Jealous Libras

What are the signs of a jealous Libra? Something is happening and want to know first, the signs of a jealous Libra.

i go cold too.

if i feel jealousy inside me, i take it as a sign that the person doesn't value me enough, or else i wouldn't be in the position to feel jealous, because my connection with that person would be secure and not open to feelings of competetiveness. and if there's a competitition for something, i don't want it. i only want what's easy.

wait, you do mean romantic jealousy, right? or at least some sort of jealousy over a person? if it's jealousy over things and stuff, i almost never even feel that, so i'm not sure how libras who do feel it would express it.

From my experience (I know a lot!) they go cold mostly... if they are close enough to you or mature libras, they will outright say it... romantic or material stuff or job promotions, etc... if they like you, they may encourage you too... party with you, etc...

If they are libras stuck in the 'ego, I'm-too-cool, detached, uber-intelligent' stage, they may ignore you, compete with you, deny that they want anything related to the source...

Jealousy is a valid human response to certain things... sign does not exclude human unfortunately :-P

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Libras are lazy... We want attention to be lavished upon us... if not, we move onto to someone who WILL shower us with attention...

truer words have never been spoken...

Yeah, I agree on the going cold part... Ignore you completely even when u shower them with attention,when its late its late, maybe they will come back or they will move on...There is this libra that i like, he seems to get upset when i talk to his bestfriend ( who used to like me by the way) he gets cold on me,and ignore me...does this mean he is jealous? I mean he only says that we just friends so i dont understand his behavior... Does libras have low self esteem? And needs constant assurance that we like them?

Well I didnt do anything, He is the one going cold on me.. I accepted the fact that we were friends... I told him that he should stop playing games with me, and he said later sorry for making me believe that he had feelings for me.. And then I said fine lets be friends, cause I dont wanna loose his friendship.. He is a nice guy ( as a friend).. I sent him a message yesterday on facebook, something I thought was funny ( cause we joke alot about everything, and he is never serious with me ) and he didnt reply me,and I saw him commenting on facebook today..He has gone cold again ( he has done the same thing before) but lately more, I dont know why... And I didnt do anything...Maybe I did something that I dont know of..:S

AS A LIBRA I CAN SAY THAT WE SELDOM GET JEALOUS. WE ENJOY LIFE TOO MUCH AND ENJOYING PLAYING THE FIELD. I WOULD AGREE WITHT HE COLD PART FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT I CAN DEFINATELY BE THAT WAY AT TIMES.

Yeah, It could be the reason why he didnt answer me..But I just find it rude..

When I was younger I may have gotten jealous or even gone cold but to be honest these days if there is an issue I bring it up and try to work through it and if it doesn't pan out then at least I gave it a shot. Move on before someone gets really hurt and after that it's way to easy to start the old hate bit which is a waste of energy that could be put to good use elsewhere.

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Posted by CancVenusGem
Well I didnt do anything, He is the one going cold on me.. I accepted the fact that we were friends... I told him that he should stop playing games with me, and he said later sorry for making me believe that he had feelings for me.. And then I said fine lets be friends, cause I dont wanna loose his friendship.. He is a nice guy ( as a friend).. I sent him a message yesterday on facebook, something I thought was funny ( cause we joke alot about everything, and he is never serious with me ) and he didnt reply me,and I saw him commenting on facebook today..He has gone cold again ( he has done the same thing before) but lately more, I dont know why... And I didnt do anything...Maybe I did something that I dont know of..:S

I agree that it could just be a guy/libra thing, give him time to digest the information and let him get back to you on it and if it doesn't well at least you tried and we can vouch for it.

this is what I noticed. so are done. stopped seeing each other early this year but stayed in touch, phone, text and yes, fb. we both use it a lot. we have the same friends and since Libra and I parted I have been closer with another friend of ours but because we have more in common since we have kids. so we've been talking and hanging out as FRIENDS. nothing else and we've made it clear to each other that we see each other as just either sibblings or cousins. that said we have been doing more interaction via fb just because the hours he works and the hours I work. He's works crazy hours and our way of communication is online and or text. Our posts show that we have something, a good connection and have the comments that only we can understand. since then ex libra has kept a huge distance from me. I've sent him a post over the weekend one time to send him some well wishes about something and he never replied back and normally friend, lover, bf or not he would comment back quickly. That's just the way he is even after we parted. When Libra and I were going out he did question at times why I interact with our guy friend and I told him why, we have this and that in common, something that Libra doesn't with me. I said it nicely and didn't mean any harm to him but after reading about Libras on here I feel that may have made him think that its something else.

my gut tells me he's been cold because of this since it all happened the same time. any thoughts on this?


Now, prior Libra ex husband was different. He was a bit cold but also very rude with the tongue with comments and planned revenge when he got jealous. That ended quickly with divorce since I wouldn't put up with that.

well, libra is the sign of relationships, and we tend to think a lot about where we stand in other people's lives, how secure our position is. i've been jealous when friends have become closer friends with other people. it can be hard to deal with. people only have a certain amount of time and energy. i only need a bit of it, but if enough people become more important to my friends than i am, i basically am out, if someone can fill a spot that i can't, or fill a spot better than i can, i'll worry about being squeezed out. when i get jealous, it's almost always because i've become worried about this. i need to know my place. i need to know where i stand in society. i've got a lot of confidence in my ability to handle different situations, but if i don't know where i stand, how will i know how to act? it's a lot more complicated than "oh his car is nicer than mine, i'm so jealous" or "man, i wish i had a hermes purse collection like that rich person over there". i don't care about that stuff. or, rather, i care about it if i need it to succeed at the station i'm at in life. otherwise, i don't care.

like, here's a weird one...when i was about 13, i got my boobs. and i was like "jackpot. dudes are gonna love these." as i've got older, pretty much every guy i've liked has been into girls who were basically flat-chested. and the only ones who do like them are the misogynists who view women as dumb sluts that are just worth using and throwing aside. so i'm jealous of flat-chested girls. but it's not like i'm gonna get surgery to become flat-chested just so guys will see me as a person with feelings and intelligence and depth. if someone only liked me because i had a-cups, his stupidity and shallowness would be such a turnoff it would be a dealbreaker for me. so i'm still hoping to find a guy who likes me as i actually am, and i'd rather just be alone the rest of my life than settle for anything else.

that's how libras are with jealousy. we'll feel it. but if someone doesn't like us as we are, we don't want them. like i've said in dating threads before, the easiest way to charm a libra is to act like you think they're charming. we like people who like us. i don't even see it as being lazy. i think it's being stubborn.

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Posted by CancVenusGem
Well I didnt do anything, He is the one going cold on me.. I accepted the fact that we were friends... I told him that he should stop playing games with me, and he said later sorry for making me believe that he had feelings for me.. And then I said fine lets be friends, cause I dont wanna loose his friendship.. He is a nice guy ( as a friend).. I sent him a message yesterday on facebook, something I thought was funny ( cause we joke alot about everything, and he is never serious with me ) and he didnt reply me,and I saw him commenting on facebook today..He has gone cold again ( he has done the same thing before) but lately more, I dont know why... And I didnt do anything...Maybe I did something that I dont know of..:S

I agree that it could just be a guy/libra thing, give him time to digest the information and let him get back to you on it and if it doesn't well at least you tried and we can vouch for it.

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Well he did reply me today, it was kind of cold message though...I said i missed him for some days ago, he replied to that message and said that he misses "life",so he is gonna travel alot after the school..and asked me how is everything with me...I have a feeling that he is putting a stop to our flirtations, cause we flirt a lot, He doesnt want to lead me on I think, and give me wrong impression..I understand that, but the message was so cold..😢

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Posted by CancVenusGem
Yeah, It could be the reason why he didnt answer me..But I just find it rude..

CVG.. youu sound familiar, sort of..
Aren't you some russian chick ?

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Hehe, no... I am new to dxp.😛 But why did you think I was her?

I know, Miss Scorp, I read about ur story... Is the same with my libra, he wants me one day ( and says that I dont show him that I like him) Next day he says that he doesnt wanna get into a relationship...and says that he jokes about everything...nothing serious, He even told me that he loves me...(could u tell that to a person like a joke? ) Well, that is a mean joke than... He is not seeing anyone, hasnt been with anyone for 5 years...But I just wanna move on, but is so hard...I really like him, But i have had enough...I am slowly letting him go..And the main problem with me, i dont wanna show him that I am hurt, I will never show him that I cry for him..NEVER!

Yeah, I feel bad too,thats why I am always nice to him... It is so hard to be friends with a person that u have feelings for..We are slowly moving apart...Its so painful to watch...But its for the best..😢

Posted by CancVenusGem
...I am slowly letting him go..And the main problem with me, i dont wanna show him that I am hurt, I will never show him that I cry for him..NEVER!

Gah why the hell do you water signs do that all the time?? LOL You Cancer women are so sweet, just come out with it! It does more damage in the long run. No wonder you get all these posts on these boards from non-water signs that are like, "I never F-in' saw it coming". You let it build until BOOOOM!! RAGING TSUNAMI!! Haha =)

My ex was a Cancer, so I just had to give you a rough time =) For most of the relationship it was absolutely beautiful though - No one cuddles like a Cancerian woman! I also have trouble letting go of emotions. I didn't know why until my Libra love interest (who I am currently pursuing) charted me and we found out I have a Scorpio Moon and a Venus in Cancer - I just had to laugh. No wonder I've been pursuing water signs all my life....

In an effort to be more helpful > Libras play the field, a lot like Leos too. But you can be assured that once they choose you, they are LOCKED IN. Libras have to weigh every possible outcome when making a decision, and the worst thing to do to piss them off is throw in doubt to make them second guess it haha. The logic is, they've put so much thought, effort, and time into making the decision, they'll be damned if they go back on it. Indecisive yes, but I have to give them credit, they are thorough and good at what they do! In more ways than one baby! This libra is the best lover I've ever had!

Hmm, I dont really get jealous tbh, well definitely not significantly so.
Though, if I feel that someone is trying to make me jealous I will go cold, I dont like anyone to getting the satisfaction of their desired reaction out of me.