Cancerleo32
@Cancerleo32
15 Years
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I've fallen into the Libra Male trap! O.O
You sound like you are defeated already before you actually get anywhere!!! Soooo negative and that will surely be the end result because it is what you are looking for.
If I were you, play it one day at a time and as Amey says, go witht he flow and stop looking for trouble, he'll pick up on it and then you will have regrets!!!!
If I were you, play it one day at a time and as Amey says, go witht he flow and stop looking for trouble, he'll pick up on it and then you will have regrets!!!!
Posted by Cancerleo32
** Repost.. noticed mistakes.. perfectionist tendencies. :]
Anyways~
I swore I'd never fall for the libra after reading so many scary things about Libras.. like how they would sort of mirror you, and how charming they were and how they could make you fall in love with them.. even if they weren't completely in love with you.. they were still deciding.. all the while still making it seem like they loved you by being so caring and loving towards you.
And now I am scared. As I have fell for him.
But I guess I am a weird balance, because I am detached while still attached.. independent while still dependent on him. But this has never happened. Never have I felt so comfortable with someone.. and so weirded out by how kind and caring he is.. How attentive he is. It's weird!
Who kisses someone on the forehead so much? Even I asked him about it.. lol
I just don't get how they can be so caring and wonderful but not really mean to have you in mind.. like you are just an option, type of thing. Or so that's what I read.
I mean I don't care.. I'm not gonna dump him over what i read.. but everything I else I read about Libras is soo true with him. I fell for him so quick it was strange.. and he just says the perfect things almost. Makes me feel like.. a princess? It's weird. Not only that but we are actually extremely similar. I dunno if he did that somehow if it is just natural.. but he is like my other half. So strange.. >.
look, for one dont believe what u read, you have to be objective to astrology or your feelings wil always be hurt by it
now ive been with 2 cancers, one i loved deepyl and insanely, the other one well she held a spot there b/c she always forgave and accepted me. Libras and cancers can be a good match, cancers have cranky days but they arent directed at people not intentionally. I miss the talks with my cancer all night and in the mornings too. The one i loved was real dependable, it was a high school thing tho but still hypnotic none the less. The one thing about cancers i loved was their nuturing ability yet aggresseiveness, but they force the libra man to lead which we like.
It felt like heaven when i was with her, i snuck out the house so many times just to go see her even now i get in a trance just thinking about it
but what fucced it up is on my moody days(i.e. al lcardinal signs are moody but libra and
Posted by Cancerleo32
** Repost.. noticed mistakes.. perfectionist tendencies. :]
Anyways~
I swore I'd never fall for the libra after reading so many scary things about Libras.. like how they would sort of mirror you, and how charming they were and how they could make you fall in love with them.. even if they weren't completely in love with you.. they were still deciding.. all the while still making it seem like they loved you by being so caring and loving towards you.
And now I am scared. As I have fell for him.
But I guess I am a weird balance, because I am detached while still attached.. independent while still dependent on him. But this has never happened. Never have I felt so comfortable with someone.. and so weirded out by how kind and caring he is.. How attentive he is. It's weird!
Who kisses someone on the forehead so much? Even I asked him about it.. lol
I just don't get how they can be so caring and wonderful but not really mean to have you in mind.. like you are just an option, type of thing. Or so that's what I read.
I mean I don't care.. I'm not gonna dump him over what i read.. but everything I else I read about Libras is soo true with him. I fell for him so quick it was strange.. and he just says the perfect things almost. Makes me feel like.. a princess? It's weird. Not only that but we are actually extremely similar. I dunno if he did that somehow if it is just natural.. but he is like my other half. So strange.. >.
look, for one dont believe what u read, you have to be objective to astrology or your feelings wil always be hurt by it
now ive been with 2 cancers, one i loved deepyl and insanely, the other one well she held a spot there b/c she always forgave and accepted me. Libras and cancers can be a good match, cancers have cranky days but they arent directed at people not intentionally. I miss the talks with my cancer all night and in the mornings too. The one i loved was real dependable, it was a high school thing tho but still hypnotic none the less. The one thing about cancers i loved was their nuturing ability yet aggresseiveness, but they force the libra man to lead which we like.
It felt like heaven when i was with her, i snuck out the house so many times just to go see her even now i get in a trance just thinking about it
but what fucced it up is on my moody days(i.e. al lcardinal signs are moody but libra an
look, for one dont believe what u read, you have to be objective to astrology or your feelings wil always be hurt by it
now ive been with 2 cancers, one i loved deepyl and insanely, the other one well she held a spot there b/c she always forgave and accepted me. Libras and cancers can be a good match, cancers have cranky days but they arent directed at people not intentionally. I miss the talks with my cancer all night and in the mornings too. The one i loved was real dependable, it was a high school thing tho but still hypnotic none the less. The one thing about cancers i loved was their nuturing ability yet aggresseiveness, but they force the libra man to lead which we like.
It felt like heaven when i was with her, i snuck out the house so many times just to go see her even now i get in a trance just thinking about it
but what fucced it up is on my moody days(i.e. al lcardinal signs are moody but libra and aries are moody out of boredness)i would get really detached and argue for no reason just cause i wanted some passion or fire at the moment. When those days happen and the libra is bored you gotta ignore him b/c i chased my cancer off liek that. I love cancers, 2 of my best friends are cancers, my first love wasa cancer they are good people. My relationship was abosulte bliss and hell all in one it was 6 years ago and sometimes i still think about her
just enjoy it, b/c no matter what you read cancers are magnetic to libras and its the one clingy sign that we never push away. So enjoy it you proabably all he is looking for if he is going out his way to be that affectionate
If I'd listened to everything I read, I'd have never gotten with my THIRD Libra, and I almost didn't. I actually AVOIDED Libras for years!... He always says, "It's a good thing I'm so persistent, cuz you sure are stubborn!"
Astrology is a GUIDE to help you understand why people may act/react/do things a certain way, so you don't freak out or take it personally simply because they aren't like YOU. But Astrology is not carved in stone. LIFE modifes the clay we're born with.. so EXPERIENCE being with this Libra, let down your walls, open your heart and mind.. it could be the best thing that's ever happened to you.
Astrology is a GUIDE to help you understand why people may act/react/do things a certain way, so you don't freak out or take it personally simply because they aren't like YOU. But Astrology is not carved in stone. LIFE modifes the clay we're born with.. so EXPERIENCE being with this Libra, let down your walls, open your heart and mind.. it could be the best thing that's ever happened to you.
Posted by QLIbraMale
OFF SUBJECT but has anyone noticed Libra board is the most lively Air Sign with different topics? compared to gemini and aquarius boards lol.
Years ago the Aqua board was one of the most active boards.
Cancer Dudette,
Everyone fears a broken heart. As long as this guy is asking you out, go for it. There are no assurances in life. But at least you know you tried.
Everyone fears a broken heart. As long as this guy is asking you out, go for it. There are no assurances in life. But at least you know you tried.
oh stop being a cancer and worrying! if a libra didn't like you, trust me your signs would be there. They would be light, but you would definitely notice them. Here are some to look out for
1.he wont call as much
2.you will start to feel like your doing all the work in the relationship
3. the kissing will be light, or non-passionate
4. sex will most likely stop altogether if he's no longer mentally or emotionally there. Alot of people think libra men are sex cravers, like they cant go without it. Unlike the scorpio they have to be mentally there, the settings gotta be right, the mood, the person, everything. maybe not spritually or have that deeeep connection like them., but they're pretty close.
5. he will feed you attention with a 10ft pole. meaning when you want to spend time you will almost have to play on his sympathy and make him feel bad, he will feel sorry and only do it because you wont shut up and it will show.
6. If it get really bad, one move of affection from you(someone he's supposedly only dealing with because he doesn't want to be labled as an asshole, a libra's rep is VERY important to them. they will do almost anything to protect it, even put up with someone they're not all the way attracted to.
7. Last but not least...he will dissapear. No phone calls, no text, no email, no facebook, it will be as if he fell of the face of the earth. Crazy part is he feels like he's doing you a favor rather than hurting you.
If any of these things aren't happening, then your acting like your cancerian self trying to predict the future, or at least plan for the worst and it hasn't even happen.lol. Chill girl. What you should be asking is what Libra men like so you can be sure to keep him the way he is in your post.lol
1.he wont call as much
2.you will start to feel like your doing all the work in the relationship
3. the kissing will be light, or non-passionate
4. sex will most likely stop altogether if he's no longer mentally or emotionally there. Alot of people think libra men are sex cravers, like they cant go without it. Unlike the scorpio they have to be mentally there, the settings gotta be right, the mood, the person, everything. maybe not spritually or have that deeeep connection like them., but they're pretty close.
5. he will feed you attention with a 10ft pole. meaning when you want to spend time you will almost have to play on his sympathy and make him feel bad, he will feel sorry and only do it because you wont shut up and it will show.
6. If it get really bad, one move of affection from you(someone he's supposedly only dealing with because he doesn't want to be labled as an asshole, a libra's rep is VERY important to them. they will do almost anything to protect it, even put up with someone they're not all the way attracted to.
7. Last but not least...he will dissapear. No phone calls, no text, no email, no facebook, it will be as if he fell of the face of the earth. Crazy part is he feels like he's doing you a favor rather than hurting you.
If any of these things aren't happening, then your acting like your cancerian self trying to predict the future, or at least plan for the worst and it hasn't even happen.lol. Chill girl. What you should be asking is what Libra men like so you can be sure to keep him the way he is in your post.lol
Posted by QLIbraMale
@Cancerleo32 sounds to me like you've giving up the Fight before it even started, and what's worst is your losing to "Words you Read" instead of to Charm. You really need to (swallow your pride, and let that negative die.) Before you lose him. Try to Go with the Flow and see where it takes you Remember this Cancerleo32---- "Sometimes the most Difficult Lessons in Life we get, are the ones we Never Forget." So take a chance or live with regrets.
Thank you. everyone is right. being negative is something that was pointed out to me. With relationships.. I'm always like this. I'm 19 but I am pretty sure I am terrified of being in love. Maybe for being hurt.. maybe for the change that will come. But whenever I start to like someone I start analyzing and looking for the problems. But I really like this guy so I will just go with the flow.. do my best to.
Thank you for that quote.. it is very true.
Posted by Pride of 0ctober
look, for one dont believe what u read, you have to be objective to astrology or your feelings wil always be hurt by it
now ive been with 2 cancers, one i loved deepyl and insanely, the other one well she held a spot there b/c she always forgave and accepted me. Libras and cancers can be a good match, cancers have cranky days but they arent directed at people not intentionally. I miss the talks with my cancer all night and in the mornings too. The one i loved was real dependable, it was a high school thing tho but still hypnotic none the less. The one thing about cancers i loved was their nuturing ability yet aggresseiveness, but they force the libra man to lead which we like.
It felt like heaven when i was with her, i snuck out the house so many times just to go see her even now i get in a trance just thinking about it
but what fucced it up is on my moody days(i.e. al lcardinal signs are moody but libra and aries are moody out of boredness)i would get really detached and argue for no reason just cause i wanted some passion or fire at the moment. When those days happen and the libra is bored you gotta ignore him b/c i chased my cancer off liek that. I love cancers, 2 of my best friends are cancers, my first love wasa cancer they are good people. My relationship was abosulte bliss and hell all in one it was 6 years ago and sometimes i still think about her
just enjoy it, b/c no matter what you read cancers are magnetic to libras and its the one clingy sign that we never push away. So enjoy it you proabably all he is looking for if he is going out his way to be that affectionate
It definitely did seem like a magnet was pulling us together.. that's for sure.
He was not the type of guy I normally like but I found myself going up to him and talking to him when we first met, like we had known each other for years. Completely comfortably.. which is odd for me because with guys, I normally am not that talkative at first.
You are right.. it will probably turn out good if I let it.
Posted by pinklibra
oh stop being a cancer and worrying! if a libra didn't like you, trust me your signs would be there. They would be light, but you would definitely notice them. Here are some to look out for
1.he wont call as much
2.you will start to feel like your doing all the work in the relationship
3. the kissing will be light, or non-passionate
4. sex will most likely stop altogether if he's no longer mentally or emotionally there. Alot of people think libra men are sex cravers, like they cant go without it. Unlike the scorpio they have to be mentally there, the settings gotta be right, the mood, the person, everything. maybe not spritually or have that deeeep connection like them., but they're pretty close.
5. he will feed you attention with a 10ft pole. meaning when you want to spend time you will almost have to play on his sympathy and make him feel bad, he will feel sorry and only do it because you wont shut up and it will show.
6. If it get really bad, one move of affection from you(someone he's supposedly only dealing with because he doesn't want to be labled as an asshole, a libra's rep is VERY important to them. they will do almost anything to protect it, even put up with someone they're not all the way attracted to.
7. Last but not least...he will dissapear. No phone calls, no text, no email, no facebook, it will be as if he fell of the face of the earth. Crazy part is he feels like he's doing you a favor rather than hurting you.
If any of these things aren't happening, then your acting like your cancerian self trying to predict the future, or at least plan for the worst and it hasn't even happen.lol. Chill girl. What you should be asking is what Libra men like so you can be sure to keep him the way he is in your post.lol
😆 gah you are very right. I am over analyzing and worrying like a typical cancer. >.> I try so hard not to. lol
Alright.. yeah I will just try to be calm and go with what happens.
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I swore I'd never fall for the libra after reading so many scary things about Libras.. like how they would sort of mirror you, and how charming they were and how they could make you fall in love with them.. even if they weren't completely in love with you.. they were still deciding.. all the while still making it seem like they loved you by being so caring and loving towards you.
And now I am scared. As I have fell for him.
But I guess I am a weird balance, because I am detached while still attached.. independent while still dependent on him. But this has never happened. Never have I felt so comfortable with someone.. and so weirded out by how kind and caring he is.. How attentive he is. It's weird!
Who kisses someone on the forehead so much? Even I asked him about it.. lol
I just don't get how they can be so caring and wonderful but not really mean to have you in mind.. like you are just an option, type of thing. Or so that's what I read.
I mean I don't care.. I'm not gonna dump him over what i read.. but everything I else I read about Libras is soo true with him. I fell for him so quick it was strange.. and he just says the perfect things almost. Makes me feel like.. a princess? It's weird. Not only that but we are actually extremely similar. I dunno if he did that somehow if it is just natural.. but he is like my other half. So strange.. >.