how a kid just wants a toy. They reeeally want it bad. They beg for it, they hope they get it for their birthday/Christmas, all of that. They finally get it and they're totally ecstatic. They play with it tons. Take it everywhere with them. They're practically inseparable.

Then one day, they're over it and the toy stays at home in the toy bin or is in the corner, ignored. The kid lost interest and moves on.

I have scorp cusp and I am the SAME WAY lol

act to attract...— Hmmm
Used to think/dream of all kinds of scenarios.
Then it was usually just when our eyes locked.
or not 😉

Posted by amethyst2002

They're not terrible, but man, they are such a headache. I think that the one I was with was a commitmentphobe. I dunno, maybe it's the mix of Libra and Scorpio. I've heard other difficulties with this cusp on these boards, too, so mine's not an isolated incident.

Don't get me wrong, when things are good, these guys are amazing. But it's like they develop ADD, get bored, and start turning into douchebags. They just get really confusing and make life difficult.

As far as pursuing on his part, he'll come on strong. Super interested and all that. Getting in touch regularly, wanting to go out/hang out, so on. You know, the typical when guys are into you. These guys are so into the idea of love and the like that they go in hard, and realize that once they've gotten what they want (you and your affections), it wasn't what they want and they drop you, leaving you wondering what the hell happened. It's not intentional, but it definitely feels like they were just being wreckless with your heart/emotions.

That's just my experience and what several others have experienced too, from what I've read. If you wanna give it a whirl, go for it. It's amazing when it's good. If you're lucky enough to be the one he wants to stick with, you're fine. But just be wary that when things get weird with them (they start acting like an entirely different person), it turns into a giant, confusing headache. Oy.

I never realized that my Libra is a Lib-Scorp Cusp till I googled it. And your description really hit the mark. Now I understand that my Sag nature has nothing to do with his being hot and cold. Sheez! I wish I was warned before!

Posted by pigeonpie
Well, my Libra friend has been with his g/f since they were 18, 8 years ago and still going strong, so nya !
Just a little food for thought is all 🙂

Maybe your friend is one of the EXEMPTION to the RULE! :-p

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Posted by lovelygirl89
is oct 18 and oct 13 a libra/ scorp cusp?

No, thats a third decan Libra

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Can you specifically give us a site that calculates cusp, 1st, 2nd, 3rd decans accurately? Or if you know a method on how to determine it kindly share it to us. I tried to google some sites but not all sites are the same in determining the dates. (i.e. a site will classify oct.18 as libra-scorpio cusp, in other sites it's third decans)

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Posted by PandorasBox
Sweet
Kind
Compliments
Caring
Affectionate
Good listener
COrny even lol

But the thing is they act like this w/ alotta people.. They're the kings of Lead On village.

The way to know if he's into you specifically is if they devote time to you. If they are aggresive and you hardly have to do much of the work. Once you know for sure they are interested they like for you to show it, to recirocate My Libraguy told me he likes goin outta his way to please so he can receive that same back. 50/50 is what it iiiss 😛 And if you go 110% , he'll do the same..

hahaha Ouch but true! Libras (me anyways) act like that to everyone (meaning nice). My attention is not exclusive if I'm not really that into you. Yes, a libra will behave differently towards the person he/she truely likes (giving him/her their undivided attention. The down fall for this is that I need the same thing (50/50 fair) if not given that then my eyes start to wonder to greener pasture.

"They're the kings of Lead On village" haha that made me laugh! but I think the problem is that people fail to notice that we treat everyone the same..I flirt even with my female friends (just because I think its funny! odd sense of humor)