Libra/Virgo

hi fellow Libras..i just wanted to know if ya'll can share your expieriences with Virgo men ,im dating one now..wat should i expect?

I remember my libran frnd who dated a virgo man... She dated him bcoz she was too lazy to find another person.

And i can gurantee a lot of frustration....

dayum! didnt want 2 hear that, but ok

I LOVE Virgo men. They are simply smashing.

My two longest relationships were with Virgos. One I dated lived/with for five years. The second I almost married.

They are responsible, sensible, well manner, well groomed, good hearted people. They say I love you by doing your taxes, looking after you when you are sick, yadda yadda. They don't do grand romantic gestures or emotional scenes which I also hate so we are very compatible. They don't like conflict and are happy with you as long as you are happy with them.

They do tend to be escapists and don't like being dug into but the great thing is, they won't dig into you. They like their privacy and will respect yours. I do find Virgos have a lot of commitment issues, but other than that, I don't have anything bad to say about them.

If you are looking for someone reliable, dependable, responsible, and good ... go for a Virgo.

LS tats quite surprising... I agree with all the things u hv mentioned but this is the first time I am hearing libran girl saying something sweet abt virgo men. may be it was something wrong btween my frnds chart and his or may be u had something else supportive... but i always used to see her getting angry with him on phone and fighting and then comin to me and asking me to charm her up back to normal mood... even my experience with virgo was quite frustrating and similar to hers. commitment yes they are slow and a bit revolutionist theories which has practical impossiblities..and i get irritated by the way they crib abt life and other fellow human beings... i hv been staying away from virgo esp when born in virgo libra cusp... but still i got a lot of virgo frnds arnd who are quite normal... may be am totally confused... 😢

hmmmm

The majority of my friends have either been virgos or scorps. It might have something to do with the draw of adjoining signs especially since I have soooo much Libra in my chart. I am unsure.

And yes, they can be critical. I generally find the girls more critical than the men, but it almost always comes from a place of wanting the best for everyone.

I would definitely date a Virgo again. I like their sense of responsibility, reliability, and nurturing natures.

virgowithalittlelibra

why the hmmmmmm

OH! I also love the fact that virgos would never embarrass themselves or you. That is one thing I truly appreciate.

LS,

I said hmmm because I want to hear what Libras think about Virgos, but I can't help it, I couldn't be completely quiet! =)

I have this Libra friend who may like me I think...and she's so very cute...

The problem is this Aqua girl I was dating for a year is still trying to get a hold of me and has me very confused, even though I was all about working things out, I don't think she knows what she wants...or doesn't do a very good job at showing it for some reason...

So I'm taking some time off after the break-up we had to think about what I need too.

The Libra girl ended her relationship too and wants to hang out...it's been 3 months for her, 2 weeks for me....too soon. So I suggested group settings instead =)

I'm afraid to meet one on one with her, because she's really pretty and pretty girls get me in trouble everytime! That's how it all started with my aqua and before I knew it...boooooom I was in another long-term relationships again...not that there is something wrong about it, but my heart may need a little rest in between!

Aqua girls and Libra girls are so my type physically =) I just never dated a Libra...yet

VLL

Oh yes! I forgot about the Virgo group dates to keep the distance. hee hee!

I personally like the style of Virgo male. They put time into their appearance and dress nicely. They also have an old-fashioned reserve and manners that I love. Also, they tend to be A-type personalities. Yet they were their insecurities on their sleeves and are very honest about themselves.

My last Virgo was pretty much the love of my life, and I really don't think I will ever stop loving him. He was such a good man who always made sure I was looked after and happy. He set the bar really high for anyone who is to come after.

I know he still thinks of me as family and loves me dearly. I also know that in twenty years time, I will be able to pick up the phone and call him and he will be there for me.

I think Virgo/Libra can be a GREAT relationship as we have a lot of the same underlying needs. As long as both can adjust to commitment.

That's such a wonderful post LS!

It made me smile!

We, Virgos, can be a pain in the butt sometimes, but we aren't that bad when it comes to relationships...maybe one day my aqua girl will remember that, because that is how I've been with her too.

I'm glad your Virgo guy gave you most of what you deserved. You seem to be such a sweet girl. Libras are always so cute and charming!

If I do hang out with my Libra friend this weekend, I'll smile to her across the table while everyone else is talking, I usually get shy aroung her, but I'll smile! =)

VLL

LS i guess u r right... when i look back, most virgo men I know were plain good... women were bit of an issue.... i shudnt hv taken that as general virgo nature...

"And yes, they can be critical. I generally find the girls more critical than the men..."

yeah, but i try to curb this tendency as much as possible.

"OH! I also love the fact that virgos would never embarrass themselves or you. That is one thing I truly appreciate."

little sparrow, you are too kind (love your screen name by the way, its very endearing).

I have a Virgo women friend that I talk to.
I think conversation with Virgo is very good. Maybe they think too much about the same stuff and "what if this goes wrong" etc.. instead of being positive

Hell no never again... my dad is a virgo and my first and only boyfriend was a virgo... both crazy... my ex was controlling and jealous, and could not keep up with me mentally, and just thought he has every answer... always trying to give some practical advice leading down the wrong path.

benjsh that is so true they can be very negative and that drives me crazy up the wall

....both crazy... my ex was controlling and jealous, and could not keep up with me mentally, and just thought he has every answer... always trying to give some practical advice leading down the wrong path.....

nice to read this... so am not wrong in my observations... 🙂

LS, u made me think all the way back and reanalyze all those instances and conversations I had with Virgos... Now i feel so much relieved. Yday in another forum a virgo dude signed up in another name and continuesly abused my gemini friend until he got banned. So I am back to my old theory abt virgos - Full of theory, but nothing works. And always a libran can find a far better workable solution bcoz we always love to imagine the story before buying the ticket.

"Full of theory, but nothing works"

So true so true.

the libran: could you not be so ouchy-harsh-like judgemental a little bit 😢 We try, and I'd like ya to know we aren't all like that....just another bad egg ya know? Gotta have that discerning eye; it open so many doors for your personality! 😉

ooops... wasnt picking on virgos. just casual critism. 😉 I got lot of virgo friends. But I keep a little distance mosttimes... afraid to get into complicated thoughts. 😉

I dated one for 7 years..it was great at the start and hell at the end. He lied and cheated. They are shallow, tell lies easily, are critical, will be jealous of your sociable mature, will take advantage of your sociable nature, will steal from you..gosh, do i sound bitter?? Well mine was a bullshit liar..good luck x