Is my Libra guy playing me

I was 3months in my pregnancy, then he started acting funny. I go on his fb page his ex girlfriend is liking other females flirty comment. And put an sideway eye on one of his pictures. I wrote him a long paragraph stating that I know they r dealing with each other and that if he love her to be with her he never responded, so I tried calling he wouldn't talk to me about it at all. So I decided to write on his wall I love u babe and a lot of emojis. The ex girlfriend liked it he deleted it. At this point I am beyond hurt be never deleted any of my post off his wall, I call and ask him is he done with me he keeps telling me no. I hang up and haven't called him for 3weeks, he didn't call me either. So I had my best friend call him and talk to him. He tells her he is leaving me pregnant, he told me get an abotion that he don't have another gf. So I decide to get an abortion I didn't want any strings attached with him, think I was trying to keep him around or anything. I get to the abortion clinic and tears are uncontrollable, o ended up calling him crying saying I didn't want to get the abortion. He told me to think about it and if I didn't want to get it don't! But he didn't want to have the baby, but it was ultimately up to me. I ended up getting it. Before we hang up he tells me he loves me and to call him after. He checks on me later that day with a text I tell him I'm good. A Call days later I call him tell him I love him he says it back, and asked can we work on us he says yes he guess we can work on us, we talked for about 2hrs. I have a one year old son that he's been there for since and before he was born(not his)Then he goes to ask is my son still his son, and I ask him is he going act like his daddy he said yea, but deep in my heart I know he is messing with that other girl. a week later I call and ask him to clean my car and he does it. I'm so confused by his actions and words. Do u think he is just leading me on hoping I would just leave him alone or do u think he really wants to be with me? I also asked him about spending our anniversary together 2/14/16 I think he said yes somebody please help before I continue making a fool of myself

Oh for fuck's sake.

Posted by 2Moon
what is your sun sign?!

Gemini

Posted by LuckyLibra979
Yea I gotta agree with busy on those one, he may be comforting now but he's going to take off again. I'd let it go, you don't want that in your life. The longer you go back n forth with this the worse it will get. My father told my mother to get an abortion because he was married(of that's what you want to call it). No man should ever tell a woman that and then he left you when you were pregnant? For another woman at that? That's painful. He doesn't mean shit he says. Don't be his fall girl because the relationship he is in will end the same way. Sounds like the ex just wanted attention and baited him in but She'll chew him up and spit him out smmfj



These are the types of Libras astrology describes. The ones who can't be honest for fucking shit and would rather lead a person on than be honest. There are libras that will distance themselves until its safe to cur you off. I've never done that and I never will. The more I read some of y'all stories the more I want to improve myself because I would never do a person like this.




If its any help, my ex cheated on me and got pregnant but honestly, I should have left her alone a while ago but I didn't I stuck around til the hand was forced. Guess who had the highest spade. Don't let that happen to you, don't stick around until something terrible happens. Its ppl in this world who don't give a damn rather u sink or swim BUT we are responsible for ourselves so its up to us to rid ourselves of ppl who only seek to drain you. He'll use you and use you again. For your son to be so important to him he left for a mother woman like it wasnt shit. Let him go of suffer playing 3rd wheel and watching him fall in love while you question his for you. Don't be stupid(sorry but I'm tryna get thru to u)

And most def did, thank u soch ur response def made me feel better from a mans point of view

Thank u so much*

Yes this is sad im sorry u went through that listen to what advice was giving to u. There r alot good ppl out there u deserves great person. Also this isn't something your son need to see. U need to keep good consistent men around u

Thank u so much I am listening to u all

Omgoodness u are 100% correct and I am taking every ones opinion very seriously and this was a lot to go through and now trying to get ovee

Posted by feby
It's very sad the whole thing 😢 I feel sorry for any child involved 😢

Let me tell u along with everyone else my son is good he has his own relationship with his real dad. My son is taking care of very very well, he comes first in all that I do. I will never let no boy hurt him, my son doesn't call him dad he calls him by his first name my some is 1years old

So please don't feel sorry for my baby, me u can feel sorry for me tho I don't need no pity but yea

Posted by feby
I'm not perfect or even close to it as a mom but geez....it seems there's so much focus on you and this guy. Just worry about your 1 year old. He is the most important thing here not some dick cheater asshole and not you either.
If you can't get yourself together (and I've been there) just try to remember there's a young child involved who needs you and your focus on him first and foremost.

Yes I was focused on him, but never ever neglected my son not one bit, my son comes first even thru all this bs I held my mom hat very high

that situation was FUCKED!!!! Learn your lesson and move on from this guy and be very very careful about who you bring into yours and your sons life..

Seriously u need to be alone for a while to develop mental spiritual strength, you don't get it from being a mans pin cushion, he won't look after you for pussy if he can and will get it from anywhere..

Once you have become strong enough only then do you date and if you date you need to take it slow! My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we've only had sex twice! We both intend on taking it slow because we know we can become stronger and don't rush shit and wait things out.....mind you we Hoover each other every night.

To answer your question, yes he is playing you, actually he played you hard, you know he is and you know that you have no business being with him at all because he's not a man that gives one fuck about you. You know this so start taking steps and necessary precautions to get your ass into gear so you can raise your kids

Why were you not on birth control? Not to sound nasty but seeing what he did, why would you have made that choice? I could have told you right then and there, he isn't going to stay with you. What you just proved is that you can't make decisions for yourself. Regardless, he will still find a way to leave you and likely he won't even give you the courtesy as to a reason why. Do not believe anything he tells you, that is not love to tell your supposed S.O. to have an abortion. A child is made out of love or so maybe you 'thought' he loved you. You should have put your foot down and said NO from the moment he told you to have the abortion. I give you the credit for sharing your story here as that is quite humiliating, but this is another typical (albeit one to an extreme) scenario of the Lib not being able to keep the dick in his pants, then eventually just tossing you aside as another play thing. This post may take the cake as being one of the proof as to the Libra guy behavior. It takes two, but really this guy is a real son of a bitch. Don't worry, he'll get his eventually. God don't play especially when it comes to the "little ones." As others have said the only thing you can take from this is a lesson learned. What he won't realize is no matter what is how much this will tear at you emotionally and he will never care because he isn't the one who had to deal with it.

Wait...So math

3 months in- so 12 weeks- Second trimester?- Isn't that illegal?

Basically

Jesus fucking Christ.

Stop having sex, you stupid woman. You make poor life choices and you get knocked up randomly.

Learn your damned lesson and move on. You aren't even holding your "mom hat" very high if you're going around and continuing to "accidentally" get knocked up by flavor of the week. You aren't thinking of your son at all, only your selfish, selfish fuck emotional needs by allowing this shit into your life, which also affects him.

Grow the fuck up. Avoid assholes like this dude. Use condoms. Get on birth control. You can get it for free if you can't afford it. There is NO excuse for this garbage. Come on, now.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Jesus fucking Christ.

Stop having sex, you stupid woman. You make poor life choices and you get knocked up randomly.

Learn your damned lesson and move on. You aren't even holding your "mom hat" very high if you're going around and continuing to "accidentally" get knocked up by flavor of the week. You aren't thinking of your son at all, only your selfish, selfish fuck emotional needs by allowing this shit into your life, which also affects him.

Grow the fuck up. Avoid assholes like this dude. Use condoms. Get on birth control. You can get it for free if you can't afford it. There is NO excuse for this garbage. Come on, now.

Lol u don't know me u know half of what I tell this is my first abortion ever 2nd time getting pregnant by someone I thought was the love of my life 2 years in with him. For real for real this is my first relationship, that ks for ur opinion but it is so far off u sound stupid as tree trunk to me bye dummy

Posted by Prettybabygirl

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Jesus fucking Christ.

Stop having sex, you stupid woman. You make poor life choices and you get knocked up randomly.

Learn your damned lesson and move on. You aren't even holding your "mom hat" very high if you're going around and continuing to "accidentally" get knocked up by flavor of the week. You aren't thinking of your son at all, only your selfish, selfish fuck emotional needs by allowing this shit into your life, which also affects him.

Grow the fuck up. Avoid assholes like this dude. Use condoms. Get on birth control. You can get it for free if you can't afford it. There is NO excuse for this garbage. Come on, now.

Lol u don't know me u know half of what I tell this is my first abortion ever 2nd time getting pregnant by someone I thought was the love of my life 2 years in with him. For real for real this is my first relationship, that ks for ur opinion but it is so far off u sound stupid as tree trunk to me bye dummy

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Says the person who writes like an illiterate douche and uses the classic Jerry Springer-ish logic of "you don't know me!"

Bravo. *slow clap*

And you're irresponsibly breeding. How depressing.

I can't speak for Libra men, but as a Libra woman I can lose interest in someone, but two weeks later I can fall in love again. I think you need to pull back, and give him time to miss you, and let him approach you especially with the history you two have accumulated. Completely stop pursuing him, cry, try going out with some new friends, and stay busy. He's being a jerk right now, but let him miss you for a 'time' he will come back around? Maybe? More than likely..