Damn libras.......

Whoa.. I am back but not for long!

The topic of the day? LIBRAS!!! Christ.

For weeks and days this libra man has been the spotlight of my attention. If anyone is wondering about my past relationship with the Sag. Well we're just friends..for now. Long distance relationships are a pain.

So now I just want to have fun and explore.

I met this libra and you know... his charm just reels me in. He told me he likes me a lot.. thinks I'm beutiful inside and out. That I make him feel 'good' inside when he's around me. Basically I make him happy.
Let me remind you he's 26.. and I'm 18. So. You get the point. I told him later I'm attracted to him but things would never work out for variety of reasons.

but after awhile, I just couldn't take it anymore! lol. So I ended up confronting him again and he said he'll 'think about it' and this prolonged for days. I felt like the woman of action in this relationship. but anyway. I felt like he didn't want to talk to me anymore but surprise surpise when we did talk on the phone he told me he has bee thinking about me a lot. Whenever he wakes up I'm on his mind and he'd think, "What's up with this chick"! And now we've decided to date and test ze waters.

But one thing.... he told me he's POSSESSIVE and JEALOUS and couldn't handle me hanging out with other men because he knows that most of my friends are males. I told him I'd try it out anyway. Gotta try everything once, right?

And he's so a Libra, and he makes me nervous. Why is that?? I know the answer is obvious but it's weird only because I'm never nervous around men. It's almost as if I want to make him HAPPY and wouldn't give a damn about my feelings.(——??)

It kinda scares me.

hey that sounds like my libra bf. only he's the same age as me. but that is the ONLY difference...

He's so great.

Oh.I KNOW that! 🙂

🙂

Meh. I've lost interest.

Hi
I was a year ago attracted to a Libra man. He would manipulate situations so that we could be together. Sang poetries and gave me flowers every second day. Said he was in no hurry to get hot and believes in the old fashioned long sweet romance which gets wilder by the day.
After three weeks he suddnely vanished. After 2 days when I didn't hear form him, I called him. He was sweetness personified! We met for dinner and what he told me totally had me floored! He told me htat the reason he was in isolation was that he was nursing a heartbreak caused by me. I was shocked and asked for further explanation. He replied that inspite of me knowing that a one Mr.Virgo was his worst enemy, how could I talk to him? leave alone that he has become part of my friend circle.
He told me that he loves me deeply and if I love him I will have ot banish Mr Virgo form my friend circle pronto.
Goes without saying that I banished Mr Libra Pronto!
I mean how could I trust such an immature behavior just because my ex-Mr Libra & Mr Virgo are staunch competitors.
Hell! they didn't even give me a chance to be a refree for a possible duel that i was fantasising of!!!!!!!
loonybird

Loonybird... you don't seem to be too "loony" on the contrary - you are an "intellectbird!" Good call on your part Lady!!! :-) So true this statement..."circumstances do not MAKE a man, they REVEAL him." ~unknown

You were able to see the real Mr. Libra, trusted your instincts and escaped without being caught in a trap of "control" In my opinion, you are one very wise bird!!!

Thanx Freebird,
I love your posts. At cancer & virgo message boards and then here. How many message boards do you make you esteemed presence felt in? I wolud love to visit them.
Now this was the same Mr Virgo the archrival of Mr Libra..yes yes the champagne eyes, whom I fell for. Now as you read in the other message boards I feel like I have already changed my mind about him. But like virgosquared had pointed out, Mr Virgo over here has a greater chance of being hurt than me! At that time I didnot understand the meaning of this. But now I do. You see whether he is strongly sexually attracted to me or not, but he is very much tuned to me emotionally. Seeks my moral support. Now to my surprise I find that I am cool about that too. I have realised with some introspection that for me the whole interaction with him has always been a package- friendship + sexual attraction.
I just pray to god that I continue being the moral support to him as before.

Luz can I ask you why did you lose interest in your libra guy? I mean..I am crossed how many similarities are between these libra guys.. Or they are there because I want to see them. I can't tell yet. What i can tell for sure is that man, have i been courted!!! And in WHAT style ! And that recently my libra bf is kinda asking me what am i doing in my free time, and me being honest with him, i tell him what i do, where i go, with whom, etc,thinking he would understand cos he has a lot if friends and loves socialising. this guy gets ( or so he says ) deeply hurt if i spend time with my male friends, he always asks me how many boyfriends i have, and he is so hurt that sometimes I prefer to be with other male friends than with him etc etc etc... poor thing i just don't want to make him feel bad cos he is so lovely and seems soooo fragile!!... i couldn't put my finger on it but now i see he is manipulating me a bit... these days i'm having a revolution whithin myself, so i decided to lower my level of criticism to him as i cappy i tended to criticise a lot things and people, sometimes lettign them know that, sometimes not...). So i just go out and enjoy the time spend with him.Oh. And with his friends. I don't think at a deeper level he understands me though. He thinks he can fix everything with nice words and pouring his heart out at me and , ofcourse, poems and flowers. But i keep reminding myself everyone's different and so is their ways of sharing and showing love and affection.. Well the bottom line is that I'm enjoying this experience and what i mostly learn from him is to take everything easy and *ironic this is* to find a balance in everything that i am doing!!

but still this libra guy.............

they say libras get bored of earth signs.. but I am bored...no drama or passion with a libra? it's all flowery pink and runninng smoothly and words words words?oh and another 5 people lingering around us? 🙂 i'm bitting my tongue :p

BizzMizzz,

Sounds like you're experiencing that Libra possessiveness (asking where you've been, etc.). I noticed that right away with my Libra guy. At first it was a turnoff, now... well, he has wooed me so much (roses delivered to my door four times in as many weeks, poetry, etc.) I'm overlooking it!! Yeah, this Cappy girl's heart has been captured (but mine is on the Virgo cusp, which explains part of it).

Oh. Haha. I just did.

I heard he's been really wanting a girlfriend and well, that turned me off. So now he's been calling me a lot and I really just want to 'fly' away. And he's really really affectionate.. sometimes I can be but other times I laugh at the idea of sentimentality. I'm weird.

After him I've been losing interest in men completely. I might turn asexual LOL. I don't know. I don't like desperate men, and generally men are usually desperate for something. But I'm not speaking for everyone. Judge me however you like but I'm 18 and having fun! Haaaaaa *runs off*

lol Luz i know what you're talking about!!!! hahaha the way you say it it doesnt sound THAT bad lol btw it looks like you've got a lot of aquarius in your chart.

and it looks like i should drop all this astrosigns horoscopes reading and go outtttttttttttt take care!!!

Hey there Luz! Good to see you back!

why thank you, kind sir.

anyway....
Um....the libra is back in the game. Damn.

Hi Luz-Twinflame2 here. I am a female Libra with a Sagaittarius rising. Being a female libra I am not sure how we may differ from our male countepart. I have never been in a relationship with a libra male, and it is very enlightening to read about others that have been or are involved in one. I guess it kind of seems to wierd for me to be with a libra male. Like being with someone that is to much like you are. I will say that libra females are alot more faithful to their partner though. Just wanted to say I appreciate the posts about male libras and relationships. Because it helps give me insight to some things I may be doing in my relationships, and how another person may feel about it. So although I can not give alot of feedback to you, what you have shared has helped me alot. Thanks for posting-TW2

Delighted that you feel that way, twinflame2.

This libra guy is just.....funny as hell. He makes me laugh and sends butterflies in my stomach. why. Why!!! It's so disgusting LOL.

We 'talked' things out and it turns out what I heard from my friend wasn't exactly the truth.

twinflame:

I am also a Libra with Sag rising... I dated a Libra male for quite some time and it was like we were two of the same people!! At first, it excited me because I felt like we had a connection but after a while, it got to the point of bothering me because I was seeing a mirror of myself and my faults.. I finally broke it off with him because he was so insecure (more so than I am) and I felt that he couldn't trust me.. But if you have any questions on Libra men, feel free to ask!

~LSR

My libra finds me mysterious. Is this normal for Libras to think this way about Gemini's?

Its not normal for libras to think.

Man that so sucks when information gets relayed in a somewhat different form than it actually happened.

I am sure your friend was not intentionally trying to color anything a certain way on purpose. But we have to remember that when listening to any story being relayed as second hand information, the way the that the person percieved the events is going to be related with that persons understanding of the events. My mom used to tell me "only believe half of what you hear" (not firsthand by your) and nothing you see (as things are sometimes not be what they appear). Well if you see your boyfriend in the mad passionate kisses while in anothers arms-thats pretty clear cut. But I think you know what I mean.

Anyhoo I am so glad that what had upset you was not quite the truth, so its a good thing right. I know dont you just hate it when a guy truly gets under your skin! Bummer huh.

I wish you the very best in this adventure with this male Libra, and hope it turns out great. Keep me posted ok, as I am interested and do care. Have a wonderful Christmas, and an even better next year. Talk to you later. TW2

Libra bad, aris woman who put out good.

Why thank you my lovely Cap Master. I am so glad that you have recognized the Aries talents 🙂 The Best is what we are all about....

libras are addicting.

Yeah I agree, Luz, and they inspire safety at least as friends. Never seen/heard a Libra gossiping or talking badly without a good reason about someone else.

Him
Sun sign: Libra
Rising sign: Aries
Moon sign: Aries

Me
Sun sign: Taurus/Gemini(CUSP)
Rising sign: Sagittarius
Moon sign: Libra

are we compatible? 😉

Hey Luz-
I would try it out..I don't know you're guys is chart but one thing I do see already is that he was born internally conflicted and divided (Sun opposition Moon) combining the two isn't usually easy... Heck, that's my two cents...

I didn't mean combining you two togother difficult I meant Combining his Libra Sun/Aries Moon isn't easy they are in opposition to each other* just wanted to clarify that*

Ok. Gotcha.

But what about our compatibility? o.o

my libra guy has leo rising and is on the scorpio cusp, has got moon in cancer and venus in saggi. he's been to the moon and back to prove his love to me, still, my 6th sense tells me not to trust him so much. i dont know why. it may be that i've read too many horoscopes and things like that. i don't think venus in saggi goes well with venus in pisces. what do you think?

Hi BizzMizzzzzzzzzzzzzz.....🙂

What do I think? Me thinks that you need to trust your very important unseen Sixth Sense. There is a reason you are feeling what you are feeling. The sixth sense does not need a visual or an understanding...it just KNOWS. It can be so hard for us to trust this sixth sense because we have been conditioned to "see" or "hear" or "understand" something to sort of have proof so to speak. I grew up in St. Louis the "show me" state...I always needed proof of what someone said and yes, I would say, "show me!" Our sixth sense does not work that way...it is believing in the unseen and trusting the feeling.

I hope this sheds some light on your question...and, it is just my mere thoughts..others will hopefully share their's as well.

May I throw in another observation? please do not discount your feelings by saying that it might be from reading too many horoscopes and other things....trust YOURSELF my Lady Mizzzzzz 😉

Just trust your instincts, Bizzmiss 😉 If you guys are together then obviously there had be an attraction there in the first place! It's not like you're interested in some random guy whom you're observing. It takes TWO and obviously there are two people involved in this(with mutual feelings I might add.)

So what's there to worry? Sit back, relax, enjoy the 'show'.. your show.

PS: My venus is in Gemini while his is in Scorpio.
And yet.. we're doing quite fine!

Libra wit Leo rising? Is he flashy? KAKA(And yes, that was a laugh..!)

My 6th sense tells me nahh i can't handle a personality like his...My instincts tell me he coul dhurt me so easily without even noticing it. BUT I am giving him the benefit of the doubt, FreeBird.... Because the way he is is growing on me more on more. I mean.. ok, soul mates may exist, but people are different, right? I think i speak his language now. He knows about all my doubts and always always always tries to convince me there's nothing to be afraid of. He is growing on me because i see he is a really good person. And fair enough, he believes in love and a good relationship. he says i changed the world for him he never met someone like me who made him feel so comfortable and ok with himself and who gave him so much hope. Now I have his best friend trying to convince me that my bf's feelings are sincere and i changed the world for him. WHat have i got into ! LOL 🙂
Talking about Leo rising...Oh my god is he flashy!! VERY!! LOL and flirty and the centre of the attention everywhere we go but i don't really mind . This guy has a little crowd gathering towards him like flies to honey everywhere we go. So so flashy he's got (whats fair is fair )->very nice tatoos but only in places where they can be seen, always different hairslyles and shaves, bracelets, you name'em.looks SO gay! lol. But handsome 🙂.

Hmm.. Well. I can't deny myself a laugh.Even if he's not the one, i am having fun with him. I'm gonna post this till i change my mind

i still somehow dont trust him though 🙂. lol.
thank you Freebird and Luz for your suggestions..Umm i would have liked **something** in Scorpio in my bf's chart.. i got Some Scorpio and it shows 🙂.

Still my instincts if it was for me to do what i really wanted on the spot --any spot lol-- woul dbe to run away from him. maybe because he'#s not the kinda guy i'd normally date. but heh. you always learn from people and relationships,right?

so what's making you stay? the fact that he isn't your type?

Yep.The challenge. Wanna see where this goes. And i do care for the guy. And always the element of surprise.

So where'd it go? Nobody knows oh noes.

Hi Luz,

I guess your right no body knows what is up with BizzMizzz and her Libra guy.

By the way how is it going with your Libra?? Are you still seeing him? I hope everything is good with you, and that you had a nice christmas and new years.

Post and let me know how things are going, bye for now my friend-TW2

twinflame, so many things have been going on that I can't seem to sum it all up. But I will try my best.

He's 26. I'm 18. Our parents oppose our relationship. I'm the voice, strength, and wisdom in this relationship. While he remains doubtful and unsure.

Yeah it's all my fault.
My fault for being the strength, voice, and wisdom.
And it's my fault for feeling this way right now.
Because he's unsure.
While I was always sure.
And now I'm sad over the fact that I'm alone. When infact, I've always been alone.
And I'll continue to be the strength and guidance.
I'm learning independence, strength, wisdom all at the same time.
But on the negative side, those aspects come with loneliness.

I'm percieved as flighty and a child to 'outside forces'(parents, friends, etc.), and they seem to impede our relationship. Although I'm not giving up and he isn't as well. Few days ago it was pouring and we were in the car. We held eachother while his words consoled me.
"I'll take care of you."
Afterwards, we just listened to the rain softly make its trail on his windowshield. That day my father called him and basically threatened him.

He constantly wonders where our relatoinship is heading. Why measure the relationship within the amount of time it's spent? Why measure the relationship with voices that don't make up the actions that make up the voices?

We've been only dating for at least a month and we've gone so far. I think on thursday he finally confessed to me how much he's scared of losing me; how he's been confining his thoughts because he wants to appear well maintained.

We're so scared of opening up to eachother because we care about eachother.
"You seem to change your mind frequently and can adjust to your surroundings quite well." he says. Which is true, but I haven't found anyone that has all the correct 'energies' that complete the big picture(until now.). No matter how cliche that sounds....
He's intelligent, artistic, kind, opinionated, playful, funny, social butterfly, etc.
Although hard headed/stubborn at times. This relationship is helping me to become more considerate and understanding. Before I'd have temper trantrums if I couldn't attain what I wanted, but with this relationship is helping me grow. We both help eachother and bring out the best in each other. He tells me there's something about me that attracts him to me so much. He doesn't have a reason. Ummm the possibility of me just being a girl could be it? Har.

One time we were in the back seat of our friends car, we were holding eachother and he told me later that's when he realized how delicate I was. He wants to take care of me and quote quote "I don't care what you say I don't care if you get mad." because I usually tell him I can take care of myself!

When we're together it's so passionate, twinflame. So intense. I always thought these kind of relationships only existed in movies but believe me when I say they exist.

The only thing that's troubling me is that his insecurities can sometimes get the best of me. He's sometimes indecisive and has a hard time explaining himself. It fustrates me beyond compare. I need to communicate efficiently otherwise I analyze and and think about the "What if's"

I'm more impulsive while he remains cautious. Why can't we just hold eachothers hand and fly/explore together? He is always so worried and might I add jealous and possessive. He's scared of losing me. It's like pooh bear and christopher robin. He's pooh while I'm christopher, eventually I'll christopher grows up and grows out of pooh. Okay bad analogy but you get the point. I know what I want and I'll fight for it.

At this point, though, I need strength as well. He needs to share his strength. For god sakes hes 26 and I'm 18.
I'm sure I'm rambling at this point... damn me and my idiosyncracies.......

Love is everything.

Alright Luz =) How are you? To find out if you are compatible, you'll look at your mars and venus signs. They give love compatibility info. Now, with that said, and from my own experience, there's usually a tough going relationship between taurus and libra. Libra finds that Taurus brings a block to them psychologically, and mentally. However, the attraction between the two is very strong. Taurus finds Libra too flighty, and this constant, windy motion will be misinterpreted as confusion and a total lack of direction, and sooner may or will be resented by the Taurean, whom craves his/ her much needed stability. I've found my Taurean lovers to be solid in dependability, and rock solid in commitment. The things that discouraged me from continuing the relationship(s) were the consistent inflexibility, and the unwillingness to give (insert noun) the benefit of the doubt, and simply the apathy on their part about trying new things. I felt that my personality required an open environment for emotional and mental release, which unfortunately was unavailable to me in my situation, but may be availableto you in yours. Luz, now the warm up to my split ups have been wonderful and warm, and quite lovely, but you'll ultimately decide whether the effort required to follow the course of the relationship will be equivalent to or render greater benefits for you when all is said and done. Listen to your gut feeling, and perhaps your parents.. Good luck in your loves.