Bragga
@Bragga
11 Years
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I know what i have to do,but i just cant!!!...libr
Good lord, this post made my eyes bleed.
Oh lord. The double scales can either be really good or really bad. With the two of you being young, it may be a recipe for disaster. One of you has to be the leader and the more grounded one. I know that can be scary for both you; because Libra??s are always timid and weary in the decision making department, and standing by those decisions??_BUT, if this is going to work; it must be done. Otherwise there will be no out, and this marry-go round will surely continue.
Go somewhere fun together as friends, and then talk. Get to know her as a person instead of someone you would like to date. I always suggest trying to be a Libra??s friend first. I'm not sure if all Libra??s are like me in this area, but the guys that were my friends first know me better than some of the men I??ve actually dated. Just be careful not to get yourself stuck in the friend department, like bringing up too many other women around her. This pair can work, if you both learn to give, and not just take. When the other is unsure, use your fairness trait and re-assure her that you??re not just a guy that likes her, but you are also a friend and she can come to you about anything. Let her know it's important to you that she knows that.
If this does not work, which I doubt that it won't, then I??d just continue to be her friend, since you can't seem to leave her alone completely. I know as a Libra it's very easy to fall in love with —idea?? of how it —would be?? to be with someone, the problem is you need to face reality and snap out of your fantasy world and deal with what you have before you. Stop fast forwarding to the future when you don't even have a good grasp on the present. I do this a lot too, and it never works out, you will always end up disappointed with a person if you jump the gun before letting them show you who they really are. I'm older and I'm telling you, work on the friendship with this girl and the more she trust you as a friend, the more she will trust you with other parts of her feelings. I have two guys that I liked whom became my friends before actually trying to date me. One of them I like more as a friend, and the other I still could see myself with, except he's involved with someone and frankly if we never end up together I'm happy with the friendship because it's just that special. Keep us posted.
Go somewhere fun together as friends, and then talk. Get to know her as a person instead of someone you would like to date. I always suggest trying to be a Libra??s friend first. I'm not sure if all Libra??s are like me in this area, but the guys that were my friends first know me better than some of the men I??ve actually dated. Just be careful not to get yourself stuck in the friend department, like bringing up too many other women around her. This pair can work, if you both learn to give, and not just take. When the other is unsure, use your fairness trait and re-assure her that you??re not just a guy that likes her, but you are also a friend and she can come to you about anything. Let her know it's important to you that she knows that.
If this does not work, which I doubt that it won't, then I??d just continue to be her friend, since you can't seem to leave her alone completely. I know as a Libra it's very easy to fall in love with —idea?? of how it —would be?? to be with someone, the problem is you need to face reality and snap out of your fantasy world and deal with what you have before you. Stop fast forwarding to the future when you don't even have a good grasp on the present. I do this a lot too, and it never works out, you will always end up disappointed with a person if you jump the gun before letting them show you who they really are. I'm older and I'm telling you, work on the friendship with this girl and the more she trust you as a friend, the more she will trust you with other parts of her feelings. I have two guys that I liked whom became my friends before actually trying to date me. One of them I like more as a friend, and the other I still could see myself with, except he's involved with someone and frankly if we never end up together I'm happy with the friendship because it's just that special. Keep us posted.
@rockyroad...its my plesure
@pink libra....thank you for taking you time 2 write such a reply...any way you touchd on sow many points i just hope il be able 2 reply moust of the things mentioned.Aniway via decisions ur % 100 correct we both think things over 2 much,its just that its a huge leap to make such a change for 1 to become the, "leader" but even sow the last thing i want is to stay in this marry go round.I also have the pride of a lion sow it wont be a walk in the park to do this just even thinking about it sends a shiver down my spine.
To add to your knowledge I have known her for like close to 8 years now though we only really started to get to know each other last year late,but from that can i say i truelly know her No........why?we rally sit and have a chat especially after what i did but thankfully we always togather on church trips,and ow ye i know/met her and see her at church though she lives my area walking distance.
Now about the other woman #rolling eyes# I was actually thinking of trying to make her jealous to the point that she'll eventually tell me upfront "how she feels about me",but now in having second thoughts about that thanks to you.How do you think she would actually react if i did this?
And hey tell of about it its really something how easy libras CAN fall in love #hides# and fantasy about the future,but as you said its not a healthy habit which im working on.....
Now about you,your single?hm....if i may ask why dont you try out the available guy?just a question?
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To add to your knowledge I have known her for like close to 8 years now though we only really started to get to know each other last year late,but from that can i say i truelly know her No........why?we rally sit and have a chat especially after what i did but thankfully we always togather on church trips,and ow ye i know/met her and see her at church though she lives my area walking distance.
Now about the other woman #rolling eyes# I was actually thinking of trying to make her jealous to the point that she'll eventually tell me upfront "how she feels about me",but now in having second thoughts about that thanks to you.How do you think she would actually react if i did this?
And hey tell of about it its really something how easy libras CAN fall in love #hides# and fantasy about the future,but as you said its not a healthy habit which im working on.....
Now about you,your single?hm....if i may ask why dont you try out the available guy?just a question?
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@smellycat you seam to have a lot off knowledge about stars signs or maybe you just using your god given brains because if the is 1 thing i have learned is that aqua people are very smart or better said "a step ahead of their time"especially girls!
Ye dating own star sign mite not be easy but your optimism gives me hope #wink#
What i would like to ask you though is besides libras what other star sign could i thrive with?
And lastly do you believe you will find your prince charming one day,and if sow what star sign do you wish he might be?
Ye dating own star sign mite not be easy but your optimism gives me hope #wink#
What i would like to ask you though is besides libras what other star sign could i thrive with?
And lastly do you believe you will find your prince charming one day,and if sow what star sign do you wish he might be?
@lib4life hm you tell it like it is......but i hope your just being hush especially on the point that our personners may be a recipey for disaster,I am a confident person if i may say but arrogant?i dont know i thought im to friendly to be that though the more i think about it i fear the may be some truth in what you say......the is no chance for any progress to happen with "arrogance" involved.
I also looked at the thread you said i should check out i see what you mean,and yes its true i should man up but let me bring something else into light.......
As i have mentioned i got pride sow rejection is the last thing i want but what i fear is not that she'll say no.......no she definatly wont i know for a fact she is into me but what i do fear the most is if i'll be able 2 keep her happy,with me.I say this because she recently was dating an older guy who is in hes twenties and she told me this in one of our chats when flares where really flying high.....sow basically what im saying is what if she has become 2 mature for me?
I know this may sound like an excuse and maybe it is,its just that i am not used to doing sow much hardwork while the is such a possibility for failure.Soy much at stake,like my pride for 1
I also looked at the thread you said i should check out i see what you mean,and yes its true i should man up but let me bring something else into light.......
As i have mentioned i got pride sow rejection is the last thing i want but what i fear is not that she'll say no.......no she definatly wont i know for a fact she is into me but what i do fear the most is if i'll be able 2 keep her happy,with me.I say this because she recently was dating an older guy who is in hes twenties and she told me this in one of our chats when flares where really flying high.....sow basically what im saying is what if she has become 2 mature for me?
I know this may sound like an excuse and maybe it is,its just that i am not used to doing sow much hardwork while the is such a possibility for failure.Soy much at stake,like my pride for 1
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@Bragga...you can still be friendly and nice and have an heir of arrogance and pride about yourself...lol. It's healthy when it's for positive reasons, but when emotions are involved....not so much. You both are very young and some lessons comes with age, so it's perfectly fine to feel your way through a relationship...especially when you are not sure about someone, but I stand on my words where games are concerned. Games always lead to failure, hurt feelings and regrets.
Well, it's no secret that women mature waaaaay faster than men, but if you are being yourself and true to her, and she's still unhappy, then it's not you! Never self-sacrifice for someone else's happiness.
When I was around your ages, I always dated guys a little older than me because I was just attracted mentally to older guys. They just seemed to understand me a little more than guys my age at that time, so it's very possible that she just likes older guys. With that being said, just be yourself, be honest and let her know that you like her and is interested enough to maybe engage in a relationship. If she's still undecided or seem to be in the game playing stage, let her move on and you do the same...it's just that simple. Besides, you're still young...Enjoy your life and don't worry about the seriousness of a relationship. When the timing is right, you'll know...SO HAVE SOME FUN
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@Bragga...you can still be friendly and nice and have an heir of arrogance and pride about yourself...lol. It's healthy when it's for positive reasons, but when emotions are involved....not so much. You both are very young and some lessons comes with age, so it's perfectly fine to feel your way through a relationship...especially when you are not sure about someone, but I stand on my words where games are concerned. Games always lead to failure, hurt feelings and regrets.
Well, it's no secret that women mature waaaaay faster than men, but if you are being yourself and true to her, and she's still unhappy, then it's not you! Never self-sacrifice for someone else's happiness.
When I was around your ages, I always dated guys a little older than me because I was just attracted mentally to older guys. They just seemed to understand me a little more than guys my age at that time, so it's very possible that she just likes older guys. With that being said, just be yourself, be honest and let her know that you like her and is interested enough to maybe engage in a relationship. If she's still undecided or seem to be in the game playing stage, let her move on and you do the same...it's just that simple. Besides, you're still young...Enjoy your life and don't worry about the seriousness of a relationship. When the timing is right, you'll know...SO HAVE SOME FUN
🙂
Don't try to make her jealous just to get a reaction. That's awful! It'd only send mixed signals. She'll just end up feeling you're no longer interested in her.
Please don't ever do that to anyone. It's best to be honest about your feelings and intentions once you're SURE about what you want to happen. If in doubt, give yourself some space to figure out if you feel the same way or are you just getting carried away by idealizing the situation.
Please don't ever do that to anyone. It's best to be honest about your feelings and intentions once you're SURE about what you want to happen. If in doubt, give yourself some space to figure out if you feel the same way or are you just getting carried away by idealizing the situation.
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