I am sick and tired of attracting Libras

So, this is my second post in this forum (in 2 years) and surprising enough both posts are about Libra men, luck me!

So, I recently started a new job, it is really amazing, I am heading a branch office in a different city from the head office of my organization but i travel a lot to this main office for work, I am there maybe 7 -10 days of each month.

2 weeks after I started, a new guy started working, he is located in the main office but what he does links all branch offices together. I have had my nose deep in work and did not notice him really at first, at least not 'like that'. I did notice that he always found ways to talk to me when I was visiting, always sat with me at lunch, skype chat with me constantly when I was not. This went on for about a month and then we were chatting on Skype and then on Whatsapp when we both left the office. All this while, it was just what I would deem to be small talk, the office I am heading has suffered a minor crisis, that he has been very supportive of while I sort the mess up.

In our most recent chat, we found things 'escalating'; long story short, he expressed his interest in me and I expressed that I was interested too. He formally asked me out for dinner and drinks. We ended the evening with him suggesting that he drives down (about 6-7) hours for the weekend.

The next day: TOTAL ABSOLUTE SILENCE. I wrote a 'good morning' and then 6 hours later 'Everything ok?'. I have not received any response to either message. His whatsapp shows he was last on the evening we were chatting. I was inclined to think it was the Libra rubber band thing and gave him his space after the messages, but now I am beginning to worry that something might have happened to him. Should I call—

And 2. WHY o why do I attract so many Libra men— (there have been 2 others between my last trouble libra and this one. I just couldn't handle the pull-push and ended both before they got too far, but this one sneaked in on me and I think it's a little too late to run now. But why? I am a Cancer sun, Sag rising and Cap moon. Mars in Leo and Venus in Cancer.

I don't know what happed with your ex libra but you should be very careful with this one. Just beware.

Well, there's a whole thread n my last Libra. Not somethign I am proud of in retrospect. I was very disrespectful to myself and let myself be taken for a ride. I met that Libra again recently and found great satisfaction in realizing how far I had come from the days where I was pinning for him.

This one, he keeps saying things that made me believing he had been watching and noticing things about me that not many people would. I should have run when he told me he was a Libra... now that I think of it, that was the last thing he said to me. *shock*

Oh really? What gave you THAT impression?

Thanks for the GREAT help so far. *sigh*

Yes, yesterday was the next day. We had this chat on Friday with him suggesting a drive for this weekend. The idea was for him to have a drive to clear his head, he mentioned to have a lot on his mind. I suggested (originally as a joke) that the place I live in is 6 hours away... he took that up later in the chat and said he will take me up on that offer. Asked me formally if I wanted to go out for dinner and drinks with him when he drove over... which indicated that he was not really thinking of sleeping in my bed. At least that was my impression while chatting.

Yep. I get that. Half of me was honestly just worried that what I perceived as a rubber band thing may be him lying in a ditch somewhere. The other half was really just pissed that I have found myself in a hot Libra mess yet again! Especially after consciously avoiding them.

I just wonder if there is something in my chart that has me especially attracted to (and attracting) Libras recently. I mean 4 Libras (one was a Sag, with Libra rising) in 14 months, I would think something's up.

Thanks for taking the time to say something here btw.

Not funny 😄

I really was avoiding them after my last shenanigan (not) with the last Libra in my life. This one literally sneaked in, found me at a time in my life when I could really use a shoulder (which happens like NEVER, I was dumped once for 'being too independent' 😢 ). Which is weird because he also told me I caught him off guard. We both were not really searching.

Oh geez! I am still searching for the reason behind all this Libra-ness.

And I don't know. I never wrote back since yesterday. I should know by tomorrow morning, we are required to be on Skype if we are signed in at our desks. If I don't see him on then he's either sick or in a ditch somewhere. Otherwise, I will 'see him' signed in.

What's your Venus? Mine's Libra, and I'm horrendously attracted to them.

Dated only two, but I kid you not, they BOTH had Virgo Mars. And I have Virgo Moon. Of course, my Scorp Sun scared 'em away eventually. The next guy who clicked happens to have Scorp Mars and Libra Rising. So he'd theoretically come off as a Libra and be interested in Scorpio gals. We're both still happily attracted.

Ladies: Venus
Gents: Mars

So, one: he's alive. Two: he called me right after I wrote the message above, apologizing for scaring me like that. He had left one of his phones at home. Since then things have 'progressed' beautifully. Still not sure about the Libra thing but willing to see where this leads me, hopefully not to another post on here.

On my venus, mine's in Cancer. Which is not the most compatible I would think.

libras are interested in every 1.

Aaaand, we're back.

I have been find posts here super useful, especially on mimicking the Libra man's behaviour but there are a couple of things I still find confusing. There were a few days that we both went in heavy, talking ALL day in some form: Whatsapp, Skype, Phone, SMS. And then this was followed by a moment of absolute silence from him, which sort of irked me a little but i learned to get over it. He kept coming back after I 'ignored' him back and apologized for doing this and then as soon as he hangs up, the silent treatment resumes.

However, i keep getting the feeling that he WANTS me to notice the silence, and that he WANTS me to chase after him, because i keep getting a vibe that he is at least slightly annoyed that I am still having a great time (with other people) even without his (constant)communication. So which is it, pull back or CHASE—

*confused*

Posted by Lust
Oh Pleeeaaazee, you are the one who gets crazy way too easy by libra.

Here is the proof: you can always back out now that you know he is a libra. But of course you choose to follow up and cling to it. I know I know, it's not easy to turn away from Libra's charm. He will break your hearth I can tell you right now.

Well, I will take that one. I was just fascinated by how I can be around THIS many Libra guys in a span of a year. Yes, it is not easy to turn away from the Libra charm (when they choose to be charming) at least if you find yourself already knee deep in it (I managed to escape twice in the last 6 months) but this one got me. Blergh!

Anyway, part of the reason I have not yet run from this one (I am very much more Sag than I am cancer, I tend to, when it matters, make the decision to go or stay using my head) is that I do think he is a great dude. He's 41, i am 27 (almost), has 2 kids, and he is a great father. So, mature and not pressured to get married and have kids (which I am not sure i want, at least not quite yet). He also is not scared of me, which has been a HUGE challenge for me, I have been told I intimidate guys, quite often. This one is not the least bit phased. So yeah, the sag in me approves.