Libra man said he will fix it with gem

Hello everybody,

Ive read a lot about the relationship about Gem women and libra men here to suspect we are all having a relationship with the same Libra man (lol) The same disappearing act and emotional rollercoaster. Ive declared here before that I will break off with him after him being too busy too see me for 3 weeks and hasnt contact me much or replying to my texts or phonecalls most of the time.

But I decided to put it on hold when he ask me to go out with him and celebrate his birthday. I mean im not mean enough to break off with him on his birthday, I thought it can wait. Well we had a blast, he was the charming Libra he is and introduced me as his gf to all his friends. He even took me out of the party and told me he loves me for the first time and he told me he loves me so many times until morning. Im really confused but just went along with it because I really wanted to hear it from him. It felt surreal. He said, "Do you have any idea how much I love you? Too much but dont tell my friends or theyll think Im gay".

Anyway, went to his place later and I found a woman's hairpin on his coffee table. I asked him whose pin is it and he said it is one of his mates who is a girl and who happens to came over last saturday afternoon when he called her and they just watched south park. I mean ....are you fcking kidding me? A girl just came over all by herself and they just watched tv? all the while he said he was too busy to meet me? He insisted that they didnt ahve sex but the fact that he failed to see me but could spend an entire evening with her is too much for me. I told him he doesnt need a gf. That we should break up and he could call as many women to his apartment and i wouldnt be bothered.

All the while he kept begging me he doesnt wanna break up with me and that he will fix it. I even say tears in his eyes...I donnno why I relented in the morning and just decided to see if he would change. He was communicative for a day after then he stopped calling me again. I called him after two days he didnt pick up and didnt call/text me back for for days and then he text me like nothign happen. Im so tired of this..i ignored his text..and today he is texting me again. Do you guys honestly thin he actually likes me at all?

Thx QLibraMale I guess I needed someone to tell me that because sometimes I wonder if Im misunderstanding him but Ive forgiven him a lot. I find it unfair that he contacts me when he feels like it but when I needed him he would make excuses or not take the phone call at all. I see a lot of women who has a relationship with Libra men has to be patient and go along with. I find this very unfair.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
To be fair... Libra Males do have a lot of female friends, and once committed they would never stray or cheat... (well, the mature ones dont)

we are both 28 but I guess youre right he is still not matured enough to have an honest relationship. I guess what they say abt Libra's that they love being in love and in a relationship and hate to lose it but they dont give a treetrunk abt the person that they are having the relationship with.

Im a Gemini and I dont get jealous easily. I know he has some female friends and it doesnt bother me but the fact that he called one particular girl to come to his apartment to watch tv with him seems a bit shady and why would she leave her haipin there? all the while he told me he was too busy to see me....

all the while im watching tv alone feeling soo lonely and not cared for by my bf. He is watching tv with another girl...isnt this also cheating?

aww...thx for the invisible smiley. I really wonder if Libra men are really worth the trouble and heartache they give....

lol. I'ma libra, and girl i say run for the hills. He's not in it like you. And you must have something he doesn't want any other guy to have thats why he's holding on so tuff. You've got to hit him where it hurts. Give this libra a taste of his own medicine. we libra's need it. Im sorry but if you continue to show him how weak you are for him, he will only get worse. All libra's mature or not, love a good chase. But at the same time we like to know the person is interested, so it's important not to be completly cold, or we will surely dissapear on your ass. With Libra's give them just enough but never too much. If he dissapears, and gets distant do it right back. And if i were you i'd date other's, i wouldnt cross the line but i'd go out to get my mind off the guy. Libra's dont believe in smoothering their mate, but it's strange because when were in a relationship, as long as our partner doesn't mind, if we REALLY like them, we wouldn't mind being around them pretty much all the time. Like with my ex, he was a sagg, and because we both enjoy our freedom moments and respected one another's space, we loved LOVED to be around one another, almost as much as possible. And when we couldn't see each other we talked on the phone, and when we couldn't phone we texted, if we needed space, the other knew it off rip, we just clicked like that. Libra's love to be in love with someone thats confident enough to stand alone, but sweet enough to express emotions, just dont go overboard =)

Posted by TasteOfChaos
HEY! WTF happened to my smily face after "I love Geminis"

Godammit DXP!

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@ Taur/Gem - Drop him. He'll likely be back...may be days, weeks, months, even a year. If & when that happens, have him run into a brick wall. 🙂

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Posted by TasteOfChaos
HEY! WTF happened to my smily face after "I love Geminis"

Godammit DXP!

😄 😄 😄



@ Taur/Gem - Drop him. He'll likely be back...may be days, weeks, months, even a year. If & when that happens, have him run into a brick wall. 🙂

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She aint lying, mines just popped back up into my life 3 days ago. All i did was wish the guy a happy b-day. I guess he felt special because it's been almost a year now since we spoke and i still remembered and cared enough to tell him happy b-day. He has a gf though, the same girl he claimed he had problems with when we met. Apparently, she naggs him about spending time, and no matter what he does she cry's and moans and its never enough which is why they broke in the first place. Then he met me, we hung out had fun with no strings attached because he was unsure about what to do about her. In the end we stopped talking and he decided to give her another chance, and they're having the same problems they did when he and i first met. When i was with him, i will admitt that he was very busy but the fact that he MADE time for me, made me feel special, so i was happy when i could be with him we had alot of fun and i never pressured him which made him want to make even more time. But i guess since they had history he thought she deserved another shot. But, right now we're just friends, but the undying attraction is still there, and it's strong. It makes me want to avoid being around him, because i want to respect his relationship.

thx for your kind supports everyone

pinklibra,

Id say its easy to have a casual relationship with a libra guy but it becomes hell when you become his gf. My sympathy for his current gf

updates:

As you all know he ignored me for a whole week after then started texting me like nothing happened. Ive had it with him and ignored 2 texts from him then a day later i started missing him so much I made a great mistake and text him [I miss you, stud muffin x] (I know , facepalmmmmmm) well he didnt reply it then after a day which is today he called me, I had a brain lock and just stared at the phone. Ive sworn to myself that i wont take his phone call. He left a voicemail saying he just wanted to hear my voice.

Then, an hour later he texted me, "and Im sorry I didnt say how much i miss you. think per secs and your in the right area (heart) xx"
*sighes I hate it when he comes back all sweet and gooey after ignoring and treating me like syht. Im gonna prevail ...and continue ignoring him until I forget him completely. I am doing the right thing right? I really need your opinions...and thx again for teh supports. I read the messages here again and again to make me strong. Hugs

* Too much but dont tell my friends or theyll think Im gay".

I would dump him for this bit of stupidity right her. GAWD!!! That pisses me off on so many levels. Sum up: He is a little boy not a man.