Libra male - pisces female confusing scenario

Hi All,

I hvnt been here for a long long time and this question is regarding my friend/colleague who just got dumped by his pisces gf.

Story in details. Pisces gal met my colleague a year and half ago after she got dumped by her boyfriend. She started dating my libra colleague coz "he was looking like her ex" according to the pisces gal. All these time, she kept in touch with the ex who dumped her and for abt 14 months or so, her ex was trying to win her back. And she was occasionally meeting up with him and keeping in touch. Which obviously pissed my colleague and some arguments happened inbteween and last month she decided to dump him to be with her ex. She moved out of his place and started living with her ex.

Now story gets a bit more interesting. She said she wanna be friends with the libra guy she just dumped. She keep coming back to his place and clean up the place for him and do laundry for him. She tell him stories on how badly she is treating her current bf (who was her ex) and all those instances where she dont treat him the same as she had treated my colleague the libra guy. now yesterday she pulled out a much more dramatic statement and asked him "if he ever imagined that everything she has done is only to take revenge on her ex for dumping her 18 months or so back" which basically confused my friend and confuses me as well.

Possibly she is bullshitting him to get back with him. But then he have been open to get her back since she dumped him and I dont see any need for her to bring in the drama. May be she wanted to take revenge on her ex. But then in the process, she has hurt my colleague real bad and he spend a month recovering from the whole incident.

Any pisces insight into this dynamics would be much appreciated.

thankss in advance

Hi All,

I hvnt been here for a long long time and this question is regarding my friend/colleague who just got dumped by his pisces gf.

Story in details. Pisces gal met my colleague a year and half ago after she got dumped by her boyfriend. She started dating my libra colleague coz "he was looking like her ex" according to the pisces gal. All these time, she kept in touch with the ex who dumped her and for abt 14 months or so, her ex was trying to win her back. And she was occasionally meeting up with him and keeping in touch. Which obviously pissed my colleague and some arguments happened inbteween and last month she decided to dump him to be with her ex. She moved out of his place and started living with her ex.

Now story gets a bit more interesting. She said she wanna be friends with the libra guy she just dumped. She keep coming back to his place and clean up the place for him and do laundry for him. She tell him stories on how badly she is treating her current bf (who was her ex) and all those instances where she dont treat him the same as she had treated my colleague the libra guy. now yesterday she pulled out a much more dramatic statement and asked him "if he ever imagined that everything she has done is only to take revenge on her ex for dumping her 18 months or so back" which basically confused my friend and confuses me as well.

Possibly she is bullshitting him to get back with him. But then he have been open to get her back since she dumped him and I dont see any need for her to bring in the drama. May be she wanted to take revenge on her ex. But then in the process, she has hurt my colleague real bad and he spend a month recovering from the whole incident.

Any Pisces insight into this dynamics would be much appreciated.

thankss in advance

You should've posted this in the Pisces forum

Pfft. She's being a wishy washy Pisces. Big surprise there. The guy needs to totally forget about her, tell her to take a hike, and move on. She's nothing but a drama bitch.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
You should've posted this in the Pisces forum

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thelibran has been on this site for years, he knows and respects advice from fellow leebs, that's why he's here!

Firstly she obviously had never gotten over her ex whether it's for revenge or whatever. What an idiot, she cuts off her nose despite her face risking the happiness of her current relationship for payback! She will lose both men in the end and will not realise this until she has lost the one she was probably happy with. Hope your friend is strong enough to kiss her of now!!! Wouldn't want to make the mistake of marrying or having children with this gal!

Posted by sweethearts
Hope your friend is strong enough to kiss her of now!!! Wouldn't want to make the mistake of marrying or having children with this gal!

This!!

Tell him to clean his own house and do his own laundry and kick this chick to the curb. She made her choice, he really needs to stop letting her drag him through her baggage. If she really did just get back with the ex for revenge than this woman is a whole'nother level and he definitely needs to get away from her. No matter what her "real" reason was, she chose to end it to go back to her ex... let him have her.

Hey LS,

Nice to see you popping back from time to time too.

Hope all is well in your camp 🙂

thanks everyone. i told him pretty much the same you guys mentioned. no point posting it in pisces forum since they dont know what they talking about. its almost impossible to find a sensible answer from pisces people sitting high up in the clouds. waiting to see how it plays out. :🙂

Posted by sweethearts
Hey LS,

Nice to see you popping back from time to time too.

Hope all is well in your camp 🙂

😄

Me and the kids are good, how are you all doing?

I read a lot more than I post, usually by time I get to a thread you guys done said everything I would have.

Me too these days....too much crap going down here with all the kids squabbling over being blocked!! Crazy, it's hard to find a thread where they aren't bickering in.

All great over here in the land of Oz. New project on the horizon and a whole new life 🙂

What is the horoscope of the exbf?