Libra woman and Leo man

I'm a libra, I've been dating a leo for seven months. In the beginning he said he used to be a habitual cheater and he didn't want 2 ever hurt another woman. He just wasn't ready for a commitment. It didn't. Bother me, we were having fun enjoying eachotheres company. Traveling together. He always wanted me around.Originally it started off with me staying every weekend then I stayed the whole summer at his place with him. He would pick me up and drop me off at work.

Then about a month ago he told me he loved me. All of a sudden he says he confused and I scared him. He cares so much for me, he loves me. He doesn't want to hurt me.

Now he's keeping his distance from me. He called me yesterday crying saying he just not ready for a relationship and doesn't want to hurt me.He said he was a mess I have him crying,he loves me so much, he says when he's ready he wants to be with me. He doesn't know what to do. I still see him often but he won't stay. We start getting heavy and he says he has to leave.

I just want things back to the way we were in the beginning. I miss him so much. I don't know what 2 do.

I'm a libra, I've been dating a leo for seven months. In the beginning he said he used to be a habitual cheater and he didn't want 2 ever hurt another woman. He just wasn't ready for a commitment. It didn't. Bother me, we were having fun enjoying eachotheres company. Traveling together. He always wanted me around.Originally it started off with me staying every weekend then I stayed the whole summer at his place with him. He would pick me up and drop me off at work.

Then about a month ago he told me he loved me. All of a sudden he says he confused and I scared him. He cares so much for me, he loves me. He doesn't want to hurt me.

Now he's keeping his distance from me. He called me yesterday crying saying he just not ready for a relationship and doesn't want to hurt me.He said he was a mess I have him crying,he loves me so much, he says when he's ready he wants to be with me. He doesn't know what to do. I still see him often but he won't stay. We start getting heavy and he says he has to leave.

I just want things back to the way we were in the beginning. I miss him so much. I don't know what 2 do.

leos are a handful. i was with one. they are competitive and like to be in control of everything. leo men are easy to win over, just make him feel like he is the king and your entire world. be meek and let them shine. in the end it won't be worth it. they are more concerned with how the world sees them and desperately seek approval from others but not your approval. one of my best female friends is a leo. we have great friendship maybe bc her moon is in scorpio and i have a lot of libra.

Oh I LOVE leos! LOVE them! I haven't met a Leo I did like. Ever.

They are good-hearted, warm, kind, fun, well-meaning individuals. Oddly, I find them very quiet, reserved, and dignified. If there are loud, obnoxious Leos out there, I haven't met any. And I know tons.

I actually suspect that for a Libra woman it is the STRONGEST attraction there is. I know that is true for me.

All that being said, all the compatibility and attraction in the world won't make it work if someone is freakin' out about it. He has lost his power and is freaked out about it. He probably knows this is the real deal and is terrified about the power of the attraction. But what to do? What to do?

I think you might be best just to pretend everything is okay until he comes around. What did you say when he said all this to you?

Good point Kitten.

The best peice of dating advice I was ever given was ... people tell you who they are and the exact problem you will have with them within the first few dates. This has been true in my life. I probably would have ran at chronic cheater.

There is a good likelyhood that he is cheating to throw the relationship away because he is panicked. (My hunch.)

There isn't much you can do about it. HE has to get himself together. It is unfortunate.

First off relationships are ALWAYS the best in the beginning but once you get to know someone and build stronger feelings, things come out. Not necesarily bad things but its just a part of the process of getting to know someone... How do you feel about him? He is in love with you but then pulls away.. What is he afraid of? Have you asked him this? Does he see something in you that will make you run away from him? You have to instill in him that he can trust you and trust your relationship. He seems to really like you but ask him what is holding him back..