Dating the Friend. Again.

This topic was created in the Libra forum by a muse a libra on Tuesday, September 9, 2008 and has 14 replies.

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So, as I might have anticipated, the situation has blown up beyond proportion. Me and my Scorp we going along beautifully --I mean it, the best situation I've been in in over a year! and then my ex (Taurus), who is his friend, got wind of what was happening. He made jealous, snarky comments to the Scorp all night. The Scorp, though he says he still wants to be with me, has backed off. I am giving him his space, we thought it wouldn't be easy, but never thought it would be so ugly. I can't blame him, really.

I hope he's taken some space, because I already miss him. We laughed together all the time and cooked delicious foods. I am sad because the Taurus was such a bad decision to begin with, and now he's come back to to bite me twice!!!

Not needing any advice really, just letting off some of my loneliness...

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You actually like Scorps when they are standing on their feet with clothes on—? Wow!!!

ONLY SEX WITH SCORPS FOR ME!!

Just trying to make you laugh a little. 😉

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lol Jojojo, thank you! Actually, to be truthful, he is unlike every scorp I've met...down to the good sex thing. I'm hoping for more time to work on him, get him to the heights I know he's capable of. *crosses fingers*

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They have mutual friends in common with each other. The Scorp just started playing in a band with the Taurus' friends. They haven't known each other long, but they are friends...

And you're right, Unreal. The Scorp told me what the Taurus was saying, but since no contact, I feel something may have been left out.

I am on the verge of real hatred for the Taurus, who was a rude, controlling bf when I had him, and is being the same now that I don't. He broke it off with me btw.

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@a muse a libra
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ARRGG!! NEVER TAURUS. NEVER AGAIN.

Why are they like that?? "If I don't want you, nobody can have you" bull-butter-crap. Dumb bull.

ahh. sorry. venting....

I do love me a good Scorp, they are deep

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@a muse a libra
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The Scorp or the Taurus?

I've already gone after the Taurus. I told him under no circumstances should he be talking about our relationship to anybody. He was very typical and argued and denied everything. I didn't feed into it.

Confronting the Scorp? I'm really feeling that is not the best move...

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Oops, I did leave some information out...

The Scorp is fully aware of the circumstances of me and the Taurus. It was Sunday that I spoke with the Taurus, and the Scorp was there, across the way, but present for it. I was visibly upset and the Scorp and I talked after the Taurus and I. I asked the Scorp if this was all worth it to him, and he said, "yes, it is." And he texted me on Monday a few times (he broke his toe!) and I texted him back, but never got a response.

he was at band practice last night, so I am able to rule out the toe as an excuse to not communicate...

which is why I am not sure contacting him at this point is the best move

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Oh please don't contact him, lies are weak. He needs to man up, boys will be boys. I don't think talking to them both in the same night, same place was a good idea. Never bring sand to the beach. Never S H I T where you eat, NEXT!

P.S. No more friends, please.