Libra Girls and Crushes

Do libra females ever forget guys they had crushes on for months and if the guy is really good looking? What will turn a libra girl off and will they always come back if the person gave mixed messages and was cold in the beginning but gave them an explanation with an apology?

hi , I am a Libra girl as for you first question YES we do forget the guys whom we have been crushing whether its a month months or even years. NO matter how good looking he might be.

Second question - what turns us off is mixed messages. I personally hate that. especially if I make a lot of trouble to get to know the guy. And he keeps sending me mixed signals its surely is a turn off. BUT once if the guy sees me not taking any interest in him. I will be very happy to revert back to him when he makes the effort to be straight forward and with a seriously good explanations. We are very soft and caring at heart. We are very diplomatic.

I have been told by some guys that I am not compatible with them especially Virgo men. But being a libra girl as we are diplomatic and can maintain balance. we surely can be compatible . Its just that as an individual we have to take a lot of effort into it.

I wouldn't exactly say we would forget about him, but we can sure —act?? like we have. It all depends on how much we truly liked the guy in the first place. If I had a crush on a guy for months, and when we finally start to kick he gives mix signals, I??ll just dip on him and find someone else to entertain me and treat me the way I deserve. I can accept good treatment and flattery from someone I'm not even romantically interested in. Can never have too many friends.lol. (social butterfly) Keep in mind if you were not her boyfriend, you were never truly her only option to begin with. She only chose you to be ahead of the pack because she likes you the most. Libra does not drop the other??s she socializing and dating until there is some type of exclusive solid ground established between the two of you. She has to be 100% sure she's not going to be the only one dropping people, and putting her all into it. She wants the same in return. Otherwise she will NOT put all her eggs in one basket. Libra??s simply love compliments and to be pampered, and treated as princess??s. If the guy starts acting distant, we already have a hard time making our mind up about you, so to send mixed signals and being distant will send her running in the opposite direction. Honestly, mixed signals are the quickest way to send me packing. I hate it, just as the other poster said.

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Do libra females ever forget guys they had crushes on for months and if the guy is really good looking? What will turn a libra girl off and will they always come back if the person gave mixed messages and was cold in the beginning but gave them an explanation with an apology?

Assuming the crush never evolves into anything more? Yes, it's quite easy to forget without thinking twice nor consciously erasing it from memory.
Looks aren't a main player in this equation; ultimately, physical attraction is not a powerful enough selling point to keep said crush lurking in our thoughts if nothing comes of it. Most likely, our attention will naturally direct itself elsewhere.

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SO true, I was seeing a pisces man not to long ago, I decided to drop him as I was feeling he was giving me mixed signals..bye bye fishy, now swim away

A few years ago I met amongst my circle of friends a Pisces, good looking and he knew it because all the girls threw themselves at him. We hit it off and there was and still is when I see him strong attraction...problem was and his words to me "I had met my match" and I said no "you have met yours"

Neither of us would give the other an inch, me because I didn't think he would ever be faithful as I was told by the other friends he's a heartbreaker and with him I just wasn't enough for him to want to chase me...

What would turn me off is if I saw that he was sleeping around and wasn't potential relationship material.

And yes, I'd give him another chance but It would take a lot for him to bring down the barriers.

But I heard you libras have a hard time letting go, especially of people you had strong feelings for.

A hard time letting go...well see that depends. If he shows no interest and acts like the feelings are not mutual I will let him go in a flash. Because that means the harmony and chemistry is no longer "balanced and equal" between us. This alone scares a libra away for sure.