Indulgence me

Went to an anniversary party with some friends Saturday night. Ran into ex-libra we have not seen or spoken to each other for 3 months. Anyway he was all shy and sheepish. He wanted to know how I know the couple and just a lot of unnecessary stuff.

I went home at 04:00, switched off my phone. When I got up Sunday pass 10:30 ex- Libra called and wanted to know why I went home so early and can he come over. I said ?No. It was really nice to see you again. But I have plans. ?Libra went all quiet on me. Told him that I had to run. Then he said that he can't find what we had with anyone else. I asked him why he was looking. He did not respond.

Then he said that he was sorry for hurting me. And he doesn't know why he keeps hurting people because he did the same thing to the girl he was suppose to get married to. Of course I rose to the occasion. And told him when he hurt me it was nothing now that he was hurt her I really don't care to hear about it. And threw the phone down in his ear. Then he texted and said he is truly sorry and he did not know that he has hurt me so much. I did not respond.

PS the couple was a pisces woman and a libra male. They have a great relationship.They have been married for 5 years now. It was also his birthday. He is 40 acts like a kid is a social butterfly and really the live of the party.

ashleysagstar, the thing is that he keeps doing this. When he is down and going through something. He will come to me and the moment I ?make it better ?he is gone again. I don't deserve this. So, I cut him off completely he tried coming back?

I met someone new and we have SOME THING GREAT. I guess I lost it when he told me how much he has hurt his now ex and how bad he feels about it. When he hurt me he didn't give me the time or day. Said that I was nothing to him; Spoke badly about me. This is not someone I want in my life. And now he sees me at a party? and whatever the hell he wanted.

I don't know why I am allowing him to upset me like this. It is the past and it is done. I really wish him all the best in life.

Yes, I felt hurt and angry. He knows what he did to me.Now he wants to talk about her to me and how much he hurt her!!!! really what the hell.I am just suppose to forget that he treated me badly and told me that I was "nothing to him".

I really don't want this person in my life.

thanks, have to ran...

PS - I will work on forgiving him in time!!!

3 months? I haven't seen my woman fo uhhmore than a decade , besides your pst doesn't make any sense sweetie.

"can he come over" booty call??what's up?=

ashleysagstar, you are right we( libra and I) stayed in that cycle for to long. We know eachother's buttons.

Joe Stickler, have not seen you on here for a while. Yip, I know that it was for a booty call.... LOL Just don't know why I allow him to to get me all worked up.

leokitten,
(( umm....no this guy i sbad news. he is not worth any forgiveness. none. so you are right cut him out. cut him out. follow your gut on that one. with time the anger will fade...in the meantime...the anger is normal. it is part of the cycle. so dont knock yourself. but dont believe him or give in either. cause he lies. ))

thats how I feel now

Eventually, I will leave this behind and not get so worked up with what he is doing or saying.

I don't hate him. I am just angry and frustrated. And I really don't want to be friends or have this person in my life. It is just one of those things. Anyway, thanks

I just don't understand....Sorry for those of you who have heard this before

As mentioned.I have had no contact with ex-libra for 3 months, bumped into him at a party.He called , I didn't give in like all the other times before. My younger sister told me that he dropped by my place last night looking for me. She told him that I am staying with "Cappy".

Now he(libra) is calling and acting like a jealous boyfriend.saying that he thought we had something and now he can see that I was just using him.And I was dating my rich cappy all the time.(Idiot!!! libra is and his crap is getting boring)

Had to switch off my phone because he kept calling back from a private no.

Wow, this makes so much sense did really think about it. My cousin's boyfriend pwes the club we went to. She told me that he was asking how I am doing.

I try to avoid him, when I go to a place and I see his car there. I go to another place.This time I was there before him.

I really love my Cappy and we have a great relationship. We are comfortable with each other . We can talk about everything and nothing and still be cool.He is out of town now... London for business.( told him to get me of of those police hats with cuffs for when he gets back)

(( you were supposed to pine for him forever...did you fail to get the memo? ))

Had the memo, but tossed it 3 months ago, just had enough.It was like this sick thing between us. He dumps me.He comes back, dates other women, dumps them, comes back to me...

Light Bulb moment !!!Just realised I am his fall back girl. The in the-mean-time-girl while his is looking for his "MRS RIGHT".

He always does this...

I can't believe that I am only realizing this now !!!

on my way home now...I am going to face this and not ran away on a 3 hour drive.

He likes to drop by. No,he didn't drop by but he called.

He is just being a shit and I am tired of it.

I really don't know what's going on with him.

I am 9 years younger then him and I have alwyas been too eager to jump into bed with him. He could see that I worshiped the ground he walks on. I am dating a very respect and wealthy man now. Libra knows him so maybe libra just feels insecure or something or wants to hurt me. And of cousre he did do anything it was me.

((And of cousre he did do anything it was me.))

And of course he(libra) did not do anything it was me. I was jealous etc.And I did this to us... I am bored now