How is it that Libra's can become bored together

I don't get this theory, I'm always down to do something beautiful and exciting like perhaps shopping, traveling, going beautiful places surrounded by beautiful people just enjoying life. Which is why i cant seem to figure this being (bored thing) out between two Libras. I honestly cant picture this. Maybe its a Libra guy thing. You would think that the two would live in peace and harmony being that, this is we I'm always in search for is peace joy love and harmony, i wouldn't have it any other way.

I do hate it when some one isn't truthful with me, or some one tries to take my kindness for weakness. I can accept and respect the truth better than i can a lye. The truth i can simply get over it. A lye i can get over as well, but it will always be there in the back of my head which makes it hard for me to trust after. I have a free heart and will give the shirt off my back, until i feel like i have been played is when i draw the line. I always expect for others to treat me the way i treat them. I am very easy to please.

Agreed, all the stuff I see about Libra women... I want one!

I suspect it may come down to no one taking the initiative? The old, "whatcha wanna do tonight?" "I dunno. what do you want to do tonight?" "I dunno." Silence ...

Just my guess. lol.

I would like in a partner a good amount of Libran qualities but I would also want some challenges and decisiveness too.

When I'm feeling homely and ready to just snuggly on the couch, I'd love a partner that would snap me out of it and drag me off somewhere exciting and not let me enter that boring lazy zone that I put myself in alot.

I do feel another Libran would end up being monotonous after a while!

hee! I have already told the Gemini he is in charge of having the plan. We. Shall. See. lol.

Posted by sweethearts

When I'm feeling homely and ready to just snuggly on the couch, I'd love a partner that would snap me out of it and drag me off somewhere exciting and not let me enter that boring lazy zone that I put myself in alot.

When I just want to snuggle on the couch, I'd love a partner that wants to snuggle on the couch with me not someone dragging me out. We can go out and do shit too of course, but I know I like a fair amount of down time and I'd rather have someone that gets that and wants to take it easy sometimes too than someone who wants to go out all the time. Balance. It's not scuba diving or comedy clubs every week.

This may not make sense but I want someone that I can be bored with, while not being bored of.

Problem is when a Libran gets into that frame of mind that's exactly where they stay for YEARS!

Everytime I've been dragged off the couch, I've had a ball and not regretted it. There is plenty of down time cos nobody can party 24/7 but alot can just waste there life looking at the box!!!

Oh so your not just talking about wanting to stay in for a night or three. Yeah I don't want long slumps of that blah feeling staying on the couch not wanting to go anywhere, but I snap myself out of that quickly anyway.


I was just saying that Libras, male and female, are generally pleasant, smart, loving, calm, talkative, funny, genuine, etc... just good people. I'll take me one of those. I see what people are saying about the indecisiveness but I think most people exaggerate how indecisive we are. Two Libras would NOT sit there and starve because they couldn't decide where to go (or what to cook). While it may take them a while to decide what color to paint the house and how to decorate, I bet it feels like home to anyone who walks in.

I don't have a problem with staying inside sometimes especially if I'm with the right person. I also cant stay sitting in one place for long before i start too feel like I'm loosing my mind, and the walls are caving in.

Being indecisive, yes i think that's in a Libras blood. But with the right resources that can change very quickly. Like i said, I'm a Libra who loves to travel.

@LibraSid, your right it might take a while to figure things out,but eventually something will come to mind. We definitely wouldn't go back and fourth for long.

@QLibraMale, I'm not a phone person,while i do feel like i can be an assertive if needed. I don't have a problem taking the lead. Especially when a man appreciates an assertive woman every once and awhile,and in certain situations.

@Pandorasbox, great answer. I was thinking the same thing. Is why i started this thread.

With all said, i have my eye on a Libra male. I have never had a relationship/friendship with a male Libra. I'm going to try to strike up a conversation with him hopfully it goes well. Maybe i will ask him out hopefully he agrees and wont think I'm being too assertive or become offended.

Libras do become bored together. That's why they need to be very different, and yet very similar.