Libra and I got into a fight...did I mess up beyond repair

Libra gf and I got into a fight a few nights ago. We were over at her place and she offered me a bottle of wine. Now its not hers but apparently she was under the impression that her sis wouldnt mind. The sis came home, was all polite and fun and after i left she told my gf she needs to buy her a new bottle. Gf was really upset by it, we fought over me choosing to buy it back. I was really angry. Because she's always very protective of her no mater how badly she's treated. ....in the fit of anger i insulted her sister...said she didnt need to act like such a c***. Told libra dont talk to me until she gives me the price to buy it back.

She got really angry when i didnt speak to her the next day. When i realized how wrong i was....even though her sis treats her bad....blood is thicker than water after all....so i apologized. But was still still angry two days later.

To make things worse my friends took me out to get over the stress and when i was too drunk to make it back home they called her. She seemed genuinely worried but when morning came she was pissed off again, wouldnt speak. I threw some of her stuff across the room when she walked off on me...we haven't talked since. I dont know if we're over.

When i calmed down. I sent a voice mail.. I said she needs to let me know whats going on, she' s letting it drag out too long etc etc If she didnt reply i'll take it as we're over. She never replied. No text, call...

How much did i f*** up here? I'm so confused.

R u a guy or a female? Uhm idk what just happened here. Number one its a bottle of wine and me personally i wouldnt get into family beef. Come over have 2 3 bottles ans some flowers let it be...lastly dont throw ppl stuff period..keep the peace. Both yall need to chill this wasn't even that serious its petty

I think she will call u though.

Posted by lovely77
R u a guy or a female? Uhm idk what just happened here. Number one its a bottle of wine and me personally i wouldnt get into family beef. Come over have 2 3 bottles ans some flowers let it be...lastly dont throw ppl stuff period..keep the peace. Both yall need to chill this wasn't even that serious its petty

Female. Thats my confusion. She's acting like i cheated or something and treating me as such. It isn't worth all this drama.

But sometimes its hard to see things from another perspective. So i was hoping someone would tell me what im missing here

sounds like you bring a lot of drama to the relationship.

Ok yea it sounded like lesbian rel i can relate. Give her a few days to calm down. Two women equals more drama than a regular hetero rel...emotions r on 10...def calm down tis whole situation seemed silly etc. Both yall air signs so give eachother space libras will hit u if they care for u they r never gone. One thing women need work on is our emotions etc dont throw stuff and dont get mad so easily this goes for both of u. Im sorry to say unfortunately lesbian rel will always be drama u have two women with hormones no matter what sign u r

Libras can be stubborn so give her time. Be sweet and charming

Posted by lovely77
Ok yea it sounded like lesbian rel i can relate. Give her a few days to calm down. Two women equals more drama than a regular hetero rel...emotions r on 10...def calm down tis whole situation seemed silly etc. Both yall air signs so give eachother space libras will hit u if they care for u they r never gone. One thing women need work on is our emotions etc dont throw stuff and dont get mad so easily this goes for both of u. Im sorry to say unfortunately lesbian rel will always be drama u have two women with hormones no matter what sign u r

sounds exhausting.

@OP- Yeah you both have some clearing the air out, give some thought and work it out, talk normal and clear headed. So you can properly address issues you both have. Everyone goes through communication issues so where's your mercury, and moon?

Is this the first time shit hit the fan, and how did you resolve the issue before and afterwards?

It is @jeane it is i sometimes feel bad for men they have to deal with women and our back and forth etc. Two women makes it harder ive learned that over the years its alot more work

Im a lesbian do dont take offense to what i said ots just harder to deal with women they crazy at times sorry. Someone has be calm one in the rel to kind of diffuse the situation be bigger person etc. We argue iver silly stuff and be mad stubborn. I think u did good by calling etc. Give her a day or so women r stubborn

Posted by lovely77
It is @jeane it is i sometimes feel bad for men they have to deal with women and our back and forth etc. Two women makes it harder ive learned that over the years its alot more work

on the flipside, men can be clueless. it's a wonder why anyone stays in a relationship!

@lovely77- Same sex or hetero always have issues, small or big when arguments happen just set some space, see what compromise and changes you both need to do in order to work out or stay friends..

Alot of air hope the both of you guys@OP- have moon and mercury compatible with each to work it out or you both will be fed up.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- Yeah you both have some clearing the air out, give some thought and work it out, talk normal and clear headed. So you can properly address issues you both have. Everyone goes through communication issues so where's your mercury, and moon?

Is this the first time shit hit the fan, and how did you resolve the issue before and afterwards?

Ive already calmed down. Im just waiting on her....we've had fights before. But never this dramatic or this long. Its resolved within a day or two. Its usually me being upset because she did something hurtful and its hard to talk about. Id simply ask to meet after work or somewhere private and we just talk.
She's always been alot easier to diffuse than me. Affection and sorry works...because im not the sorry type so she apprecitates the effort.

My moon is in libra and mercury in Pisces

Posted by lovely77
Ok yea it sounded like lesbian rel i can relate. Give her a few days to calm down. Two women equals more drama than a regular hetero rel...emotions r on 10...def calm down tis whole situation seemed silly etc. Both yall air signs so give eachother space libras will hit u if they care for u they r never gone. One thing women need work on is our emotions etc dont throw stuff and dont get mad so easily this goes for both of u. Im sorry to say unfortunately lesbian rel will always be drama u have two women with hormones no matter what sign u r

Ill remember that. We've been trying to work on communication alot. Even though i threw stuff then. Thats not my MO. Im distant. Silent. Shes more verbal. slams doors or goes for a drive.

Ok yall figure it out...also we in a retrogade right now its alot drama going on etc doesnt end until 25 or feb1 i think

@OP- I have Aquarius moon and Taurus in mercury.. I can be impulsive and angry quickly. So if I was in that situation I would distant myself and then come back to work it out, if situation keeps happening though that simply have had happen and no changes happen as well I would just be friends. ...but it also does have to do with going both ways seeing both pov freshly.

@Aqua_firece can you enable your private message I have a question to ask.

You both sound like dysfunctional head cases.

Don't stress it! If you remembered what wine you guys drank go buy 3 of them and some chocolate dipped strawberries. ..all will be well in the land of love and fun. ‰ p.s. apologize to your libra in a soft tone and let her know she's your heart and watch her blush hahahaaa sexy shit.

So apparently she was trying to end the relationship. At least thats what a mutual friend said...i messaged yesterday. Saying i missed her and how much i wish we'd talk...but she kept ignoring me so i said id come over if she kept ignoring me cuz i found everything to be really silly.
I knew she read it. I waited until after lunch and went over. She's not there. So i went to a mutual friend and she tells me everything that was going on on her end. She knew what was going on....
So i begged her to talk to libra tell her to talk to me cuz this is unfair. Even if u want to end a relationship this is not the nicest way to do it.

Libra texted later saying we need to talk. So i asked when and when she didnt reply i apologized profusely, said whatever it is i'll work on it etc. And all she said was we'll talk about it ok. And i said ok.

Idk when she plans to talk, if she's still gonna break up with me, im just in panic

Everything is turning into....a pile of fkery.

Posted by ladylibra21
@Aqua_firece can you enable your private message I have a question to ask.

How do i do that :S im new here

Lovely77 hmu