Libra men... should I make the first move?

Hi,

I've been spending quite a bit of time with a collegue of mine... out of work hours!

I get the impression that he likes me, others have noticed this too. And he took me out for dinner on my Birthday.. he treats me so well, and I'm starting to get feelings for him.

The thing is, although he always tells me I look great and gives me all this attention, he has yet to make a move! I'm not sure if this is because we have known each other for a few years and he's taking it slowly, or if I'm not letting-on enough that I like him, or even myself and my freinds have read it wrong and he sees me as a friend... although I honestly don't think it's that last one!

So, should I make it more obvious that I'm interested, or wait as he could be just taking it slow... or.. make the firt move myself?
Never made the first move before, and don't want to scare him off, how would Libras tend to handle this?

Any advise would be appreciated... thanks! :-)

go for it gurl!!!

Ofcourse you should make the first move. We libran guys are half confused over a girl if she is interested in him emotionally or sexually and we really hate the idea of getting rejected by a close friend. So be bold and ask him openly if he likes you. He will sure be a bit proud to accept it but wait. You will find him struggling to find a right diplomatic answer when he is really interested. If he is not interested, he will openly admit it. So go for it.

After a certain point.. are libra men more open about their feelings? Or do they forever hold back?

100% leo lady here. I have the same problem....I'm so into this new libra guy I'm dating....he takes me to dinner, wined and dined me even lavished me this Valentine's Day....so i think he's into me...but if I want a kiss, hold hands, or more....I always have to initiate the move....how can I tell if he's serious about me...or am I just another dating girl....any advice libra guys.

You can actually turn the tables a little bit just by mentioning it a bit. Tell him that it makes you feel a little confused or insecure that you are always having to initiate physical contact. That you would really like him to take the lead every once in a while. He might seem a little flustered by it, but he will be thinking about it bothering you for the same reason he does it in the first place. If you are an easy to read person a Libras agressiveness picks up pretty quick but we will always be the type to meet you half way.

Are level of passion increases exponentiall with how much we can tell we are desired.

A normal guy WILL take the initiative. Period. Since you've known him for awhile, he might like you VERY much and fear losing you. I still believe in the adage, "If he's into you, he'll show up." THAT means he DOES have feelings for you---are you giving him indications you ARE interested in being more than friends---holding hands; talking about intimate things; teasing him? He may just need a green light to let him know you want to go for it. IF that doesn't work then he's probably not normal. I know I want to know where I stand with ANY woman. And we guys are flattered when a woman shows interest even if we're not on the same wave length. You women KNOW how to be subtle in these things (more than us guys). My two cents.