Libra in Bed

Foreplay of Libra:

Libra can't decide whether they want it or not.

Libra definately wants it, just that he's a bit lazy.Or could it be linked to testosterone levels?**meany grin** hah

that was sarcasm and generalisation so please don't take it in another way thank you

libra's want it, just don't want to give it!

Hahaha, that is so funny and kind of true. Although i will give it if the person inspires me... Infact, i like being a slave.

I do not want to generalize, but this Libra girl I dated, hmmm, not so good. She did not enjoy oral, and she performed felatio like it was a duty or something....Not my style at all. In all honesty, I should have known it. We would go out, I would order drinks, and she always wanted only tea or sodas. I will never again date a girl who does not drink alcohol!

Hey there...Libra female here. Just to let you know I dont drink alcohol and would rock your world if that is what i wanted to do...Libra women as a whole are extremely sexual and sensual. Your lady friend might have some issues that have nothing to do with her sign. Dont know one Libra that is not into sensuality and sex...that is just our thing...good luck.

Yes, we make sex and erotic experience, but as i said before, if i am not inspired, i will not go there. Sometimes i think the only place i am good in bed in is inside my own head... I am a self-confessed sexual dud and i am proud of it 😉 I am hopeless, you would not want to come near me...

Ummm...The two I have been with were a bit technical.....

Yes, I have to agree on the "sensual" and "sexual" part. That's why I was so disapointed. I mean, this girl was just so sexy. The way she dresed, the way she carried herself, the way she touched me.....and then we had sex, and nada, zilch, zero........

Nevermind, that she was after me for a really long time.

Now, I know(or at least I hope) that not all Libra's are like that, that's why I said that " I do not want to generalize"

In case that you are wondering, Virgo/Leo cusp here.

I WISH i was technical... does anybody have a manual? A leo/virgo cusp, you should have loved the technicalities.

Typical libra, looks good on the outside, but scratch the surface...

Being a Libra Women I can agree with some of the things sexy* and all. Most of my freinds think I think way too much about sex and oral sex OMG I can't give enough!!!! Of course when I am in a relationship. But my problem seems to be taking a guy and making him GOD in my mind. The "Idealistic" part of the Libra I guess. any other Lirba girls or guys have that prob?

blkraven2u

First I agree with the oral...can't give enough!

Second...my boss at work (libra female) idolizes men too! She's always like well you HAVE to have a man in your life...you HAVE to find a man...and when she talks to ANY man...she gets this ridiculous ethereal fairy sound to her voice like they are the masters of the universe. She spoils the men here like they are babies!

Personally it makes me want to puke but to each his/her own!

CL

blkravn2,

Hi there, I totally agree with the oral part. Well all the parts for me are good..LOL. As for making the guy a god, I can so relate to that. I mean I dont make all men gods, just the one I choose for mine. When I choose to get into a relationship with a man, I give him all of me and want him to feel special. My problem is that sometimes I loose myself in the relationship without knowing it or needing too.

cancerlady,
well I am not that annoying!!!! Hope not anyway, but it seems that customer service is my field because I flirt with just about everyone who walks into my office!! I can't help myself sometimes it just happens. No high pitched voices though.

sunshine101562,

I am 101475 he he he. I have found myself over and over hiding me for a relationship. I almost become the other person. No more of that though, I will give into the caring sensual part of it but I wont lose myself in someone else like that. I always ruins the relationship anyways because the 'other side' of libra appears. The one that can not be suppressed. I also found that a no no for a Libra is Cancer and Aquirius. I have found that Libra and Gemini are life long conections.

My boyfriend is a Libra and he knows exactly how to please me. Libra's are masters at the art of fourplay and they are oh so good at it. Plus...they're open to new things. That's a plus. 🙂 I love the way Libra's seduce.

Hey gemgem, what is up? You guys got back together? I am interested in what happened.

Guess what? The new guy I mentioned once on Cap board...I found he was a Libra!!! I cannot believe this. We hit off well and it seems that we have a lot in common. Well, my rising is Libra so maybe that is why. Will see where it goes. Other guys still contact me but at this point I am keeping Scorpio and this new Libra guy.

Let me know how you are doing🙂

Peachcow,

Go for the libran. He will stimulate you on every level, not just the physical.

Thanks green_eyes for your input. Are you Libran yourself? M or F? I have never dated a Libran guy - have never met ones that interested me enough - I don't think it had to do with the sign. So this is a new experience.

I am Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Libra rising, Aries venus, and Aqua mars. My rising and mars are probably ones that are making a connection with this new guy😉 He is 5 year younger than me. Do they do well with an older woman? I normally date older guys so again this is new. I have noticed we seem to think alike. It is very interesting since his chart and mine is so different.

Any tip for dating and getting to know a Libran guy?

"But my problem seems to be taking a guy and making him GOD in my mind. The "Idealistic" part of the Libra I guess. any other Lirba girls or guys have that prob?"

Me too,i tend to "idealize" the beloved one too much...

"But my problem seems to be taking a guy and making him GOD in my mind. The "Idealistic" part of the Libra I guess. any other Lirba girls or guys have that prob?"

Me too,i tend to "idealize" the beloved one too much...

Wanna please a libra guy? I am one,so i think i can help you...
You should dress in an elegant (non vulgar) way,with a little makeup,especially on the eyes,i love that.Be gentle,smile often,try to flirt with the guy with the eyes,smiles etc and have a good conversation.Never be vulgar.

Interesting discussion.

First Libras in bed.

Little known astrological fact .... Libra, if unlocked properly, has the highest sex drive in the zodiac. Libras are ALL about pleasure and ALL about pleasing their lover.

It could be that your friend could not see her body or was bored. We are also narcissistic to a fault. But by the sounds of it, she sounds like she was bored. Virgo is not generally a good match for Libra in the sack. They do not get each other in that way.

I have found myself over and over hiding me for a relationship. I almost become the other person

Libras are sometimes described as the chameleon of the zodiac. Because we are naturally emphatic, often thought to be the most emphatic of all signs, we sometimes smooth over any differences and imbalances by changing ourselves. Usually we are very interested in everything anyway, we simply can't decide what we like best, so it is very easy to be to be very adaptable.

In someways, this is why other air signs or fire signs are good matches for us. Our very natures are so similar to other air signs there are few imbalances to overcome. Air feeds fire and perhaps, because the two stimulate each other, there is no need overcome these imbalances. Just pure speculation on my part though.

Being a Libra woman, I'm extremely sexual, sensual, and ANYTHING BUT LAZY! Where does this idea come from? I know 5 other Libra women and all of them are successful, hard-working, and self-starters. Libra is a Cardinal sign. Now, I will go and push myself until I need to rest for a couple of days, but lazy, NEVER!

Chemisty is a must for me to be passionate and giving or it is mechanical.

I believe a lot has to do with where your Asc.,Venus & Mars are. Since my Mars is in Sag., I love marathon sex.

"Virgo is not generally a good match for Libra in the sack. They do not get each other in that way."


Well with that post had to put in my experience. The best sex relationship I ever had was with a Virgo. Sex was at a totally different level with a Virgo, the most sensual people i have ever known. Loved it...would do it again...and again..lol.

Twizzie,

Im with you...In the sack or out, we Libra's are anything but lazy! I also love a good sex marathon. LOL

Sunshine...

Really? Everything I have read and experienced says the opposite.

I just ended a three year relationship with a virgo and you could set your watch by when, where, how. He was routine at its best. Mind you he was virgo with virgo rising but we did have a very neat and tidy home together. Our quiet times together were the best. There just wasn't a heck of a lot of passionate sex going on.

From what I have read that is pretty typical.

Hi Little Sparrow,

"with a virgo and you could set your watch by when, where, how. He was routine at its best."

I tell you, for me, it was never routine. He was the most sexual man I have ever known. We explored, expermented, and had a passion that was scary. We were together for 11yrs with a big break inbetween, in all that time it never changed. I still fantasize about him. The last time we talked the electricity is still there, think it always will be. He had a Scorpio rising, that might be the reason. Scorpios are known for the great sex. Thank god he didnt act like one...lol

Sunshine...

This current Taurus I am seeing is the only guy that has truly made my knees wobble. Like buckle underneath me. Just thinking about it. Oh Lordy!
As for myself, it takes time, lots of time and then look out! I think of myself as probably a big disappointment on a first encounter. I need time and patience. Is this my subconscious way of sorting out the worthy? I don't know.

Libras are awesome

Gem*two,

Why yes we are! *W* Thank you...

Sunshine...

I am rotten the first time around, I get the "jitters" really bad. Given some time to relax and woo hoo, there is nothing that can hold me back. So I need a patient type, someone who isn't expecting to be blown away right off the bat.

I can't relate to the "need a man" part of the Libran character, I have heard about that, but I don't fit that bill. I am way too independent and can go without for years till I find that right one. Then yes, he is a god to me. I have to stop that over-idolizing.
Noone can live up to that.

Male Libra in bed with Scorpio female.. how does it feel ?

My best friend is a Scorp female. She said the libra male was the best she ever had. She became physically addicted to him.

Air signs are all about technique. Scorps have passion, but their passion over shadows their technique. They kind of loose focus on the how and just do.

Hope that is helpful!

Thanks alot little_sparrow 🙂 I really wanted to know if my boy would be able to satisfy me, we haven't slept together yet so I just wanted to know thanks again

Suave suave suave....I hate having someone start trying to tear my clothes off..and the three "L's" Location, location location, sorry, never in the back seat of a car, humpf!

I guess as you get oldeerrrrr, the whole ambiance starts to mean more. The room, how it's decorated, the setting, weather, all that. It makes the whole experience memorable.

Having a nice dinner out or going somewhere nice at the start of the evening and then....

I don't know, I guess turning it in to an experience instead of just "bangin' boots" is the way I prefer.

You can beg to differ all you like Dancing Bread. 🙂

I have kissed three Scorps .... all three were the worse kissers, ever. I messed around a little more with the other two ... it didn't go very far, but that was because their complete lack of technique did nothing for me ... or they ummm ... gave in too quickly. Very disappointing.

The Gemini and Aquarius were ... unbelievable.

I will further put this theory to test tonight. I have a date. I *think* he is an air sign. We. Shall. See.

One was 33, one was 28, the other was 25. I never "slept" with any of them ... just messed around a little. I think I posted the infamous coat story here somewhere ... that was the 33 yr old.

Perhaps, I just have bad luck.

For the record, I may be hot but never slutty. 😉

Oh wait ... the 25 yr old was 27. Sorry my mistake.

I live in the big city. Men don't generally marry until they are 35+. Most marry around 40.

:-/

whooopsie! My appologizes. I am thinking about other things at the moment. Very IMPORTANT things.

My mind is on what lotion to use after my bath, if I should wear my hair straight or curly, should I dress with an artistic flair or suggestive yet conservative. All these decisions!

In otherwords, I am distracted by planning for this date. I hope I can remember what he looks like. It would be very embarrassing if I went up to the wrong guy. lol!

Thanks DB. I think it will be fine too. I usually love talking to people and finding out about then ... and if he is rude, I never have to see him again.

Which do you prefer? Banana or chocolate scent?

lol!

That is okay. I was just chasing you through the boards holding up lotion saying which smells better. lmao!

You are right. I don't think he is ready or worthy of the chocolate at this point. Banana is the best choice.

(LiBrat - the chocolate lotion is made with real chocolate. It is amazing.)

thanks for the help yesterday Bread my dear!

The banana lotion was perfect. He kept saying how wonderful I smelt. BTW he is a leo and looks nothing like how I remembered him.

He kept hugging me and smelling me.

He is Leo and perhaps the best kisser I have encountered!

He is a lot younger than I thought he was. I thought he was 35-37 ... he is 28. He thought I was a lot younger than I am. He thought I was 27 ... I am 31. That was an awkward 5 minutes.

I am not sure how I feel about him. I am definetly not over the moon but he seems like a decent guy. I imagine we will get together this week.

(LiBrat - the chocolate lotion is made with real chocolate. It is amazing.)

I like coconut. The Body shop has this nut lotion of some sort that I'd rather eat because it smells so good.

So what? is a second date in order or no?

For me, if the guy was hugging and smelling me on the first date I don't think I'd like that too much.

So he's younger than you....hummmmm interesting. How did you meet him?

Oh yes. We will be going on another date. I would like to get to know him a bit better and see if it is workable. First dates are usually a little weird. He is planning another date for Friday.

I met him a few weeks ago. I went to one of my favorite martini/shui bars. He was behind me at the bar and we started chatting. His bosses bought me a drink. 🙂

He is younger than me. He seems a little quiet and a bit of a homebody so he might not be a suitable long term partner for me. He wants to *take things slow* which I have zero problem with because although I like him, I plan on keeping my options open.

I had no problem with being smelled and hugged. I like knowing I am attractive and they can't get enough. 😉

{Yes Bling ... I am a tease. (hangs head in shame .... for a moment.)}

The Seven Year Scorp wanted to get together on Saturday night, but predictably, has bailed once again. *yawn* He actually tried to tie up my Saturday night with MSN. Nooooh Honeypie ... you actually have to step up to the plate and we actually have to go out.

Can you imagine asking a girl to sit home on a Saturday night so you can chat with her on messanger? The nerve.

It is a good laugh though.

>like those pink stress head squeezy things for businessmen with high blood pressure, but not butter....*

lol!

The funding for the Libra Harem Lives!

But I concur. You should have gone with Bling Crosby.

There, there .... Mr. Bling.

It is a very tough life, but the pay off is certainly worth it. Plus the lower maintence signs just don't have that je ne sai pas!

And just think of it, the fame, the fortune, the Libras. And just to help you out, I am going to be moving in with a Libra girl June 1st. Our apartment has already been deemed *Hottie House* from our male colleagues and friends.

The Libra Harem has begun.