Libra Women Please Help!!

First off Hi! Everyone, I'm new here and excited but I'll get right to it 😢

I'll make this as short as possible because I personally hate seeing super long questions. Okay. My ex gf broke up with me basically saying she doesn't feel the same way about me that she used too. We were together 2 1/2 years and we had a good and bad relationship like anyone else, nothing out of the ordinary.

She still wants to be friends and we have been broken up for a month now.

I have been doing everything I can to show her that I'm the guy for her, I still call and text her, everything I do is romantic, when we see each other we still hug and kiss. She flirts with me and even hints at having a future with me at times, but then I notice if I don't call her we won't talk at all, if I don't text her we won't text.

I believe in fighting for what you want and this girl means the world to me, any libra girl out there can you help me in any way you can?? I just want her back even if it takes months, should I just stop contacting her altogether?? Or keep relentlessly giving her affection. She even tells me that I'm not the problem and I've always been an amazing guy, she said she just doesn't love me the way she used too but sends mixed signals in person. I love her unconditionally

You really think it's that simple??

I don't want to pressure her or keep trying to spend time with her and she doesn't even talk to me if I don't make the first move. She puts her friends before me even though I treat her way better than they do.

But if you think I should just keep showering her with affection I have no problem doing that.

Don't shower her with shit. Right now you guys in different terms, places, new ideas, and evaluate your own life, if you are ready for a serious relationship then look for one that's ready.. it will only cause stress more if it's just one sided. You don't need that you tried before and trying again. It's not working right now.

You're absolutely right

I'm walking away and not contacting her anymore

That was fast too fast. Why?

Posted by 2Moon
you need to ask to jeane and jane84.

these 2 gives great advices. 🙂

Aww thank you. ☺️

Posted by VirgosRcoool92
First off Hi! Everyone, I'm new here and excited but I'll get right to it 😢

I'll make this as short as possible because I personally hate seeing super long questions. Okay. My ex gf broke up with me basically saying she doesn't feel the same way about me that she used too. We were together 2 1/2 years and we had a good and bad relationship like anyone else, nothing out of the ordinary.

She still wants to be friends and we have been broken up for a month now.

I have been doing everything I can to show her that I'm the guy for her, I still call and text her, everything I do is romantic, when we see each other we still hug and kiss. She flirts with me and even hints at having a future with me at times, but then I notice if I don't call her we won't talk at all, if I don't text her we won't text.

I believe in fighting for what you want and this girl means the world to me, any libra girl out there can you help me in any way you can?? I just want her back even if it takes months, should I just stop contacting her altogether?? Or keep relentlessly giving her affection. She even tells me that I'm not the problem and I've always been an amazing guy, she said she just doesn't love me the way she used too but sends mixed signals in person. I love her unconditionally

Hmm what was bad about the relationship?

Also you said in another post that you treat her better than her friends...my ex used to tell me that too. (FYI, she's going to keep them.)

Here's the thing Virgos seem to be nice people, sweet, loving in the sense that they will do anything for their loved ones, but at the same time they need some control...

I'm wondering if she has seen that you two shouldn't be together because you're just too different and that although you're a good guy (Libras hate to argue/hurt people's feelings) she knows she's not right for you. But she still has this love for you that's hard to let go of because you probably did have good times together in 2 1/2 years. Basically she is on that fence buddy and you need to get her off of it. Think hard about this relationship and ask yourself is she SERIOUSLY someone you can see yourself with long term...forever? Or are you maybe not the right fit for each other? (Believe me she HAS thought about this if she actually broke up with you.) Sometimes we are blinded by the what if that we don't see what is right in front of us. You may love her dearly, and she may still have some feelings for you, but you either have to stick it out and chase her....or cut that string she has attached you to. In my opinion, you should find someone more compatible for you. (I'm not basing your compatibility on sun signs alone..and I don't know your charts) I just know that she is on the fence of whether she even wants to talk to you and you are wanting it all from her. Not good.

We always got along great, neither of us like to argue so we just talked things out and let it go.

I can understand completely when you say we have a tendency to want control, I can see that if I take a step back and look at it. But I've been patient and making all kinds of changes.

She says she still finds me extremely attractive, and I am one of the sweetest guys she ever met.

She just keeps saying she feels the passion is gone for good. I don't think there is anything I can do about that.

I'm just going to walk away and not contact her, I don't want to be the guy that's always available whenever she wants, I don't want to wait around while she ends up in someone else's arms, I know I deserve the same love I give. She is an amazing person but I may not be the guy that can make her happy

I don't even know when the passion left as she puts it or if there is a way to get it back. I gave her all my love and it still wasn't enough, I can hold my head up knowing I tried my best

Posted by VirgosRcoool92
We always got along great, neither of us like to argue so we just talked things out and let it go. I can understand completely when you say we have a tendency to want control, I can see that if I take a step back and look at it. But I've been patient and making all kinds of changes.

She says she still finds me extremely attractive, and I am one of the sweetest guys she ever met.

She just keeps saying she feels the passion is gone for good. I don't think there is anything I can do about that. I'm just going to walk away and not contact her, I don't want to be the guy that's always available whenever she wants, I don't want to wait around while she ends up in someone else's arms, I know I deserve the same love I give. She is an amazing person but I may not be the guy that can make her happy

You're a SMART man! Smarter than any other we've given advice to. When I sever a relationship I end it! I have NEVER/EVER slept with any of my ex boyfriends. You can do the same your ex girlfriend. PFT! I don't even text nor call them. I also delete them from FB.

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Thank you everyone ☺️

Posted by 2Moon
you need to ask to jeane and jane84.

these 2 gives great advices. 🙂

That's kind of you to say. I always think I am talking into the wind...

Thank you ?

What's her Mars and Venus? Age?

She has lost interested in you and probably met someone else. Sorry.

And there is no such thing as unconditional love. Don't give yourself away for nothing. 🙂

OP, move on.. She is playing with you now.. Sorry.. When i decide its over and i dont have feelings anymore.. Its done..

She likes the attention you are giving her.. Selfish.. Play cold and hard to get on her... But dont try to win her back.. No point.. If you guys were ment to be together you would not have broken up.. There is someone that suits you better .. Go look for her!!!

If you want to stay friends with her, you must clear your head.. Leave the emotions..

Good luck... I know its hard. Thats life.. You have to fall a few time before you learn to walk 🙂