How to get a Libra man decide

you have been in a relationship for years... then when are you gonna proposed to your girl? what motivates you to do that? what are you looking for and waiting for?

Posted by crabberries
you have been in a relationship for years... then when are you gonna proposed to your girl? what motivates you to do that? what are you looking for and waiting for?

I posted something about this last week. Youll be waiting a long time LOL! Im surprised whoever it was even got him to commit.

Uh, this has nothing to do with him being a Libra. It has everything to do with a man that DOESN'T want to marry you. If he did, he would have by now.

The question is why are you sitting around waiting for him to decide? Talk about wasting time...

You can't really make someone want to get married. You can do the old ultimatum thing but there's no avoiding resentment there. He could just not want to get married, not really care about marriage or see any reason for it, be against it for moral reasons...or the most likely reason, he's comfortable and lazy. What did he say when you talked about it? I assume you know his views on marriage if you've been with him that long but it doesn't seem like he's given you a real reason.
Whatever you do, please ignore the jaded bitter people on here who will tell you to leave based on 3 sentences about your life. lol

Just flat out ask him, LOOK DUDE DO U WANT TO GET MARRIED OR WHAT.?

But if the man already has views on marriage like someone pointed out before, you really cpshouldnt have any complaints, if that's what u want and that's not what he wants, you need to decide if this is how you want to spend your life

No one can help u do that but you

Posted by ANRivas
You can't really make someone want to get married. You can do the old ultimatum thing but there's no avoiding resentment there. He could just not want to get married, not really care about marriage or see any reason for it, be against it for moral reasons...or the most likely reason, he's comfortable and lazy. What did he say when you talked about it? I assume you know his views on marriage if you've been with him that long but it doesn't seem like he's given you a real reason.
Whatever you do, please ignore the jaded bitter people on here who will tell you to leave based on 3 sentences about your life. lol

The pussy side of your air sign is showing.

Posted by TaurusNikki
Just flat out ask him, LOOK DUDE DO U WANT TO GET MARRIED OR WHAT.?

But if the man already has views on marriage like someone pointed out before, you really cpshouldnt have any complaints, if that's what u want and that's not what he wants, you need to decide if this is how you want to spend your life

No one can help u do that but you

Right?

I'll never understand why women whine and complain about not being proposed to. Either he's not a fan of the idea or he just doesn't want to marry YOU, but is happy with everything being all non married and crap. If a guy wants to get married, he fricken will. Seeking "advice" about how to get someone to marry you is kinda ridiculous and highly manipulative.

...to which it leads one to believe you aren't marriage material yet.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by ANRivas
You can't really make someone want to get married. You can do the old ultimatum thing but there's no avoiding resentment there. He could just not want to get married, not really care about marriage or see any reason for it, be against it for moral reasons...or the most likely reason, he's comfortable and lazy. What did he say when you talked about it? I assume you know his views on marriage if you've been with him that long but it doesn't seem like he's given you a real reason.
Whatever you do, please ignore the jaded bitter people on here who will tell you to leave based on 3 sentences about your life. lol

The pussy side of your air sign is showing.

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LOL did i need to add your name or something? Angry bitch sheesh

No, but you have directed similar comments previously on several occasions and it was no coincidence that you said this right after I commented.

Typical Libran tactic- playing dumb. 🙂

Posted by tiziani
Surely it'd be simple to keep that as a conversation between you both. You can just ask him what his plans are.

yep, simple and straight forward

Posted by rockyroadicecream
No, but you have directed similar comments previously on several occasions and it was no coincidence that you said this right after I commented.

Typical Libran tactic- playing dumb. 🙂

when was i playing dumb?? Obviously that's not a coincidence. your advice has the same tone on most of the threads i see, so of course i would say the same thing, and i made a comment about you and people like you, no playing dumb there either... But when i posted, i was talking to the OP, not trying to start a conversation with you.

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Posted by narbil
Who's to say he wants to get married at all.. Doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't want her..

What's the backstory?

Exactly. How many years? 2, 3? And then she's over on the aqua board complaining that some aqua guy is boring her with his dick pics. So what's REALLY goin on—?

2 sides to every story.

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Seriously.

This is why I get so short with some of these chicks. Their crazy, complicated stories are usually that way because the chick is creating the crazy and complicated.

Dick pics? That bs is hilarious. I'm gonna go check it out. People are freaking strange. :/

I noticed this with many Libra men... including that is my friends BFs who happened to be a Libra.One of my friend is very fantastic Leo. Sweet talented and workaholic. And I also read about Libras who really confused and hard to decide including marriage thing., and the girl suffer. Maybe the girl must initiate? This is my friends issue

5 years in a relationship

And I've known Libra men who jump into marriage with no qualms.

This isn't sign specific. It's man specific and what he wants to do in regard to marriage.