Libra/Libra Combo: Nuts or Perfection?

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the_constant_libra_gal
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16 Years

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So, the question really is I don't know how to tell if he is really "into me" or if he just wants to really be friends. I can't tell if he's just scared that I got to him so much, emotionally and physically, because I distracted him from other things he thinks are important or if he just doesn't feel as strongly about me as I do about him. He has talked about marriage and flying to vegas and eloping with me in the same sentence, but it was an example of something else. You know how libras can be: they will do anything to keep things from getting too confrontational or sometimes even too serious, especially the males. It's frustrating for the females, but at the same time, I can understand, being of the same mindset. Like I said, he will make comments about, and focus on, my appearance being attractive to him, but is not necessarily serious about wanting to do anything about it. My biggest problem, besides the whole indecisiveness and confusion, is that whenever I'm around him, all I can think about is sex. His hands all over me, kissing me, and all that entails. I can't think about hardly anything else. Sometimes I don't care about if we're meant to be, all I want is his body and the confidence that he could take me to heights I didn't know I could climb. So, any advice about what he's thinking and maybe how I could get him back? And maybe throw in some advice about how to get that body where it belongs, right next to mine, libra style !
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nicodemus
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Oh just be patient. Spend time around other people at more intimate parties with mutual friends. Confide in him, talk openly about your opinions and your reasons for your opinions weather the topic is political, personal, relationships, work, society, religion it doesn't matter. You go with your intuition and your desire, he goes with his mind and what he rationalizes.

If he is allowed to sit back and watch you, especially around other people his desires will start to surface. Libra guys enjoy watching and get turned on by Libra girls poise and grace and it requires external engagement to be able to see.

Libra is the sign of social poise and diplomacy but with the Women it comes out more strongly in groups, with the Men it comes out more strongly one on one. This is why your coming around sexually to him first if your spending most of your time where the two of you is the predominant focus.

What you want is bound to happen....it's not that it will grow stronger on his end, though it will it is more that he will start to stop trying to control and suppress it. It is also going to have to be a mutual initiation physically, but your going to have to initiate it with body language and signals. We typically wait for the subconscious behavioral green light before we go.
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nicodemus
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A lot. We are not light hearted lovers. Those who have received a Libras full attention and expression in the bedroom know.....may be slow to start (reading the green lights) but were freight trains once we do.

For us sex is more emotional communication than it is physical pleasure. We have to know your sure you want it because your about to get more than your bargained for.

Please keep in mind this is only true for people we really like and the sex hasn't come yet. What some of us do when drunk and can't resist does not apply.

Oh and like leos ever tire of giving the green light lol.
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lighthearted-leo
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17 Years

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Freight Trains..Are you sure you don't mean rollercoasters— LOL

I'm only teasing..Me and Libra got off on the wrong start..He was rebounding and lied about the length of time he was separated for..I fell for it and got burned..End of story..

He has apologized for lying and I have forgiven him..I asked him why he lied and all he said was would you have dated me knowing the truth..The bastard LOL!! He also said that I got caught in the crossfire and that he did not mean to hurt me and that he loves me, but not to take it the wrong way...

This Libra was a rollercoaster, maybe i'll find me a frieght train!!
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brianafay
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19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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"brianafay, hey I have noticed we have some similar placements in are charts. Mars and Pluto and Scorpio and are Sun and than your rising is Scorpio mine is cancer. Neat"

Yay 🙂
Do you surround yourself with other saggies too?


"What happened with my libra? ...I don't know. Lol"

Yeah they do that. Whatevs. He'll be back and he'll feel dumb when you pretend you hardly remember him.
Chances are he won't be the last libra you get involved with though. You'll learn to love them....idiots. 🙂