Libra male says he is falling for me.

I've been friends with this Libra male for about 3 years, all of which I have been in love with him tho he has had a girlfriend. About 9 months ago they broke up, something that had been coming for a long time and in the end he just couldn't take it anymore. About 1 month ago he told me he was falling for me and has started treating me totally different from how is used to. He is sweet, kind and so caring, text me all the time etc. I'm holding out on him tho as I know he used to cheat on his ex and I don't trust him, he told me he will do whateer it takes to change my mind and to show me he is not the same guy.
He is just so different from the old guy ive known for 3 years im scared he is going to hurt me and is only telling me he likes me because he is lonely.

Any advice would be great

Thanks everyone

It's too quick, just be careful

Libras tend to go for comfort when they are hurting

And libras leave tend to leave just as quick as they came

Actions speak louder than words if his words don't match the actions he's feeding on your emotions

Libras won't do the work if he doesn't have to, plus he cheated on his girlfriend, that's going to be hard to trust a man that can't keep it in his pants

Omg....lol

libras are such good friend
why would you want to lose that?

Pfft, don't believe it. He's going for comfort. Anyone who jumps into another relationship so shortly after a long term relationship is one to watch out for.

To top it off, he's a past cheater. I dunno how you could have fallen for an individual like that when you knew he cheated on his girlfriend. That's a deal breaker for most sane people, tbh.

It's one thing if they admit it later on down the road after your relationship was established, but you knew before any of that and he did it during the 3 years you were getting all moo eyed over him.

Find someone better. He's got to get through his post break up period AND deal with the fact that he's a fuck up. You don't drag that shit into new relationships. You fix it before you proceed with someone else.

Posted by gem88girl
I am the girl on the side, when he is going home to his girlfriend every night. I know for a fact he has a gf but he says he doesn't. I think in his head they aren't together anymore but he is just to scared to leave her, I think he has the mind set of it's best to have someone than no one at all, I have told him ages ago that I don't trust him and that is why it would never work between us.

^^^^This

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Pfft, don't believe it. He's going for comfort. Anyone who jumps into another relationship so shortly after a long term relationship is one to watch out for.

To top it off, he's a past cheater. I dunno how you could have fallen for an individual like that when you knew he cheated on his girlfriend. That's a deal breaker for most sane people, tbh.

It's one thing if they admit it later on down the road after your relationship was established, but you knew before any of that and he did it during the 3 years you were getting all moo eyed over him.

Find someone better. He's got to get through his post break up period AND deal with the fact that he's a fuck up. You don't drag that shit into new relationships. You fix it before you proceed with someone else.

Yep! This!