Libra Sun and Venus in Scorpio... Can anyone tell me about Venus on Scorpio please

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Lol hope I got it now. I married young and have been for 18 years. I feel crazy off and on. I have a hard time telling people how I feel but only half the time.! I'm misunderstood often. I was just wondering if my Venus in Scorpio makes me crazy. I do hide my crazy well tho
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Yep looks like it worked! I don't know what to tell you. I WANTED to know my Libra better with Scorp in Venus as far as feelings were concerned in matters of love. My venus is Cancer so to me it should have been near damn perfect. I felt when we were together things were light hearted and fun but behind closed doors they were deep but they could never really say how they felt. It's as if they hit a block when trying to talk about it. They have different ways of showing affection in my experience. I truly believe the Scorp can sometimes overpower the libra sun, especially when it's in the moon or Venus, or in my case, both.
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One of my best friends is Libra Sun Scorpio Venus female. She acts in a different way from the males I know, she's more flirty and open to flings. But she has always wanted a serious relationship. 🙂 I know quite a few Scorpio Venus guys and they're all like Gary Oldman in Dracula... so yes, you might be seen as crazy... twisted mind, but big, vulnerable heart.
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One of my best friends is Libra Sun Scorpio Venus female. She acts in a different way from the males I know, she's more flirty and open to flings. But she has always wanted a serious relationship. 🙂 I know quite a few Scorpio Venus guys and they're all like Gary Oldman in Dracula... so yes, you might be seen as crazy... twisted mind, but big, vulnerable heart.
my mind feels like ther r two different people n there most of the time. I hide it well cause I have learned to. If I try to say what's in my mind I freak people out or they just don't understand. I have a big heart and try to live life right but in my head I'm in a constant battle.! I wish I could just find peace sometimes
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I have this Venus also. It is very intense and its hard for a Libra to confront those emotions cuz we like light hearted and positive things and yes Venus in Scorpio has no problem committing early, I did it too. Not married but an all out commitment at 16.

I'm totally committed to my husband. I just feel like no one is ever going to really understand me. I don't understand myself lol
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One of my best friends is Libra Sun Scorpio Venus female. She acts in a different way from the males I know, she's more flirty and open to flings. But she has always wanted a serious relationship. 🙂 I know quite a few Scorpio Venus guys and they're all like Gary Oldman in Dracula... so yes, you might be seen as crazy... twisted mind, but big, vulnerable heart.
my mind feels like ther r two different people n there most of the time. I hide it well cause I have learned to. If I try to say what's in my mind I freak people out or they just don't understand. I have a big heart and try to live life right but in my head I'm in a constant battle.! I wish I could just find peace sometimes
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Oww.. maybe you have some challenging aspects... if you do, you should work on them. What's your moon and rising?
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One of my best friends is Libra Sun Scorpio Venus female. She acts in a different way from the males I know, she's more flirty and open to flings. But she has always wanted a serious relationship. 🙂 I know quite a few Scorpio Venus guys and they're all like Gary Oldman in Dracula... so yes, you might be seen as crazy... twisted mind, but big, vulnerable heart.

I have a Leo moon and I think an Aries rising.
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Can all the veenis scorpio and libra say i hear alot say its hard to say whats on ur heart because you may scare people. Why do you feel you may scare people and they wont understand @sweetart can you give an example if your open to saying what it is.

It's not my love feelings, I can actually express myself well to people around me when it's lovey dovey. Its things I think about if I express it I get the craziest looks. Like once when I told my friends if I stare in the mirror at my eyes long enough I feel like there is someone looking back and that that bitch scares me. They thought I was nuts lol. I understand me but they don't. And other times my conversations r too deep I guess which scares them so I have learned to keep my thoughts to myself mostly lol.
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Can all the veenis scorpio and libra say i hear alot say its hard to say whats on ur heart because you may scare people. Why do you feel you may scare people and they wont understand @sweetart can you give an example if your open to saying what it is.
i don't fully express my feeling because to an ear that can't truly 'know' the feeling it sounds unhinged. it sounds like i am only steps away from boiling bunnies and living in their wardrobe.
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Can all the veenis scorpio and libra say i hear alot say its hard to say whats on ur heart because you may scare people. Why do you feel you may scare people and they wont understand @sweetart can you give an example if your open to saying what it is.
i don't fully express my feeling because to an ear that can't truly 'know' the feeling it sounds unhinged. it sounds like i am only steps away from boiling bunnies and living in their wardrobe.
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Lmao that's me also.
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I'm a Libra Sun and Scorp.Venus.. (Also a Scorpio Moon which def. adds to the intensity of my emotions)

girl let me tell you it is NOT easy generating all that intensity and trying to filter it out for public consumption..or even to try and digest it for myself.

I think my Libra Sun (ego) has been sometimes shocked/scared of some of the darker thoughts/feelings/emotions that emerge from the Scorp.Venus and Moon placements..It's like having each foot on two different continents. So I've felt at odds with myself. I also find it very difficult and hesitate to share those deeper feelings with others close to me..it can be discouraging when I do and am misunderstood. It's hard to try and verbalize things that are simply just deeply felt. I will say though, I like contradictions (superficiality/balance vs depth/ and having a Libra sun takes the edge off of some of that intensity

Anyway, the Venus Scorp I kinda like.. Maybe it's bc I already am a Scorp. Moon. but I think it cuts through a lotta bullshit when it comes to relationships. LIke other Scorp. placements, you can read people's characters rather well and potentially better direct your loyalty and love to those who can receive and reciprocate it. I definitely feeel the heaviness of the kind of love I carry and it can be overwhelming at times when there's no outlet or target 😉

Here's a descrip of it:

This magnetism isn't lost on most people. Venus in Scorpio men and women are typically very sexually attractive. They have a tendency to keep a lot of their would-be lovers at arm's length initially, which tends to only make them want them more. Scorpio Venus can be guilty of being too hard to get at times, as well as employing other devious ploys to control or manipulate. But, their passion is what keeps people inevitably hooked and things can get very, very hot and heavy in the bedroom with them. Those with this position needs things really intense and intimate, even in their friendships. They regularly test others to see who can handle the heat. Those who don't run from the intensity, as well as pose something of a mystery to unravel for them, will win them over.
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I'm a Libra Sun and Scorp.Venus.. (Also a Scorpio Moon which def. adds to the intensity of my emotions)

girl let me tell you it is NOT easy generating all that intensity and trying to filter it out for public consumption..or even to try and digest it for myself.

I think my Libra Sun (ego) has been sometimes shocked/scared of some of the darker thoughts/feelings/emotions that emerge from the Scorp.Venus and Moon placements..It's like having each foot on two different continents. So I've felt at odds with myself. I also find it very difficult and hesitate to share those deeper feelings with others close to me..it can be discouraging when I do and am misunderstood. It's hard to try and verbalize things that are simply just deeply felt. I will say though, I like contradictions (superficiality/balance vs depth/ and having a Libra sun takes the edge off of some of that intensity

Anyway, the Venus Scorp I kinda like.. Maybe it's bc I already am a Scorp. Moon. but I think it cuts through a lotta bullshit when it comes to relationships. LIke other Scorp. placements, you can read people's characters rather well and potentially better direct your loyalty and love to those who can receive and reciprocate it. I definitely feeel the heaviness of the kind of love I carry and it can be overwhelming at times when there's no outlet or target 😉

Here's a descrip of it:

This magnetism isn't lost on most people. Venus in Scorpio men and women are typically very sexually attractive. They have a tendency to keep a lot of their would-be lovers at arm's length initially, which tends to only make them want them more. Scorpio Venus can be guilty of being too hard to get at times, as well as employing other devious ploys to control or manipulate. But, their passion is what keeps people inevitably hooked and things can get very, very hot and heavy in the bedroom with them. Those with this position needs things really intense and intimate, even in their friendships. They regularly test others to see who can handle the heat. Those who don't run from the intensity, as well as pose something of a mystery to unravel for them, will win them over.

Thank you for ur response. As I mature I accept the duality in myself a little better each year. Sometime I feel like a walking contradiction tho which can be maddening to me and others lol. I'm going to have to find some people I can have deep intellectual convos with. I think ultimately that's what I'm missing. Time for some new friends.! I just have so few because I like it like that actually. I've actually tried to verbalize what goes on in my mind about the duality and was hospitalized.! So from time to time it gets to me and I wonder if I actually got a lil crazy in there lol
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I have this Venus also. It is very intense and its hard for a Libra to confront those emotions cuz we like light hearted and positive things and yes Venus in Scorpio has no problem committing early, I did it too. Not married but an all out commitment at 16.

I'm totally committed to my husband. I just feel like no one is ever going to really understand me. I don't understand myself lol
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I can relate, Lib Sun, Scorp Venus. My husband is the closest person to understanding me I've ever known but I still don't know if he will ever fully understand. I've just come to accept it. We leave this world the same way we came in, alone, and so what truly matters is that we understand and truly love ourselves. That doesn't put others on the backburner.. it just builds a solid foundation from which we can love and nurture others. It is very important for a Scorpio influenced person to learn true love of self.
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"But once we get comfortable it truly smoothed over."

100% yes. In a happy, comfortable marriage now and I don't really ever feel jealous now. I am convinced of his devotion to me. My husband actually has a fairly flirty personality and it just doesn't bother me at all anymore. He's just super friendly and playful, with men, women, everyone. I trust his devotion and my intuition. Scorp Venus gives incredible intuition regarding romantic matters.
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I'm a Libra Sun and Scorp.Venus.. (Also a Scorpio Moon which def. adds to the intensity of my emotions)

girl let me tell you it is NOT easy generating all that intensity and trying to filter it out for public consumption..or even to try and digest it for myself.

I think my Libra Sun (ego) has been sometimes shocked/scared of some of the darker thoughts/feelings/emotions that emerge from the Scorp.Venus and Moon placements..It's like having each foot on two different continents. So I've felt at odds with myself. I also find it very difficult and hesitate to share those deeper feelings with others close to me..it can be discouraging when I do and am misunderstood. It's hard to try and verbalize things that are simply just deeply felt. I will say though, I like contradictions (superficiality/balance vs depth/ and having a Libra sun takes the edge off of some of that intensity

Anyway, the Venus Scorp I kinda like.. Maybe it's bc I already am a Scorp. Moon. but I think it cuts through a lotta bullshit when it comes to relationships. LIke other Scorp. placements, you can read people's characters rather well and potentially better direct your loyalty and love to those who can receive and reciprocate it. I definitely feeel the heaviness of the kind of love I carry and it can be overwhelming at times when there's no outlet or target 😉

Here's a descrip of it:

This magnetism isn't lost on most people. Venus in Scorpio men and women are typically very sexually attractive. They have a tendency to keep a lot of their would-be lovers at arm's length initially, which tends to only make them want them more. Scorpio Venus can be guilty of being too hard to get at times, as well as employing other devious ploys to control or manipulate. But, their passion is what keeps people inevitably hooked and things can get very, very hot and heavy in the bedroom with them. Those with this position needs things really intense and intimate, even in their friendships. They regularly test others to see who can handle the heat. Those who don't run from the intensity, as well as pose something of a mystery to unravel for them, will win them over.
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Thank you for ur response. As I mature I accept the duality in myself a little better each year. Sometime I feel like a walking contradiction tho which can be maddening to me and others lol. I'm going to have to find some people I can have deep intellectual convos with. I think ultimately that's what I'm missing. Time for some new friends.! I just have so few because I like it like that actually. I've actually tried to verbalize what goes on in my mind about the duality and was hospitalized.! So from time to time it gets to me and I wonder if I actually got a
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im Aries rising. I have a great husband also. I have nothing more than half my chart. So nothing in the 12th. I think it's a bundle chart. I can't really fig out how all this works. I tried to start a thread asking about it but it's not there anymore. I read that a bundle chart could indicate schizo. Im not sure about my node but my profile pic is my natal chart. Ty for taking the time for me
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^^^ quoted too much..



What's your Ascendant (Asc/Rising)? Do you have any 12th house planets or nodes?

I thought maybe my Venus Scorpio was why maybe I was misunderstood but then I seen my chart and realized that maybe I'm a little off like my chart lol
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You can master any "problems" your chart presents. Awareness is the first step.
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I used to feel that way when I was married to a Taurus... That didn't work out after 14 years...

Now I am with a Sagittarius with a Capricorn Venus. He reads my mind. It's so crazy. I feel so completely understood and loved for who I am, I don't care what other people think of me.

I'm not saying to leave (at all). With Venus in scorpio we love hard. We want to be understood but there's so much on our minds that it's hard to express. Now when I'm quiet, he'll say, "I understand you are feeling ____" and it will always be right! I love it and now we talk about everything because he accepts me for who I am and loves me. Plus the passion is equal on both sides. So it allows me to release it...
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"Thank you for ur response. As I mature I accept the duality in myself a little better each year. Sometime I feel like a walking contradiction tho which can be maddening to me and others lol. I'm going to have to find some people I can have deep intellectual convos with. I think ultimately that's what I'm missing. Time for some new friends.! I just have so few because I like it like that actually. I've actually tried to verbalize what goes on in my mind about the duality and was hospitalized.! So from time to time it gets to me and I wonder if I actually got a lil crazy in there lol"


I hear you, and feel for you...bc it's the worst feeling when you can be there and understand others with 100% empathy + acceptance, yet it can hard to find people who CAN reciprocate. It's great you mentioned that you're accepting this inner duality, bc ultimately who better to give you the acceptance/empathy/what you need than yourself..

and YES! It's important to look at your circle..Libra/Scorpio (hell, the Cancer parts of me) is so attuned to "others" that I forget how enmeshed in others I get.


I'm new to dxpnet so I already feel better/less craY seeing that ppl with similar astro placements GET ME!!
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"Thank you for ur response. As I mature I accept the duality in myself a little better each year. Sometime I feel like a walking contradiction tho which can be maddening to me and others lol. I'm going to have to find some people I can have deep intellectual convos with. I think ultimately that's what I'm missing. Time for some new friends.! I just have so few because I like it like that actually. I've actually tried to verbalize what goes on in my mind about the duality and was hospitalized.! So from time to time it gets to me and I wonder if I actually got a lil crazy in there lol"


I hear you, and feel for you...bc it's the worst feeling when you can be there and understand others with 100% empathy + acceptance, yet it can hard to find people who CAN reciprocate. It's great you mentioned that you're accepting this inner duality, bc ultimately who better to give you the acceptance/empathy/what you need than yourself..

and YES! It's important to look at your circle..Libra/Scorpio (hell, the Cancer parts of me) is so attuned to "others" that I forget how enmeshed in others I get.


I'm new to dxpnet so I already feel better/less craY seeing that ppl with similar astro placements GET ME!!

I feel better just saying it and getting it outta my head.! I actually find I like trying to better myself. I've been researching around I think I need to start with my self-worth. I do love that about myself. I'm willing to actually consider that I come up short in certain areas of life and actually put out effort to change for the better. Ty all for listening. I feel like this convo has helped me ground myself a little. Slightly less cray cray ‰
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I used to feel that way when I was married to a Taurus... That didn't work out after 14 years...

Now I am with a Sagittarius with a Capricorn Venus. He reads my mind. It's so crazy. I feel so completely understood and loved for who I am, I don't care what other people think of me.

I'm not saying to leave (at all). With Venus in scorpio we love hard. We want to be understood but there's so much on our minds that it's hard to express. Now when I'm quiet, he'll say, "I understand you are feeling ____" and it will always be right! I love it and now we talk about everything because he accepts me for who I am and loves me. Plus the passion is equal on both sides. So it allows me to release it...

This is food for thought for me. My bull always gets his way.! Lol. I have just learned recently that he isn't patient at all. That he's actually stubborn and can wait forever for things to go his way.! That is a wonderful strategy to always get what u want lol. I can't get myself to b mad even a little at him. If I do it only lasts a short time cause I forget I was mad.!