libra, pitched up

Hi. Some of you know the story about me and my ex-Libra.

Last year his mom passed away. On the 24\01\2009, she was been dead for 1 year. So, low and behold my Libra pitched up , wanting to talk and be friends.
Satuarday,morning I was in my garden cleaning and decorating(garden statues) with my god children and my nephew ( 3 boys ). Needless to say it was more an exercise to keep them busy. They get bored so quickly and I can only pretend so much to play cars.

While outside Libra's car pulls up. He comes in plays with the kids all the while he is filling me in on his life and what he has been up to. Since the last time we saw each other. Told him that I am doing quiet well. Talked about the holidays where we went to. Told him I was dating someone, he also admitted that he is in a relationship.

Then he asks me if I miss him and if I miss us .To which I respond we are both in relationships and I really don't see where I miss yous come into the picture.And there is a reason why we are not together. And everything happens for a reason that doesn't mean that anyone is bad.

Then he said ?today my mom is dead for 1 year. And I make him think of her. And I was the only person that mothers him. And he knows what a baby he can be?.

Then 2 of my friends came by. We are busy planning a bachelorette party for my cousin's girlfriend. He stayed and chatted to us a while. And even promised to bring 5 bottles of red wine and to make the punch.

He stayed for a good 3 hours. I feel sorry for him but I can't afford to go there again. Or to let him into my inner circle again. I am not completely over him. But I am doing so much better at resisting him .

Its best to keep resisting too....they always tend to come back when you least expect it....mine has done this to me so many times....and a year can easily go by and yep up he pops from NOWHERE. But it means nothing, its purely for them unfortunately.

Im glad that you are seeing somebody - it makes it so much easier to walk away 🙂

(( Libra ex's coming back ))

Don't know but this libra has done it to me too many times before.

He just send me photos of the new beach house he bought. And wants to come drop the wine later tonight, but wants to know if I will be alone... Been there done that. Luckily my younger sister stays with me during the week. She goes home most weekends.My boyfriend has been out of town for work but will be back, 2morrow.

LOL Nov_Scorp.....there must be something in the air...my LIbra ex has been leaving messages on my phone and I saw him drive past my house (not just once but twice recently)....I was also very mean to mine (back in October too), I wanted it to end for good, no more games.

Man, it wasnt me who wanted to end the relationship in the first place but its me who now doesnt want anything to do with him....how things change.

Bella its best if your sister just takes the wine perhaps? If he's in a relationship and knows you're in one also it isnt right for him to start coming back into your life....yes, probably wants the last hoorah which Im sure mine wants also....he knows I cant stand the thought of his games anymore so he's trying a different approach - the person touch, not the texts and emails and chat....he's now doing it in real person...OMG who'd have thought he could...LMAO.

Nah, best not to go back there 🙂

He'll probably just wheasle his way out of anything you try to tell her. One thing I learnt not so long ago...DONT GET INVOLVED coz it always backfires....UNLESS it is somebody you really know and you trust them and vice versa.

Just ignore him...as much as that will make him want it more LOL

Chatz, same here. Now I am the one that doesn't want him. How the tables have turned.

Nov_Scorp. Be careful if you do that. He might deny it and make you look crazy again. (Even if you have proof) And depending on the intelligence of his gf she may believe his denial too. This happened to me not too long ago with my aqua ex. He came over and tried to get fresh with me, I was explaining the story to my friend and word got around to his current gf. She called me up begging for the truth. I told her what happened and than he called me up with her calling me a liar and a bitch. People are only gonna believe what they want to believe. So do it if you want but just watch out. It can get dramatic. lol

"my LIbra ex has been leaving messages on my phone and I saw him drive past my house (not just once but twice recently" Oh my god chatz that's fucking creepy! What a stalker haha!

ahwell he wont cause any harm but it is really weird that its him now that is trying to find out whats going on in my life. Hopefully he saw the new man's car in my driveway in amongst any night cruises past my house. There is NO reason for him to have driven past as my street is a quiet cul de sac and he'd go out of his way to come past....strange.

Yep they're weird - well the weird ones anyway LOL....Im sure there are a whole heap of good Libra males out there 🙂

Nov scorp librans coming back is REALLY normal for scorp woman!!!! Hey Chatz!!!

Nov_Scorp, why do you care? You are engaged to an Aries. Why bother with a cheating ex?

OMG QS hellooooooooooooooooo!!!!

Maybe Mr Libra needs throttling by the Ram hehehe....is he big and ferocious? would Libra cower? ooooooh I see a fight brewing LOL

I am at the end of my rope with my ex-Libra. He is calling, sms,skype-ing, facebooking, and e-mail me.

expect for the phone calls I have been ignorning him . He calls from a private number. I feel "stalked".

It is rattling me because I have loved and longed for him for the longest time .And it took me about a year to get over him. I am really happy with my boyfriend and getting mixed up with Libra again is not an option.

I guess that he is probably not getting the reaction from me like he use to. Yeah, I understand that he is going through a difficult time. The 1 year anniversary of his mom's death and him just losing a court case. But he has a girlfriend why doesn't he confide in her. He keeps telling me that he misses what we had and that I am one of a few people that he trusts.

For him to say those things would have rocked my world a few months ago. But now I see right through it.

((I was starting to think I'd have to murder him to get him to stop. lol ))

Same here. I really hope for him sake that he finds peace.And try and make things work with his girlfriend.

Yip, deleted Libra as friend from facebook.

I also spoke to his best friend's girlfriend today. We ran into each other buying shoes.My weakness. Any how, she was telling me that he keeps ranning back to 2 other exes. Not including me. I have stopped telling her anything. She just likes to gossip and create drama.

It must be exhausting living like that ? lying and being so deceitful.

Anyway off to have dinner and a very long weekend.